Has anyone here ever called a girl "creepy"?

[Atom Smasher]

I've been considering the effect this might have in disarming a woman in various scenarios. I'd like to hear any FRs having to do with that.

It seems like this phrase is their "ace in the hole", so-to-speak, a blanket dismissal of a man and I'd like to try to turn it around on them just as a fun and possibly enlightening experiment.

I've never been called a creep by a woman, but we always know when they're thinking that, don't we?

 

[Naughty Ninja]

I was just thinking the same thing yesterday. lol. I'm going to try that on some chick at work.

She's pulled that nonsense on me at work a few times yet always runs up to me to say hello first and get's "upset" if I haven't acknowledged her. Hilarious. AWing at it's finest.

We'd always talk about Sushi at work. I'd told her to come with me for lunch sometime and she went around making a scene behind my back that she was "scared" and the rest of the AW drama with orbiter's and the few un-attractive chicks in the department.

I found out about it though never said a word about it. I thought it was amusing ESPECIALLY since when no one was around and she didn't know I knew, came up to me asking "Oh I thought we were supposed to go to lunch". I laughed and said I had something to do. She had no clue.

The chick still has asked me on several occasions to meet her and her friends out at night.

Next time she does I'll tell her I'm too busy for "creepers". lol

 

[Kenny Powers]

Hahaha that's a pretty good idea and a good way to disarm/neg them. Will def have to give that a try when im out this weekend. I've been thinking of ways to disarm girls and send mixed messages, cause one of my biggest challenges, especially when drunk, is making it less obvious that I'm hitting on them. I've considered implying their breath smells and offering gum, saying its nice to meet a girl i can be friends with, and accusing them of making something to impress guys (e.g. likes sports). Thoughts?

Naughty Ninja way to go, that girl sounds like a typical two-faced hoe. I knew a girl who behind my back said i was desperate, really pissed me off.

Its seems nowadays whenever a guy is confident and cool enough to not hide the fact that he is hitting on a girl he is labeled as creepy, unless he is really good looking. Now often you have to build trust and friendship with a girl before indicating any interest to avoid being called creepy. I don't understand how this is creepy!!!! Next time a girl calls me that I'm going to put her on the spot and ask how I'm being creepy. I bet she won't be able to answer. Although its pretty rare for a girl to say this to your face.

 

[Crissco]

Yes I have. Tried it a while ago. She just laughed at it while being a bit supprised and blew it of. I'm going to continue to try this on different girls to see what reactions I get.

 

[Galactus]

A lot of women are creeps. Men just have a higher interest level, so they never say that to women. And women know this word gets under men's skin. What man wants to be thought of as a stalker, or some guy who hides in bushes near a school bus stop? That's the type of image the word invokes.

So a man has to not be fazed by the word. The best way is to have a lower interest level. If she calls you that, insult the fvck out of her. Hopefully there will be other people around. So what if you never get the pu$$y? You now have the respect of everyone in the vicinity. Which of course, leads to pu$$y.

 

[Kirro]

There is a female right now who deserves to be called a creep, this old chick at work who loves to grab my thighs & inspect the development of my back muscles while also resting her chin on one my manager's shoulder & hugging the dude.

Yeah I should call her a creep but she may explode.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Hahaha that's a pretty good idea and a good way to disarm/neg them. Will def have to give that a try when im out this weekend. I've been thinking of ways to disarm girls and send mixed messages, cause one of my biggest challenges, especially when drunk, is making it less obvious that I'm hitting on them. I've considered implying their breath smells and offering gum, saying its nice to meet a girl i can be friends with, and accusing them of making something to impress guys (e.g. likes sports). Thoughts?

I've honestly had good luck holding a stare at passing women and SMILING while out at a lounge as long as you don't try to come across as leering at them. It's worked a couple of times recently. You have to make them break the stare or smile back. Alot want to be "checked out" when they're all dolled up. As long as you appear to be having fun and are with friends or a group they won't be weirded out.

I've even pointed directly in the face of a girl passing and I couldn't believe it worked. She stopped pointed at my face started laughing and talking to me. The weirdest sh!t works sometimes. lol

As soon as I get a smile back. I say: YES I am looking at YOU. They start laughing or giggling and you're in.

Naughty Ninja way to go, that girl sounds like a typical two-faced hoe. I knew a girl who behind my back said i was desperate, really pissed me off.

Funny. I just got home from work and the same girl asked me to come out tonight to hang out with her and her friends. I told her I was busy. And she laughed and said "you suck". One time I may go out to the bars where she's near and tell her I'm here at another one and see if she comes to the one I'm at. I'll see how "creepy" I am when she's a little tipsy. Though won't make a move and see if she does. Nowadays most women are two faced. I take it in stride and congratulate them. lmao

Again. Too many women at my job. I don't stress over one. I just have fun and bust balls.

Its seems nowadays whenever a guy is confident and cool enough to not hide the fact that he is hitting on a girl he is labeled as creepy, unless he is really good looking. Now often you have to build trust and friendship with a girl before indicating any interest to avoid being called creepy. I don't understand how this is creepy!!!! Next time a girl calls me that I'm going to put her on the spot and ask how I'm being creepy. I bet she won't be able to answer. Although its pretty rare for a girl to say this to your face.

Women love to throw the "creepy" label to boost their fragile self esteem and ego to their friends. You just have to ignore that nonsense and tell them you don't have to dress up for Halloween you can be "creepy" 365 days a year being yourself. OR tell them I'd be really creepy if I remembered to bring my chloroform soaked rag with me. DAMN!

 

[Masculinity]

Haha, I have called a few girls creepy in separate occasions. Both of them reacted positively by giving me IOI's--one even started touching me. It's a cool thing to do because there are very few guys who would go for it, so it immediately separates you from the pack.

 

[Mike32ct]

I've always wanted to try it. I'm just looking for the right context.

 

[Chamber36]

This goddam HB6 who doesn't deserve my attention suddenly called me a creep for no reason, maybe cuz I was lookin at her friend, then I responded: you're a creep.

Then I was done with her, and she started qualifying herself, saying: "why am I a creep??", which I didn't answer. B*tches....

 

[Rubato]

I have, but it's always been under the context of the girl doing something legitimately creepy, not as some kind of technique. It seemed to have the same effect as anything else a guy can say that positively calls a woman on her sh*t. Like Robyn and Chamber said, it resulted in a cascade of IOI's and/or qualification.

That doesn't seem to be your question though.... I think you're asking about calling a girl creepy in the absence of creepy behavior. I think if you were congruent with the idea and she thought you were serious, the effect would be enhanced because there's no immediate or obvious justification for why she is creepy. If she has a high IL, that would drive her crazy, wondering what in the world she could have possibly done...

 

[Chamber36]

Let me tell you this little story.

There were 2 HB9's, 1 blonde who was very nice, 1 brunette who was a total *****.

The brunette had a ring with a spider on it, and she was wearing black, so she reminded me of a black widow spider.... I told her that her ring was creepy, and she didn't really respond much. So it doesn't work every time. Attraction has to be there first before this works.

 

[Atom Smasher]

I have, but it's always been under the context of the girl doing something legitimately creepy, not as some kind of technique. It seemed to have the same effect as anything else a guy can say that positively calls a woman on her sh*t. Like Robyn and Chamber said, it resulted in a cascade of IOI's and/or qualification.

That doesn't seem to be your question though.... I think you're asking about calling a girl creepy in the absence of creepy behavior. I think if you were congruent with the idea and she thought you were serious, the effect would be enhanced because there's no immediate or obvious justification for why she is creepy. If she has a high IL, that would drive her crazy, wondering what in the world she could have possibly done...

No, I'm asking with the knowledge that with women I can always elicit creepy behavior. They have a vast warehouse full of it. All you have to do is get her to open the door.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Let me tell you this little story.

There were 2 HB9's, 1 blonde who was very nice, 1 brunette who was a total *****.

The brunette had a ring with a spider on it, and she was wearing black, so she reminded me of a black widow spider.... I told her that her ring was creepy, and she didn't really respond much. So it doesn't work every time. Attraction has to be there first before this works.

There's a difference, though. It's one thing to call a girl's ring creepy, but quite another to call her behavior creepy. One calls her taste into question and can be relatively easy to brush off, while another calls her very essence into question.

I had forgotten about this thread. I think I'll call a few women out on being creeps this week and see what happens. Turnabout is fair play, and women get insane when their own tactics are used on them.

 

[Robert28]

the words "creepy". "creep", "creeper", and "fetish" are being WAY overused by women in recent memory. they have taken these two words from there intended meaning and completely changed them into attempted "shaming tactics" of guys. we as guys have to kill it, and the only way to kill it is to use it back on them....10 fold. it's like telling a joke that's funny, it becomes less funny each time you tell it to the same audience, right? here's what you do...

if ever a woman tells YOU that you're creepy(or any variation of the word) whether just teasing or being serious, take it and completely run it into the ground. I don't care if she gets tired of it and gets mad because you wont stop referring to everything and everyone as creepy, her dumbass shouldnt have brought it up in the first place. this will kill this word, trust me!

as for fetish, next time a woman asks you if you have a fetish, you fire right back at her stuff like "yeah I have a pants fetish, i have more then one pair.....yeah i have a dog fetish, i have 3......yeah i have an underwear fetish, i own more then one pair.....yeah i have a sock fetish, i own like 15 pairs and theyre all colors......yeah i have a food fetish since i like to eat everyday." just completely run this **** into the ground and stomp it out like a fire. we'll get these b!tches back in check like they were in the 1800's, just takes one woman at a time

 

[Atom Smasher]

The thing that concerns me is that if you pay so much attention to it, it shows that she affected you and that you are too invested in her.

You are entirely right that this and also the fetish thing are shaming tactics.

When it comes to the fetish thing, I would say, "What do you physically like in men?" Let's say she says eyes. You reply, "Oh, so you have an eye fetish then, and roll with it from there.

I like your attitude about battling the shaming tactics. We men must get off the defense and go into offensive mode.

 

[Zodiac]

I call people creepy if they do creepy acts no matter what the situation whether it is a girl or a guy.