Have I been given the green light?

arcilitei34

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Well to start things off, I took about half a year off from DJ practices, I spent that time on fitness training and doing well in school. However, as of a few days ago I decided I should get back into the groove of things again, and shake off this half a year rust, so any advice or tips would be welcome!

There's this one girl that goes to my school, we've been acquaintences for about a year now, but since last month i've been talking ot her more often and getting to know her more. She's cute, and funny, so I figured "Why not come out of hibernating and experiment with her?". So far everything seems to be cool, she's opening up to me, and we flirt quite a bit, there's a little bit of touching now as well. One thing that's kind of gone in my mind is that her friends are now asking me if i'm interested in her, and I already know don't drag friends into it, so I dodged that bullet fine.

Now one day we were both sitting down and just chatting as I was helping her with her english assignment, and she offered me some sort of lipchap thing. I guess she was looking at my lips or wanting to do something to them, but I realized that I was all out of lipchap. Later that day we both went to the closest London drugs, and I got myself some lipchap, however, when it came time for me to pay for it, she stepped in and paid it for me. Which is really confusing, and i'm still trying to figure out her intentions for that. After I got my chapstick, we talked for a little while, flirted, and went and got some cake to eat. Overall I thought it seemed like progress.

The next night, we had a really lengthly conversation it started from around midnight and lasted till about 4 in the morning. While we were talking, asking questions, and getting to know eachother better i couldn't help but think "Shouldn't I hold some of it in for a sense of mystery?" and well, I did. However, these questions and topics we were talking about weren't regular "friend" caliber topics, at least in my opinion. We got to talking about stuff such as, if either of us watched porn, masturbated, how far we've gotten with the opposite sex, etc.
She also let me know of her first impression of me which I thought was really surprising, apparently she thought I was "Good looking, and hard to approach/talk to", I guess I come off as an intimidating kinda guy.

Overall, it's nice to know that she doesnt freak out when I ask her personal things like if she's ever masturbated, and all. But from here on out I have a slight idea of what to do, i'm not even sure of myself that it was a green light to pursue, i guess that's what taking time off'll do to ya. Any feedback, tips or advice would be helpful.
 

Maeisgood

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I know what you mean. It's difficult to tell when to advance to "be the man" and when to retreat to "be mysterious" and make them "work for it." That's part of the reason why I never asked the girl I'm wanting to forget about. But this post isn't about me.
 

UltimateScoundrel

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She wants you man. I can tell. Those are buying signals right there. Take this girl on a date, and move in for a kiss. If I know anything, it's that you're money.
 

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Well the way to tell is when you're talking about all that dirty stuff, does she giggle at all, does she seem taken aback that this guy is confident enough to talk about it openly, or does she act like she's talking to a girlfriend, not intimidated at all.

If it's the latter, not all hope is lost, she could just be very comfortable with that stuff.

But there is only one way to find out; just go for it.
 

arcilitei34

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i couldnt' really remember if she was giggling or not, but i was assured that i was the only person who's ever asked soemthing like that, and thus i'd be the only person who would know about it.
 
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Has she given you the green light?

I don't know. it sure seems like it.

do you like her? yes, you do, or you wouldn't have made this thread. that's all you need to know.
 

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the lip chap deally gives it away

put some on, then ask if she wants some

then KISS HER!!!

(i kno the chicks do this one but you could turn the tables nicely here!)

-deb
 

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I would do something like that, but it's spring break and she's on vacation out of the city for the next few days. Looks like im going to have to be a little patient.
 
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