When I was WBAFC, my oneitis was a girl I didn't even talk to and didn't know, I was way to shy to, she was just in a class or two in my school. It just got worse and worse to the point where I would plan out what I would say and I never would say anything to her except maybe can I borrow a pen. Wow what a loser I was.
Anyway, the oneitis went on for about 7 months and it physically hurt. I couldnt talk to this girl at all so like a afc i got her aim s/n without asking her and i i'md her. Doing this along with telling a good number of people i liked her along with stalking her to work up the balls to say something to her made her strongly dislike me and think i'm a total creep.
How did i deal with it?
This website, when i learned what oneitis is. I always felt giving up on her would be like a defeat, you knoe what they say....never give up etc etc, so i didnt. Finally, I just said you know what, you have oneitis, big time, stop or i'd honestly die. The tension I put on myself from being a shy ass kid who couldnt talk to this dumb b1tch grew so extreme i lost some hair for god sakes. My hair went normal thank god after i got over her, but damn that was a absolute low. This was a while ago but its so clear. Think about that....7 monthss obsessing on a girl you can't even work the balls up to talk to. amazing