Have any of you had unexplainable bad gut feelings about people you meet?

[sangheilios]

I've only had this happen twice where I almost sensed an evil presence and kept having the urge to just leave the area.

The first time, I swear a few weeks later this same dude was on the news for stalking and killing his girlfriend that had dumped him a few months earlier... can't be a hundred percent sure but it looked like his twin if it wasn't.

Not sure why with the other time but I didn't wait to find out.

How exactly did you cross paths with that first guy? I believe feelings like this are quite rare but we recollect them quite well, as has been discussed on this thread.

What was the context of the second example you mentioned?

 

[sangheilios]

That sounds pretty funny man. I think he's probably got mental issues/PTSD. I'm into psychology so I know theres a ton of different type of mental and personality disorders people have. He could be for instance dealing with Multiple personality disorder, depersonalization, schizophrenia, schizotypal, etc

and yeah I definitely get a weird feeling around people I meet. But I think rather than a feeling its just the cues they give off.. adn the things they say/do.

Yeah, that's what I ended up assuming was the case. I remember telling a few people I knew back then about that story and their responses were interesting lol.

The first guy I told was this middle aged guy from NJ, he actually got angry when I told him that and he said something like "Who the **** says that, you should have slugged him one" lol.

I told this other guy, that was around my age who was a former Marine, and he said something like "Every time I'd see him at the gym I'd go out of my way to say hi and mess with him" lol.

Another guy I told and he was like "That sounds sketchy as ****, you were just trying to be friendly and normal with that guy"

LOL

That specific guy I still see all these years later off and on, I'll usually see him once every few months at the gym, and you can tell something is off. His facial features and eyes just don't look right. The strange thing though is I've seen people interact with him like he is normal, I don't really get it.

I partially agree with you about the cues they give off, but perhaps it's something with subconsciously pick up on and it manifests as a physical sensation or "bad gut feeling".

 

[BackInTheGame78]

How exactly did you cross paths with that first guy? I believe feelings like this are quite rare but we recollect them quite well, as has been discussed on this thread.

What was the context of the second example you mentioned?

I was at a park sitting on a bench and he was standing nearby. Something just made me feel really uneasy about him. I looked at him and I remember locking eyes with him for a few seconds and it almost felt like he had no soul. He was expressionless.

I got up and left shortly after. Just a really weird feeling that I shouldn't be around this person anymore.


The second one I was out shopping and was walking down an aisle looking for something and noticed a guy next to me. Same sort of feeling...didn't wait to look at him, just grabbed what I needed and left the aisle.

 

[SW15]

She was just wondering if and how a 6'4 bodybuilder is single. You exchanged numbers; made plans -> Bingo. She knows you not making love to anybody. Her work is done.

I never said she was in love with me, she was just an attention *****. I'm also not a bodybuilder btw haha.

She likely was wondering how a 6'4" man with a top physique was seeking new dates. She might have figured that a 6'4" man with a top physique had immense abundance.

There are times that you don't want to give a woman the satisfaction of knowing that you are unattached. However, those are rarer and most men will move forward with trying to get something. To @sangheilios , this was a unknown hottie at the gym with potential.

I work from home, two months ago, the hottest Yoga Teacher, who knew where I lived, called me on my phone "Bad Boy, I'm downstairs, I want to come up." I let her in, she looked for 5 min, chit-chatted about nothing, and then left. I was shocked. Then after a few minutes, I realized that she didn't come up to make love to me and I didn't make a move, she came up to if I had a girlfriend; to see how a guy like me, who has a place like me, a car like me, business like me, is single. She saw I was single and she left. That's it.

How did you meet this yoga teacher and get her phone number? I think there's a good story here.

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

I could easily within a matter of seconds after meeting a new group of people, tell whos gonna be a problem and whos an assist there.

You just "smell it" subconsciously.

 

[sangheilios]

She likely was wondering how a 6'4" man with a top physique was seeking new dates. She might have figured that a 6'4" man with a top physique had immense abundance.

There are times that you don't want to give a woman the satisfaction of knowing that you are unattached. However, those are rarer and most men will move forward with trying to get something. To @sangheilios , this was a unknown hottie at the gym with potential.



How did you meet this yoga teacher and get her phone number? I think there's a good story here.

Not really, there was something very off with that particular woman. She was a massive attention ***** that regularly lead tons of men on to ultimately nowhere lol. Totally very ****able material though and it would have been an awesome lay but definitely not dating or relationship material. The thing is, you'd make yourself go nuts getting involved with a woman like that, there are plenty of other women out there.

 

[sangheilios]

I could easily within a matter of seconds after meeting a new group of people, tell whos gonna be a problem and whos an assist there.

You just "smell it" subconsciously.

What do you mean by someone who is going to be a problem vs an assist?

 

[sangheilios]

I was at a park sitting on a bench and he was standing nearby. Something just made me feel really uneasy about him. I looked at him and I remember locking eyes with him for a few seconds and it almost felt like he had no soul. He was expressionless.

I got up and left shortly after. Just a really weird feeling that I shouldn't be around this person anymore.


The second one I was out shopping and was walking down an aisle looking for something and noticed a guy next to me. Same sort of feeling...didn't wait to look at him, just grabbed what I needed and left the aisle.

Interesting. There are a lot of legitimately crazy and also evil people out there in the world. Some we can pick up on very easily, as was the case you mentioned here. I think there are also cases where everything at face value checks out but yet you still have a feeling something is off about that person but you can't really place it. I've had several experiences like this, with both men and women, and often times months later something will come to light that confirmed my suspicions.

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

What do you mean by someone who is going to be a problem vs an assist?

I will use a real life example so it will be clear an accurate.

Once I was in a night club and saw a table with 4 girls sitting, I approached them generally without giving attention to any in particular.

I said something like "what's wrong with guys here, are they too shy to talk to you" (lame line I know but it works with groups).

I can tell you that in less that 2 seconds I felt which of those girls was gonna support my presence there and which would do her best to throw me away and put the other girls against me.

I had the confirmation few minutes later after I was sitting with them.

The problem one was like "why is this guy even here, that's our night", the assist right after grabbing my arm told me not to worries cause I was one of the gang.

At some moment I was starting to feel the heat so I left the table and they went to dance.

Few minutes later the assist grabbed me and lead me back to the table, telling the girls that I was gonna be her boyfriend for that night, they all laughter except the problem girl but at that point it was 3-1.

Didnt bang any of them that night but got digits of an other girl on a nearby table and banged her the following weekend.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Have any of you had unexplainable bad gut feelings about people you meet?

Does the sun rise every morning and sets again in the evening? Is the color of the ocean blue?
Yes, of course.
Many times I have noticed red flags about people intuitively and in many cases it has turned out to be true.
Some people are just losers and not just worth to hang around with because they are bad company for you.

 

[manfrombelow]

How is this topic Don Juan Discussion again? I mean this is a great topic but shouldn't it belong to Anything Else or something?

 

[sangheilios]

How is this topic Don Juan Discussion again? I mean this is a great topic but shouldn't it belong to Anything Else or something?

Good point, I just posted the thread without really considering the sub section it should be on.