hating for breaking nc

[sinnerman]

i just hate that i caved in and broke no contact. one week of no contact i handled well and now after watching her tagged in a mutual friend's photo on fb all the hell broke lose. she completed her final exams today so texted her to say hope it went well. when i dint get a reply i called her up. she dint answer. an hour later she called back saying she's out with friends and phone was on silent so she dint receive. i played it cool told her that i hope it went well enjoy your day. still i hate myself for acting this way. now after hearing her voice its more difficult to forget everything and stop the memories from flooding my mind and its annoying to the core

 

[BadNews]

Is this a breakup? If it is, you're going to hate yourself even more if you continue down this path. You need to focus on other things in your life...and try to keep yourself occupied (especially for the first few weeks) so you're not sitting around thinking about calling her, or what shes doing. It gets easier as time goes on. But every time you slip up like this...its like you have to start all over again.

 

[kenpiffyjr]

Dont beat yourself up. So she thinks you're a simp for a day or two. Cool. Start NC again and soon she'll stop thinking that and you'll be cool.

 

[sinnerman]

Is this a breakup? If it is, you're going to hate yourself even more if you continue down this path. You need to focus on other things in your life...and try to keep yourself occupied (especially for the first few weeks) so you're not sitting around thinking about calling her, or what shes doing. It gets easier as time goes on. But every time you slip up like this...its like you have to start all over again.

it is a breakup but still feelings are there on both sides but had to end it as im going out of country for a long time..however the breakup happened a 2-3 weeks back but she continued being in touch..the no contact phase started a week back.

i handled the first few days well..hanging out with friends..right now a few min back she texted me in reply to the text that i sent her and wrote tht she was not alone in the car so couldnt talk more..i havent replied to that..nor am i planning to..

thanks for the response

 

[sinnerman]

Dont beat yourself up. So she thinks you're a simp for a day or two. Cool. Start NC again and soon she'll stop thinking that and you'll be cool.

thanks..im going no contact again.

 

[SamTheHobit]

It happens.