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dointhingsright

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ok heres the deal. i have a nice car, nice cloths, look good, and i go through alot of girlfriends. because of this it seems like i have people that hate me. im not a hater, i dont even fight. my current girlfriend i like alot. she has some friends that are guys that dont even know me. i guess they now hate me...... im not sure if its because they dont want her to get hurt or whatnot. they tell her to break up with me. i dont get it. is all this hating normal. i guess the main question is how should i go about and handle this with people and my girl?
 

ShizamDaMan

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The sad thing is that people wil become jealous when you improve yourself. Try to befriend them if possible and show them you're a good hearted person. If you can't do that, ignore them or crush them completely.

Not everyone can handle others improving rapidly to the point where you surpass them. Keep your friends close, and keep your enemies closer...
 

Stratocaster

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The best way to get someone to like you is to ASK THEM to do YOU a favor. It sounds wierd but it works. Think about it...if you ask if you can do something for them they think you are up to something....
 

blinkin_winkin

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Originally posted by ShizamDaMan
The sad thing is that people wil become jealous when you improve yourself. Try to befriend them if possible and show them you're a good hearted person. If you can't do that, ignore them or crush them completely.

Not everyone can handle others improving rapidly to the point where you surpass them. Keep your friends close, and keep your enemies closer...
Right freaking on. Be friendly with all those who are in your corner. Those in the other corner are about to get the crap kicked out of them.

Don't mind the haters. You are above them. Look down at them for a second and then move on with your new and highly improved lifestyle.
 

dointhingsright

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thanks man. you put me in the right mind set. im not going to go find these guys and start a fight with them, its not worth it. i will just act like it doesnt piss me off and act like a friend to them. if i did get offended by it and say something they win and then they will probably find people to jump me or some bulls*** like that. lifes to short to worry about what other people and think, people need to get lifes around here.
 

Ice Cold

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Originally posted by dointhingsright
thanks man. you put me in the right mind set. im not going to go find these guys and start a fight with them, its not worth it. i will just act like it doesnt piss me off and act like a friend to them.
WRONG!

They are trying to make your life miserable and you're gonna be acting as a friend to them? WTF man?

You've lost them already. They hate u because you are a success. They won't change. The only thing to do here is to dump them all in a large garbage container and find new ones.

These are miserable beople who feel that you are much better than them and they try to hurt you because of it. Find somebody better, who would not be threatened by your successes.

Been there myself, it makes you feel kinda good and sad at the same time.
 

icallug

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hahaha back in the day, like grade 7 i went out with a girl. and this other guy didnt even know me but because i schooled him at basketball. he hated me. but now we go to the same school so its all good. and i never play bball anymore so i suck at it
 
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