Has anyone ever been "busted" on here by a S/O?

[wjh]

I'm curious about this.

I don't bring this place up, or shall I say, I haven't yet, because I don't feel most people can "handle" this. As some have said, it's dirty work pulling people from the Matrix.

Anyhow, I was wondering if there have been any stories or instances where a S/O found out about this site. What were some of the reactions?

Another question is, what do you think someone you're dating would think of you if they found out about SS? What if they looked at your previous post history?

 

[KarmaSutra]

Mrs. K knows I'm here every single day. She knows that I'm here to help other men get to a better place in their lives and get to understand and appreciate who they are.

This makes her proud because I practice what I preach here to men in the physical world.

 

[Phyzzle]

Apparently, you're supposed to freak out.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=118598

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

I regularly discuss threads & topics with Mrs. Tomassi.

 

[penkitten]

my husband and i are both members here...

 

[Señor Fingers]

As soon as Mrs Fingers leaves for work, I run to my bedroom and don my mask and cape so I can post as FingzMan, defender of all things manly and just!

Hehe.. j/k.. she has known about this place since before we got together..even made fun of me cause my "DJ" tactics weren't working on her. It's pretty obvious who got the last laugh on that one!

 

[Latinoman]

Apparently, you're supposed to freak out.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=118598

That was his very LAST post in this place too...what a puzzy.

 

[The Bat]

Another question is, what do you think someone you're dating would think of you if they found out about SS? What if they looked at your previous post history?

Somebody finding out I use this site hasn't happened to me. I can tell you the type of reaction I would get if somebody (close friend or partner) found out about my post history on this site.

If you look at my post history, you'd find mostly positive, productive stuff. But many people would object to this type of positivity and label it as "selfish" and "insensitive", which cannot be farther from the truth.

People that I know wouldn't be able to handle the truth that this place contains. More importantly, they wouldn't be able to face the bitter truth about their lack of personal character and strong core. Looking at yourself in the mirror and exposing your inner self is the hardest thing that most people would rather not do. Living in a fantasy world by compromising your soul is the most comforting thing these people (that I know) would rather prefer.

 

[##17]

My last girlfriend knew of my involvement in forums like these. What is there to be ashamed of?

That said, I make it a point not to post anything too personal on a place where anyone could read it. If I have a serious relationship question, I have a few friends (here and off-line) whom I ask PRIVATELY.

 

[Mistic]

I got busted here big time - check it out - The great part is how I handled it after this - she is still calling me and emailing me regularly.

funniest ****, check this out!!!! I went to this silly web site that you've been surfing on a regular basis and by mere accident stumbled upon this one....I wonder who is this HB...I'd hit that for sure..... ;o)))))

One of the current girls I am fvcking likes me to slap her ass while I pull her hair and call her a dirty sslut. Her favorite position is doggy style, and there is nothing she wont do, esp. if I just do it. When she cuming, she says in her Russian accent, "Yes, oh my god, you are like animal (ah-nee-mahl)

I'm sitting there behind her laughing to myself and thinking, "okay, whatever turns you on."

I'm actually not getting bored with her as fast as the others. It's refreshing. __________________

I wonder if a typical male who wrote it ever considered that having sex for her might also be a sacred thing that should remain private and not be joked around with...sharing it is a turn off, a waste of magic that happens between two people.......oh and for that ego maniac's reference being one of the current girls he is ****ing is not refreshing for her at all...

 

[iqqi]

Yes, sort of. Not a S/O. It is a really complicated story, but I will try to sum it up.

When I first started posting here, I was in a circle of friends that included some chicks that liked to talk about me when I wasn't around. They were upset because one of the girl's BF's was my best friend, but he was in love with me for years before they got together. However we were never more than friends. I loved him like a brother.

So there was insecurity. I thought we had gotten past that, but I knew there was still a lot of insecurity on the gf's part. The worst part is she was never worried about ME doing anything with him. She just thought I was better than her all around, and it drove her crazy. (It is even deeper than what I am saying now... SHE was my best friend in middle school, but that ended in major drama with a severe backstabbing...)

So anyhoo, I become good friends with the GF's best friend, we'll call her a$$ Tamiko. She left to go see some guy out of state, and asked me to move in her apt for the two weeks she was gone, to house sit. While I was there, I noticed that all of her drawers were empty, and so were her closets. That is some weird sh!t for a girl, even if she took a lot of her clothes with her on her trip. She had been really quiet lately, and went through a divorce recently. She was also disfigured facially. I immediately wondered if she wasn't planning on sticking around for much longer.

Seeing her closets and drawers empty like that scared me, and I asked the GF (Tamiko's best friend and my ex-friend) if Tamiko seemed depressed lately, and that I was concerned, and I told her why. The conversation was literally like 60 seconds long:

me "have you noticed tamiko being kind of depressed or anything?"
Backstabbing friend "No, why?"
me "well, all of her drawers are empty, and so is her closet. I don't know, it just triggers some alarms. I don't know her that well, to know if that is normal. I am worried about her. what do you think?"
Bf "That IS wierd. Hmm.. I will watch closely for awhile and see if I notice any depression."
me "ok cool. so how was work yesterday..."

When Tamiko got back, I noticed that she had found this site through her home computers history. I had raved about this site (without naming it), how it was a guy site, and how much I was learning about how men thought. She knew I spent a lot of time here when I was at work, and it was a sanctuary of sorts. So she found it when she got back, and posted this gem.

Apparently, the GF made my concerns into some deceitful sh!t talking fest (which they were used to doing), and Tamiko, well I am not sure what she thought she was doing, as she didn't tell me herself that she made the thread here. It was passive aggressive.

I made my reply, called up MY best friend (the guy), told them all how I felt, and never really spoke to them again. Glad to have left that drama behind once and for all.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

^^^^^^^^

Wow, that was highly concentrated in girly gossip talk, I could barely understand it. hahahahaha

I showed my ex and she was curious. She was on the fence about a lot of the things we talked about but seemed to be more open minded than anything else.

She HATED PuertoRicanLover though! Hahahahahaha

I worried about her finding this place after we broke up, but it was such a long time ago I don't think she even remembers the name of the site. So there ya go.

My best friend (a guy) absolutely hates this site. I showed him a few post and he thought everyone was a misogynist. Hahaha He thinks most of us don't have a clue what we're talking about. We argue about the male/female dynamic all the time.


Ironic.

 

[##17]

Yes, sort of. Not a S/O. It is a really complicated story, but I will try to sum it up.

When I first started posting here, I was in a circle of friends that included some chicks that liked to talk about me when I wasn't around. They were upset because one of the girl's BF's was my best friend, but he was in love with me for years before they got together. However we were never more than friends. I loved him like a brother.

So there was insecurity. I thought we had gotten past that, but I knew there was still a lot of insecurity on the gf's part. The worst part is she was never worried about ME doing anything with him. She just thought I was better than her all around, and it drove her crazy. (It is even deeper than what I am saying now... SHE was my best friend in middle school, but that ended in major drama with a severe backstabbing...)

So anyhoo, I become good friends with the GF's best friend, we'll call her a$$ Tamiko. She left to go see some guy out of state, and asked me to move in her apt for the two weeks she was gone, to house sit. While I was there, I noticed that all of her drawers were empty, and so were her closets. That is some weird sh!t for a girl, even if she took a lot of her clothes with her on her trip. She had been really quiet lately, and went through a divorce recently. She was also disfigured facially. I immediately wondered if she wasn't planning on sticking around for much longer.

Seeing her closets and drawers empty like that scared me, and I asked the GF (Tamiko's best friend and my ex-friend) if Tamiko seemed depressed lately, and that I was concerned, and I told her why. The conversation was literally like 60 seconds long:

me "have you noticed tamiko being kind of depressed or anything?"
Backstabbing friend "No, why?"
me "well, all of her drawers are empty, and so is her closet. I don't know, it just triggers some alarms. I don't know her that well, to know if that is normal. I am worried about her. what do you think?"
Bf "That IS wierd. Hmm.. I will watch closely for awhile and see if I notice any depression."
me "ok cool. so how was work yesterday..."

When Tamiko got back, I noticed that she had found this site through her home computers history. I had raved about this site (without naming it), how it was a guy site, and how much I was learning about how men thought. She knew I spent a lot of time here when I was at work, and it was a sanctuary of sorts. So she found it when she got back, and posted this gem.

Apparently, the GF made my concerns into some deceitful sh!t talking fest (which they were used to doing), and Tamiko, well I am not sure what she thought she was doing, as she didn't tell me herself that she made the thread here. It was passive aggressive.

I made my reply, called up MY best friend (the guy), told them all how I felt, and never really spoke to them again. Glad to have left that drama behind once and for all.

I didn't read the whole story. However iqqi, you are female. If my GIRLFRIEND (or a girl I'm dating) posted on a MALE forum like this, I'd be extremely suspicious.

 

[Phyzzle]

Wow, that was highly concentrated in girly gossip talk, I could barely understand it. hahahahaha

Indeed. Things like that remind me that males and females have completely alien outlooks and priorities. Sometimes a girl will finish telling some long story about her friends, and I'll say, "so, were any of these events good, bad, or neither?" And she confesses that she does not know. But she'll also say that I missed the point. And that she can't tell me what the point was, only that I missed it.

 

[iqqi]

Indeed. Things like that remind me that males and females have completely alien outlooks and priorities. Sometimes a girl will finish telling some long story about her friends, and I'll say, "so, were any of these events good, bad, or neither?" And she confesses that she does not know. But she'll also say that I missed the point. And that she can't tell me what the point was, only that I missed it.

Haha, well I can tell you the point of MY story.

A friend found this site and brang the girly drama here.

Some of my best friends tend to be men, simply because so many women can be so petty and live off of drama and gossip. I have not met too many men like that. The girlfriends that I have now don't seem to have that "interest" either.

 

[ketostix]

Indeed. Things like that remind me that males and females have completely alien outlooks and priorities. Sometimes a girl will finish telling some long story about her friends, and I'll say, "so, were any of these events good, bad, or neither?" And she confesses that she does not know. But she'll also say that I missed the point. And that she can't tell me what the point was, only that I missed it.

LOL. I think the whole point is drama and controversy. Iqqi brings a lot of that here.

 

[Latinoman]

Haha, well I can tell you the point of MY story.

A friend found this site and brang the girly drama here.

Some of my best friends tend to be men, simply because so many women can be so petty and live off of drama and gossip. I have not met too many men like that. The girlfriends that I have now don't seem to have that "interest" either.

I remember you telling us that your circle of friends consisted of girls in the 18-22 age range. What can you expect when you associate yourself with immaturity?

Also...I agree with #17.

 

[iqqi]

I remember you telling us that your circle of friends consisted of girls in the 18-22 age range. What can you expect when you associate yourself with immaturity?

Also...I agree with #17.

This was three years ago, and we were all the same age. Thanks for bringing up something that had nothing to do with anything. No point made. Just a waste of bandwith... and ASSUMPTION. Remember what we say about assuming...

Age had nothing to do with it, and rarely does.

 

[Latinoman]

This was three years ago, and we were all the same age. Thanks for bringing up something that had nothing to do with anything. No point made. Just a waste of bandwith... and ASSUMPTION. Remember what we say about assuming...

Age had nothing to do with it, and rarely does.

1- YOU stated in the past that your circle of friends were 18-22. No wonder.

2- YOU have a tw@t between your legs, therefore, it is not the same for a man getting caught by his S/O in a MALE forum than a female getting caught by her S/O in a MALE forum.

3- The title of the thread is "Has anyone ever been 'busted' on here by a S/O?" and you went on some sort of diatribe that had NOTHING to do with the topic.

P.S.

CHECK MATE.

 

[iqqi]

1- YOU stated in the past that your circle of friends were 18-22. No wonder.

2- YOU have a tw@t between your legs, therefore, it is not the same for a man getting caught by his S/O in a MALE forum than a female getting caught by her S/O in a MALE forum.

3- The title of the thread is "Has anyone ever been 'busted' on here by a S/O?" and you went on some sort of diatribe that had NOTHING to do with the topic.

P.S.

CHECK MATE.

1- I have A friend who is 21. And a couple who are 23-25, and quite a few my age, and some who are OLDER. Get over it.

2- SO the fck what.

3- It is a better story than the ones not being contributed thus far, and it does have to do with the topic.

You must be sad noone is arguing with you in your other threads.

Check mate.

<knocks all the chess pieces off the table with one broad swoop of the arm apon her exit. also gives Latinoman the finger, with a wink.>