I've met a total of 3 girls from MySpace. My first account was way before anyone even knew what the site was. It was more or less for music. I could search my whole zip code and I'd be lucky if I got 100 profiles. Now it's 3,000+.
I'll call the girls A, B, and C.
I met A while out with a friend of mine. She attended the same college as him and was in a few of his classes. Of course when she saw his MySpace, she saw mine and we began to chat over AIM. One night I ended up going over to her place. Long story short, I left that morning. :cheer:
I met B strictly through MySpace. She was busting balls about my profile, so I busted balls right back. Eventually we started talking over AIM, and about a week later she said she's always in my area with her girlfriends. Sure enough we met up, and I went back to her dorm (about an hour away). We made out, she gave me head, but we didn't ****. In the morning she took me home, we still talked on AIM for about a week after then it all stopped.
Girl C ended up becoming my girlfriend for about 6 months. I busted her balls, and she loved every second of it. Once we started talking on AIM, we realized we had a mutual friend. So we met up, and well 6 months later it ended. She was pretty good looking to. She reminded me of the pornstar Brandy Talore, and that's what attracted me.
Since then I've grown....
You know the saying there are more fish in the sea? That's true, and MySpace is a pond. Sure there are insanely hot girls with profiles. But a little interaction goes so much further than a flashy page with pictures of girls for social proof. You want the best proof? Meet a girl and make her laugh. Trying to act cool and nonchalant trying to find the best picture of your self, while creating the most unique page trying to attract women while pretending not to attract them with the material in the page is stupid. Friend requests mean jack ****.
I see so many good looking women that don't even get approached. They didn't dress like that to be a ***** and intimidate you. They dressed that way to attract the opposite sex (or in some cases the same sex.) But they will be a ***** if you come off as a loser, creep, weirdo, a phony... whatever. All that time on their hair and outfit wasn't meant for them to be oggled from across the room with your tongue out. Again, they're like that for a reason. For you to make a move on them! Think of it this way... Yes or No. You've got a 50/50 chance with every girl you lay eyes on. Swallow your pride and step up to the plate? Or sit on the bench and watch the game go on without you.
Sorry for the little rant here. But whatever you think MySpace can give you don't rely on it. Hell cancel your account. I guarantee that in the first week you'll have success. I'm not even talking about sex either... a phone # will do. That's going to eliminate all rejection fears. It's like a rollercoaster. Looking at it scares the crap out of you, and you're nervous as hell when you get strapped in then dragged up the lift hill. But once you're down the drop you realize you love it. You feel alive, and you want to ride it again. Same thing.