Has anyone here lived in Vegas?

[forcerecon01]

The Poker tables in Vegas have got to be juicy.

 

[SW15]

A while ago I accepted that nothing will change for me socially where I'm at, so I used it as an excuse to pursue my wealth goals, which I worked aggressively towards this past couple years

That's a really bad emotional place to be. If any man thinks he's exhausted all of his social options in X city, it's time to move in. Certain people are bad fits with certain cities for any number of reasons. I've seen examples where a man doesn't do well either in his career or social life in a certain city. At least your career and wealth building has been going ok in the current city.

However, I was also having some issues with fully accepting this and I noticed that this is when I started experiencing a lot of negative emotions, stress, etc. I had a dream a few weeks ago that was telling me in a voice that "nothing will change if you stay here".

There are times that a break from the mating environment is necessary. However, longer term involuntary celibacy is going to produce harsh physiological and psychological reactions. I think some of this is what you are experiencing.

Though this isn't the reason why I'm considering moving there, I genuinely believe that a city like Las Vegas would provide ample opportunity to meet women and actually practice game. Where I'm currently located the opportunity for that is very limited, which was one of the reasons I totally gave up back in 2019. It may be what I need to get me out of my comfort zone.

It's possible that Las Vegas could be an environmental improvement for you if your mental state is being brought down by your current city. It's rare that moving from one city to another changes mating outcomes if the place that is being moved away from has over 150,000 in population. You might be an exception. Your inner game problems could be tied solely to great unhappiness in a current city. I tend to think the issue might be more than solely a geography issue. Your fundamentals are some of the best here with being 6'4" and having big muscles. That's the so-called "Chad" look that women seek. There needs to be a way for you to release your inner "Chad". You have such great potential to seduce women and seduce elite looking women based on your top two physical attributes.

You're also articulate in the forums and could be a good person to talk to in real life.

 

[sangheilios]

That's a really bad emotional place to be. If any man thinks he's exhausted all of his social options in X city, it's time to move in. Certain people are bad fits with certain cities for any number of reasons. I've seen examples where a man doesn't do well either in his career or social life in a certain city. At least your career and wealth building has been going ok in the current city.



There are times that a break from the mating environment is necessary. However, longer term involuntary celibacy is going to produce harsh physiological and psychological reactions. I think some of this is what you are experiencing.



It's possible that Las Vegas could be an environmental improvement for you if your mental state is being brought down by your current city. It's rare that moving from one city to another changes mating outcomes if the place that is being moved away from has over 150,000 in population. You might be an exception. Your inner game problems could be tied solely to great unhappiness in a current city. I tend to think the issue might be more than solely a geography issue. Your fundamentals are some of the best here with being 6'4" and having big muscles. That's the so-called "Chad" look that women seek. There needs to be a way for you to release your inner "Chad". You have such great potential to seduce women and seduce elite looking women based on your top two physical attributes.

You're also articulate in the forums and could be a good person to talk to in real life.

I've done exceptionally well for myself financially, particularly since COVID started, and it's the sole reason why I'm still in my area. I'm in kind of a unique set of circumstances where I'm doing very well but I'm kind of stuck where I'm at right now. For me to relocate I can support myself but I may not be in a place where I can continue to maintain the type of wealth building I'm capable of in the here and now. I'm in a place where I'm willing to sacrifice personal happiness for the medium term, next couple to few years, in order to hit my wealth goals that will allow me to live the life I want afterwards. However, I'm not sure if this is something I can sustain.

As for the social and dating aspects of my area and my current life. I honestly don't really need all that much in regards to socializing to feel normal and mentally healthy. As I mentioned on here, I've had so many bad experiences in my area with trying to make male friends and dating women.

A lot of the other men in my area honestly come across as pretty fake, one particular thing I see is them overexaggerating their accomplishments, status, wealth, etc. There is one example I can cite where this particular man was acting like he was running this super successful business, was making all of this money, etc. Anyway, I later found out that he literally never had a job and that his parents paid for everything. I just don't vibe at all with something like that and I lack the characteristics to be a poser that tries to become something I'm not in order to fit in, which I feel is a good trait to have but has created difficulty with making friends.

As for the dating scene, I feel outside of the university scene out here, which I'm now well aged out of, the quality is overall fairly low, both physically and behaviorally. I actually had a conversation with someone at the gym I go to and he grew up in my area and made a remark about the dating scene being difficult and said that for every attractive woman there were 5 men on her level in our area, meaning the dating market is heavily skewed in a female's favor. I've actually had a few conversations fairly recently with other men that said something very similar, which to me shows there may be some truth to this.