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[YAboi]

If you must judge me, do so by my actions, see not someone who is "begging for attention" but rather as someone who actively participating in discussions where the most benefit may come, if men truly are the superior species.

The best way to learn about men is though men, not women. I believe my actions show that I am someone who cares about understanding the opposite sex, not using or manipulating them.

Sometimes you just gotta ignore people when they choose to flame for no reason. You and everyone else on this forum has a right to air out their opinions....

 

[styleman]

The same can be said for men. They start out attentive, loving, caring and over time that attention drops and fades into the abyss, as does the sex drive it helped fuel.

I feel that the cause of this is the fault of both the man and the lady.

From my experience, when a relationship first starts off a lady will want all of her man's time. Totally loyalty, companionship and attention. Most men will be willing to give this. In the back of his mind the man knows that she will soon bore of this undying attention.

Low and behold, the lady does bore of constant attention; in some cases this may be the end of the relationship, but in others it will carry on and most men will feel that it is good that the lady has now seen the reality that he had seen all along - we both have our own lives, and we know we love each other so he is glad that in his mind she no longer needs constant reassurance.

Unfortunately, the lady does not see it like this, she acts only on what she is feeling at that given moment, she is board of the attention she is receiving and so shuns it. By this stage the man has given up on, what are in his mind, superficial displays of affection. At this stage the lady misses the attention she once received, and feels she is being neglected.

A natural human response is to withhold something (female sex drive in this case) that the other party wants (man) in order to get back what was once there ('superficial' romance and passion), however this does not work, for without the lady wanting to offer sex to the man, the man has no drive to have emotional feelings for the lady.

 

[MascaraSnake]

Skimmed it, it's BS. I'm not going to actually read it.

Any man who knows what he's doing should be able to sniff a woman out who's like this and oust her immediately. They only have control if you let them.

 

[pLaYtHiNg]

I feel that the cause of this is the fault of both the man and the lady.

From my experience, when a relationship first starts off a lady will want all of her man's time. Totally loyalty, companionship and attention. Most men will be willing to give this. In the back of his mind the man knows that she will soon bore of this undying attention.

Low and behold, the lady does bore of constant attention; in some cases this may be the end of the relationship, but in others it will carry on and most men will feel that it is good that the lady has now seen the reality that he had seen all along - we both have our own lives, and we know we love each other so he is glad that in his mind she no longer needs constant reassurance.

Unfortunately, the lady does not see it like this, she acts only on what she is feeling at that given moment, she is board of the attention she is receiving and so shuns it. By this stage the man has given up on, what are in his mind, superficial displays of affection. At this stage the lady misses the attention she once received, and feels she is being neglected.

A natural human response is to withhold something (female sex drive in this case) that the other party wants (man) in order to get back what was once there ('superficial' romance and passion), however this does not work, for without the lady wanting to offer sex to the man, the man has no drive to have emotional feelings for the lady.

I really agree with this for the most part. In my opinion, though, I wouldn't say the woman becomes "bored" exactly with the man's attention, but becomes smothered when he is always around and doesn't give her room to breathe.

I have personally found myself becoming annoyed in some of my past relationships by dating men who had no lives... no jobs, no school, no anything. Not only does a man need to let a woman breathe, (and can distinguish when this is appropriate or not), he should have a life, so interesting discussions and conversations about our daily experiences can be shared. I often get the types who call me up, expecting to be entertained by my interesting life, and really, it feels like a burden.

As for the men becoming too neglectful, women can and do with-hold sex out of spite. In some cases, the sex isn't with-held, the sex drive honestly becomes non-existant due to a growing lack of attraction. I, too, have experienced this and had great difficulties as I tried to articulate why I wasn't feeling sexual anymore. In fact, even though I'm single now I'm still experiencing a total lack of a sex drive. It's kind of scary!

Once again, much respect to you plaything :rockon:

Thank you very much. I appreciate the encouragement.

I'm learning more about women than men here, but it's all quite interesting and I'm glad that I'm allowed to participate; at least I am tolerated.

 

[YAboi]

As for the men becoming too neglectful, women can and do with-hold sex out of spite. In some cases, the sex isn't with-held, the sex drive honestly becomes non-existant due to a growing lack of attraction. I, too, have experienced this and had great difficulties as I tried to articulate why I wasn't feeling sexual anymore. In fact, even though I'm single now I'm still experiencing a total lack of a sex drive. It's kind of scary!

This proves that all those people who say women like and want sex as much as men do are bloody liars!

Their sexual organs are way too complex for a female to have guaranteed orgasms every single time.
Only a few women see sex as purely an outlet for pleasure.

This is because women don't respond to physical attraction as much as we do. Things like a man's bank balance, status and ability to sell a world of deceit and fantasy are what make a female get wet. I mean c'mon we think about sex a lot of times each day, can anyone on this forum honestly argue that women do to.

 

[Duffdog]

I really agree with this for the most part. In my opinion, though, I wouldn't say the woman becomes "bored" exactly with the man's attention, but becomes smothered when he is always around and doesn't give her room to breathe.

I have personally found myself becoming annoyed in some of my past relationships by dating men who had no lives... no jobs, no school, no anything. Not only does a man need to let a woman breathe, (and can distinguish when this is appropriate or not), he should have a life, so interesting discussions and conversations about our daily experiences can be shared. I often get the types who call me up, expecting to be entertained by my interesting life, and really, it feels like a burden.

As for the men becoming too neglectful, women can and do with-hold sex out of spite. In some cases, the sex isn't with-held, the sex drive honestly becomes non-existant due to a growing lack of attraction. I, too, have experienced this and had great difficulties as I tried to articulate why I wasn't feeling sexual anymore. In fact, even though I'm single now I'm still experiencing a total lack of a sex drive. It's kind of scary!



Thank you very much. I appreciate the encouragement.

I'm learning more about women than men here, but it's all quite interesting and I'm glad that I'm allowed to participate; at least I am tolerated.

Here's a comment:

Plaything

Seriously, why are you on this website? Bored at work and need a diversion?

More and more I am starting to realize that the prediction of Aldous Huxley is coming true right before our eyes. The sniveling slob who wrote the book this thread reviews is of average intelligence and low social strata. Thus, his experiences are ENTIRELY true, from his point of view as a peon. Other people in the world who are not peons have much different viewpoints and simply laugh at how pandering that book sounds. Its basically a book written by losers, for losers, to make losers feel better about the fact that they will always be losers and their genetic line is a dead end. Their existence is, in fact, a mistake. Literally. If you are wondering why it is difficult to attract a female-- you are not supposed to reproduce. It should not require any effort whatsoever, and if it does,...ding! ding! ding! Guess what: You are obviously genetically inferior and your genetic code should end with you.

This world is turning into a caste system based on attractiveness. Those who are attractive do whatever they want to inferior people because they are genetically superior. Then, when they are through abusing the lower level humans for entertainment, they procreate with another very attractive person to ensure that their kids are on top of the world without having to try. I am continually amazed that the true underlying answer to pretty much every question ever asked by anyone on this site is "because they can"... attractive people get away with whatever they want and stomp on anyone in their way because they can. Rich people do the same. They have different life experiences, different opportunities and different options with regards to everything that comes their way.

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I recall being on a date with some chic from the internet last week and being completely unsurprised at how it ended-- she kept repeating "you are sooooo hotttt" and fawning over me for the duration of the night while I was the biggest d1ck publicly that I could be. I made her pay for everything and I hit on some blonde who was checking me out while I was sitting at the table with her. The whole time I was thinking; "there is no way that this girl will put up with me doing this, will she?" And she did, time after time. Even after the date, she called and called and txted me forever wanting to hook up. I then realized that I was doing what hot girls get to do to average guys. Because they are attractive, they can abuse any guy of lower attractiveness all they want and there is nothing the guy can do. If he leaves, big deal, she didn't like him anyways. If he stays and tries to please her, that is her ticket to manipulate this guy for all he has.

Interestingly enough, this same night, I came out of a bar and was talking to a normal hot girl when 2 pua's decided that they were going to try to hit on her. How did I know that they were PUA's? Two short average dorks had a conference inside the bar before they double teamed this girl outside...I saw them. First thing out of their mouths was some stupid canned opener...then, they proceed down the list of things to say until they got to the point where they had to offer things to her to convince her to join them. After offering her weed, alcohol and breakfast for the promise of sex, she walked down the street with them-- but not before turning to me and laughing (so that the two guys could not see it of course). Yay pick up artists! You successfully picked up a girl and convinced her to go with you...

Well, I saw the girl again a few days later. When I asked her how her "date" went, she just laughed for about 5 minutes about how these two dudes actually thought that they were going to get something from her. I then immediately realized that I was doing the same thing to the internet girl and didn't even care. I totally forgot!!

I honestly think that these really hot girls that average guys approach totally forget they ever existed in the first place. As if the person who was talking to her was totally arbitrary and maybe never was there. There is no "guilt", there is no "awwww poor guy"...there is nothing that occurs mentally outside a passing realization that something has taken a block of time from their life. That is the major flaw with this book, the fact that the author promotes that the females have any conscious awareness that they are doing something negative to another person is completely laughable. The females don't even consider these guys human beings, just arbitrary speed bumps in the way of finding a genetically superior mate. In short, they treat average/ below average guys poorly because that is how hot women are supposed to treat them. Then, after the resources have been exhausted with the first average guy, you move on to the next goldmine.

I think that the author of the book does a particularly good job of softening the exposition that inferior males will never have the same experience as the superior males. They are simply genetically unequipped to elicit any type of desire from an attractive female. The only hope they have is to become rich, or have high status, and even then, there is no guarantee that the female will remain loyal for any amount of time.

When I see posts like:

"There are too many tall hot guys in clubs"
"Why do girls give you their number and never call"
"Look don't matter...do they?"

I know that I am totally in the wrong website participating in an incorrect strata of other males. Can anyone recommend a website for tall, attractive, successful educated males who get to fvck average guys girlfriends and laugh about it? I need one.

 

[YAboi]

Here's a comment:


I honestly think that these really hot girls that average guys approach totally forget they ever existed in the first place. As if the person who was talking to her was totally arbitrary and maybe never was there. There is no "guilt", there is no "awwww poor guy"...there is nothing that occurs mentally outside a passing realization that something has taken a block of time from their life. That is the major flaw with this book, the fact that the author promotes that the females have any conscious awareness that they are doing something negative to another person is completely laughable. The females don't even consider these guys human beings, just arbitrary speed bumps in the way of finding a genetically superior mate. In short, they treat average/ below average guys poorly because that is how hot women are supposed to treat them. Then, after the resources have been exhausted with the first average guy, you move on to the next goldmine.

I think that the author of the book does a particularly good job of softening the exposition that inferior males will never have the same experience as the superior males. They are simply genetically unequipped to elicit any type of desire from an attractive female. The only hope they have is to become rich, or have high status, and even then, there is no guarantee that the female will remain loyal for any amount of time.

When I see posts like:

"There are too many tall hot guys in clubs"
"Why do girls give you their number and never call"
"Look don't matter...do they?"

I know that I am totally in the wrong website participating in an incorrect strata of other males. Can anyone recommend a website for tall, attractive, successful educated males who get to fvck average guys girlfriends and laugh about it? I need one.

Man you are seriously super shallow but it seems to be working perfectly for you so more grease to your elbow. I remember reading one of your posts where you laid out a routine for what it takes to pull when on a night out and it was the most superficial **** I ever read but then again it was one of the clearest explanations of the whole pullin dynamic.......

 

[Duffdog]

Man you are seriously super shallow but it seems to be working perfectly for you so more grease to your elbow. I remember reading one of your posts where you laid out a routine for what it takes to pull when on a night out and it was the most superficial **** I ever read but then again it was one of the clearest explanations of the whole pullin dynamic.......

You could call me either shallow or a realist. The world of attractive people really is how I described. Or, you can persist in delusion. Either way, the result will be the same for the people who are genetically inferior, no matter what they choose to believe. Throughout history, it has been possible to jump castes by acquisition of material things. Now that the control of material things is in the hands of females and males, the males are the decoration and there really is no way to alter what females truly want...good genes. Even if you have managed to jump castes into a rich lifestyle, the female is pretty much required to cheat on you with someone possessing superior genes if she wants her offspring to have the greatest chance of success. The inferior male still has to pay for it, however.

It is possibly the most difficult question any male should have to ask himself-- "should I be reproducing?" or "are my children going to have as rough of a time with life as I am?" or even "would they be better off not existing in the first place?" difficult things to ask oneself. I personally think that the author of that book would have better served humanity not existing in the first place. He could have escaped the lifetime of servitude and frustration which comes from being an obvious genetic dead end.

Or, I could be retarded and not know what I am talking about. Your choice.

 

[Kal0051]

Or, I could be retarded and not know what I am talking about. Your choice.

yes, your retarded. Most of the amazing good looking people aren't successes in life, they just coast on their looks.