Has anyone ever read any of Red-xL's posts????

[REd-xL]

Any one of y'all feel free to repost these in the tips forum if you have time. We'll take dual credit.

Rx

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REd-xL (20) California

How do you expect to catch some fish if you don't toss out your lure? -Jerome

 

[REd-xL]

Here's an easier idea....someone transfer me to the Tips section.

 

[StuartScott]

Someone send this to tips or I will under a different title.

p.s. Red, You said you were a waiter b4. Did you pull girls phone numbers and hook up with girls as a waiter cuz for some reason, i have a hard time trying to do pick ups as a waiter. I can talk with the girls and all but it's just that last part. If I can get that part down, I'll be so IN. I'm gonna try and field train on gettin' girls as a waiter and I might post some results if I'm successfull. Any tips on getting girls as a waiter will be appreciated, thanks.

[This message has been edited by StuartScott (edited 06-28-2002).]

 

[Lost]

B ****IN UMP!!! holy shyt this is a great post. i suggest everyone bookmark it like me

 

[REd-xL]

Still waitin for someone to transfer this over to the Tips section....

Yeah, being a waiter kicks ass. Just flirt, flirt, flirt, and everything will fall into your lap (after work, literally).

Rx

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REd-xL (20) California

How do you expect to catch some fish if you don't toss out your lure? -Jerome

 

[George Gordon]

The link to the body language site alluded to on the first page of re-posts is not valid anymore.

DOES anyone know if this site is still availible somewhere else? Is there a mirror?

or

DOES anyone have the information on there that they could post. Perhaps it's too large.

thanks

 

[Ekschaxze]

I am now shook from my foundation at the insurrmountable amount of unfathomable information that has been posted here.

Thank you.

 

[tome4]

Originally posted by George Gordon:
The link to the body language site alluded to on the first page of re-posts is not valid anymore.

DOES anyone know if this site is still availible somewhere else? Is there a mirror?

or

DOES anyone have the information on there that they could post. Perhaps it's too large.

thanks

No this link is still active, I can acces it.
Maybe you should try again

 

[De La Soul]

AWESOME TIPS.

Red, would it be alright. if I posted a few of these individually, so that newbies can read them more easily?

EDIT: Thanks Drew.

[This message has been edited by De La Soul (edited 07-23-2002).]

 

[Drew]

Originally posted by De La Soul:
AWESOME TIPS.

Red, would it be already if I posted a few of these individually, so that newbies can read them more easily?

That's fine with him.

 

[REd-xL]

As long as you mention I'm the original author of the post.

Rx

 

[REd-xL]

Actually, I just read through most of these, and you guys aren't necessarily setting yourselves up for success if you read all of them. Of the 30 or so, I only abide to about 10 or 15 today still. Realize that these posts were a part of the gradual process by which I attained the success I have today. I came to these boards for the same reasons you all did 2 years ago.

What did I have that most DJ's-in-training didn't? Ambition.

The most important point I'll contend to is this: just go out and flirt. Don't read tips. It's like wanting to learn how to play basketball by reading articles on it. You won't perfect that jumpshot without practice.

If you want more updated, sage advice from me, read my more recent entries in this Tips section.

Rx

 

[REd-xL]

Oh yeah, and finally, read my journal if you get bored: http://charlatan.livejournal.com

 

[De La Soul]

As long as you mention I'm the original author of the post.

LOL! Of course!

Actually, I just read through most of these, and you guys aren't necessarily setting yourselves up for success if you read all of them.

Yep, reading posts alone won't do squat. But I'll pick out the ones I think are best and re-post them, they've got some relevant messages in them.

What did I have that most DJ's-in-training didn't? Ambition.

The most important point I'll contend to is this: just go out and flirt. Don't read tips. It's like wanting to learn how to play basketball by reading articles on it. You won't perfect that jumpshot without practice.

Agreed. But when you say "ambition" are you referring to your ambitions in life generally or your ambition to become more confident? If you know what I mean...

De La

 

[REd-xL]

No, ambition as in drive to pursue what I wanted: girls. I got all the necessary experience by never backing down from going after what I wanted.

And these are the results:

-Quality of girls increases.
-Quantity of girls increases.
-Confidence reaches a peak somewhere along the way that you don't hesitate to think about it anymore.
-You get hints within seconds of talking to a girl, and you know whether to bail and save your time or continue and hit it.
-You develop an intuition of exactly what a girl wants to hear.
-Admiration of fellow guys.
-Intrigue of other girls.

It's probably just a personality thing. I just happen to be successful with nearly everything I do (ha, except academics!) in life because of my perseverance.

Rx

 

[Squy]

I just wonder why almost each time Red-xL posted something, he then replied to the same thread: "moderators, send me to Tips section!!!" ?

I would just go to the tips section and post there...

 

[Kanadasutra]

Great stuff!

It would be great to see these post posted back in a more easily readable format like De La Soul has done with one of them.

I really like how Red-XL deal with interest "sign":

ex:

"If she doesn't reciprocate the gesture, it doesn't mean anything. If she does, it's a strong sign that you're in the money"

or

"If her gestures are closed, don't give up; all it means is that a little more work is required until she can become comfortable with you."

That is so positive and inspiring!!

 

[Janez]

Red-xl: How much did this website help you to become that succesful? :>

 

[REd-xL]

Originally posted by Squy:
I just wonder why almost each time Red-xL posted something, he then replied to the same thread: "moderators, send me to Tips section!!!" ?

I would just go to the tips section and post there...

I'm a fossil in this forum, and they only had three forums when I started:
1. DJ Discussion
2. Suggestions
3. Anything Else

So when they expanded and added a Tips section, I fished for all my posts and bumped them back to the top so the mod's could transfer them with ease.

Rx

 

[REd-xL]

Originally posted by Janez:
Red-xl: How much did this website help you to become that succesful? :>

When I first figured out to search for help with the ladies online, this was the first site I found, and I spent about 8 hours straight, amazed at what was so logical yet had slipped my grasp all those years. I expanded to other similar sites to harness all the info I could, and when it got redundant, I realized I had learned everything I needed. So I felt ready, went out, and conquered.

Veni. Vidi. Vici.

You can only help yourself. This site is like a handbook that you can use for reference.

1. I got a clue.
2. I changed my behavior and attitude.
3. I succeeded.

Simple pattern.

Rx