have i messed up my chance?

bob52

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ill start by saying that im an incredibly shy guy, well up until a few weeks ago (i really dont know what's changed), a few months ago i was transferred depts to work on the tills, there is a **** load of talent on them but i really didnt think id have a chance with any of them but on Tuesday of last week i was on a till next to one of the fitter ones and we got to talking, we were having a laugh and everything, she said i was funny she also said it was her birthday the next day (Wednesday) and that she was going to be going down the local nigthclub on the Thursday, i told her i was planning on going with a few mates aswell so she said to make sure i say hi if i see her there

So thursday comes round and as soon as im in the club i see her calling me over (i was really shocked when i saw her becuase she was probably the fittest girl in the club) so i go and say hi, check out her new tatoo, say hi to her friend etc then i left and said i see her later, which i did a few times (saw her on and off all night). i Made one really big mistake though she was on the dance floor and she started calling me over again but i refused to go, i know im a moron, the night ended with me going home alone

I next saw her yesterday (Monday) at work, she started off a till far away from mine but managed to move closer towards the end of my shift cause her conveyor belt was broken, we got to talking again and she asked if i was going down the local club again, i said no becuase i might be going to a better one, i told her it was much better than the one she was going to and she asked me to invite her, so i did then she asked how we were getting there and i said we'll probably get a taxi, i thought everything was going so well and after about 20mins i bought it up again and asked if she fancied going to this better club then, i could tell by her facial expression that she didnt seem too interested now, DID I DO SOMETHING WRONG?

i Saw her again today (Tuesday) but she was never on a till next to me so i only bumped into her few times and never really got talking to her about anything inparticular, the problem is i saw her talking to another guy and having a laugh with him, she spent a couple of hours sort of passing between us both, when she finished her shift she said the usual goodbye and i said id see her next week, so im left wondering....HAVE I SOMEHOW ****ED UP ANY CHANCE OF GETTING WITH HER?
 

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FVCK NO! Denying her on the dance floor was a killer move, I would have done the same thing. As long as you were dancing with others, that keeps her confused on weather or not she interests you. The invite to the 'better' club, that was okay too. Notice how she jumped at the opportunity to invite herself, this shows she IS interested in you, and I gaurentee it is because you wouldnt dance with her before. She probably didnt like the taxi idea or something... The fact is, she wants to go with you. Dood, did you end up going with her? Also I think you were too AFC about the way you brought the topic up. You should have told her how you were getting there (by taxi) and then set it up right then, pick up time and all, and not brought it up anymore. Then you would have been goin with her, if you didnt. Well let me know what happened...
 

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FVCK NO! Denying her on the dance floor was a killer move
thats what i thought about afterwards, i figured she might be thinking why i didnt want to dance with her and it might push her to try it on with me, i realise the mistake i made when inviting her out to the better club by not asking her then for her number or something so i could tell her what was going on

Saw her yesterday (Tuesday, week after i met her) but as i didnt get to speak to her much nothing happended, i just said ill see her at work next week (i was hoping she'd check what i was doing in the week but she didnt)

im wondering wether or not to get a shift around the same time as her on Monday again and hope i get on a till net her, im just worried that she'll end up on a till next to this other guy and end up getting it on with him
 

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Originally posted by bob52
thats what i thought about afterwards, i figured she might be thinking why i didnt want to dance with her and it might push her to try it on with me, i realise the mistake i made when inviting her out to the better club by not asking her then for her number or something so i could tell her what was going on

Saw her yesterday (Tuesday, week after i met her) but as i didnt get to speak to her much nothing happended, i just said ill see her at work next week (i was hoping she'd check what i was doing in the week but she didnt)

im wondering wether or not to get a shift around the same time as her on Monday again and hope i get on a till net her, im just worried that she'll end up on a till next to this other guy and end up getting it on with him

What do you care if she flirts with other men? It's bound to happen, you flirt with other women, right? Don't put all of your efforts into one girl because if she ends up not liking you, then you put all your eggs into one basket and you just dropped the muthaf*ckin' eggs ;).
 
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