whichonespink
Don Juan
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I'm new to the site and finally decided to join and seek some friendly advice.
I am a bouncer at a bar on a college campus so I get my fair share of girls hitting on me. Usually they are drunk so I just dismiss them and go about doing my job. But last week there was a really hot girl who came up to me and started talking. I deemed her very attractive and most importantly I felt that she wasn't drunk. She was there with a few girlfriends and a few guys...one of them clearly jealous that she was talking to me...anyway before she leaves she ends up giving me her number (which i did not ask for) and makes me swear to her that I will call. I promise her that I will call and wait till mon night to do it. (we met on a sat.). When I call her she says she was just talking about me and is kinda giggiling so I think I'm in. Anyway, she seems like shes running around the house by the tone of her voice and says she was on her way out the door but will call me back to make plans. Two days go by and I don't hear from her so I text her "are you coming in town this weekend?" (she lives like 60 miles away) after 2 hours i get a txt back saying "umm I think so. It's kinda still up in the air but Im pretty sure that we are. sorry i havent got a chance to call you back. ive gotten a lil sick. lol"....so i txt her back "thats ok i understand. im going to work out right now, but i'll call you later toninight. hopefully we can make plans for the weekend."....so i follow through on my promise and call her later that night...she doesnt answer....it's been 4 days now and i havent heard from her....can anybody tell me what the **** is going on? was i making myself too available?
I am a bouncer at a bar on a college campus so I get my fair share of girls hitting on me. Usually they are drunk so I just dismiss them and go about doing my job. But last week there was a really hot girl who came up to me and started talking. I deemed her very attractive and most importantly I felt that she wasn't drunk. She was there with a few girlfriends and a few guys...one of them clearly jealous that she was talking to me...anyway before she leaves she ends up giving me her number (which i did not ask for) and makes me swear to her that I will call. I promise her that I will call and wait till mon night to do it. (we met on a sat.). When I call her she says she was just talking about me and is kinda giggiling so I think I'm in. Anyway, she seems like shes running around the house by the tone of her voice and says she was on her way out the door but will call me back to make plans. Two days go by and I don't hear from her so I text her "are you coming in town this weekend?" (she lives like 60 miles away) after 2 hours i get a txt back saying "umm I think so. It's kinda still up in the air but Im pretty sure that we are. sorry i havent got a chance to call you back. ive gotten a lil sick. lol"....so i txt her back "thats ok i understand. im going to work out right now, but i'll call you later toninight. hopefully we can make plans for the weekend."....so i follow through on my promise and call her later that night...she doesnt answer....it's been 4 days now and i havent heard from her....can anybody tell me what the **** is going on? was i making myself too available?