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Have Asian women finally passed white women in the totem pole?

CornbreadFed

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I just heard an earful from my ex asking me why guys are going for Asian women now lol. I would say that your standard sorority skinny swiftie blonde l American girl is still on top, but Asian women are now ahead of red heads and brunettes. What is actually holding them up the most are non-white guys that put American white women on a pedestal IMHO. It is hard for me to explain, but every time I see a bad Asian girl in public, I just have to stop and be like gawd dayumm.
 

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In the USA market, White women are going to be more heavily pursued by men than women with East Asian ancestry.

The typical White male in the USA is more attracted to White women than women with East Asian ancestry.

There are more White males interested in East Asian women, both in East Asia and Asian-Americans.

There are also plenty of non-White males chasing White women in the USA as you acknowledge.
 

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There are more White males interested in East Asian women, both in East Asia and Asian-Americans.

There are also plenty of non-White males chasing White women in the USA as you acknowledge.
This is where I think the leverage for white women prevails. Most nonwhite men aren't interested in East Asian women and will prefer white women or Latinas if they dated interracially.
 

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In my opinion, this is a regional argument or state-based argument or just a general opinion argument.
White women have been the beauty standard since who knows? However, I see that changing within the next 30 years or so.

^^This is a decade old but it shows that on this particular dating app Asian women were the most desired women

Asian women have been killing it low-key in some parts of the Midwest for the last 7 years
They tend to be less fat, hot, and some are feminine. I also noticed Asian and latina women tend to be more preferred in the bay area for example.

I think a hot Asian woman has more choices than a hot white woman but this isn't something I can prove with statistical evidence
A hot Asian woman in the Midwest is considered "exotic" because there just aren't a lot of them. But a hot blonde white women are a dime a dozen in the Midwest I noticed a lot of men not just white men but men of other races pursue hot Asian women here relentlessly because of this "exotic" factor.

I don't think Asian women collectively have surpassed white women. However, I do think asian women defitnely have become hotter in the last decade in America. I also think that a hot Asian woman has just as many options if not more dating-wise than a hot white woman.
 

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Years ago Asian women were considered lower tier for American men. It's what you got if you couldn't get a solid white girl. Kind of frowned upon like the passport bro's Today.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I just heard an earful from my ex asking me why guys are going for Asian women now lol. I would say that your standard sorority skinny swiftie blonde l American girl is still on top, but Asian women are now ahead of red heads and brunettes. What is actually holding them up the most are non-white guys that put American white women on a pedestal IMHO. It is hard for me to explain, but every time I see a bad Asian girl in public, I just have to stop and be like gawd dayumm.
Cause white women are harder to game.

Masculinity has gone downhill and asian women don't care so much about masculinity and love the ego of being with a white guy.
 

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Not sure if it is related, but someone told me that before a men gets married they have to **** an Asian woman. I spoke to someone and they said the experience was disappointing.
 
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