Has A Rejection From A Oneitis Ever Changed You For The Worst?
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I got dumped many years ago (in rather ****ed up circumstances), began drinking and smoking. I quit my job and sat around unemployed.
Eventually my best mate snapped me out of my malaise. made me move in with him and get another job.
But I was so cut by that girl and bitter I could not attract another. I started to resent my very friend who was helping me coz he was ****ing a different chick every night.
Eventually a trip overseas and some truly terrfying **** that put things in perspective snapped me out of it.
But yeah, I've been absolutely floored by a woman.
JJ
I got dumped many years ago (in rather ****ed up circumstances), began drinking and smoking. I quit my job and sat around unemployed.
Eventually my best mate snapped me out of my malaise. made me move in with him and get another job.
But I was so cut by that girl and bitter I could not attract another. I started to resent my very friend who was helping me coz he was ****ing a different chick every night.
Eventually a trip overseas and some truly terrfying **** that put things in perspective snapped me out of it.
But yeah, I've been absolutely floored by a woman.
JJ
i was in a 3 yr relationship, so obviously it was a oneitis. Ive never cheated on a girl and never will thats just not me. But i have no problem dating and banging multiple girls when im not "taken".
We broke up, and it got pretty bad. I started drinking alot, and lost a lot of my confidence. I tried approaching a few girls, and realized i lost a lot of my game over the 3 years i was with her, as she turned me somewhat back to my highschool afc days. So finally, i hit the gym, and lost a bunch of weight. Seeing myself in the mirror, and seeing the scale show lighter and lighter week by week, started to boost my confidence. I started reading on here again, and started drinking less. Now almost 5 months later ive lost 32 lbs, and can approach practically any girl and get her number. Now im dating 4 girls, 2 of them 7's, 1 and 8, and one what i consider a 9.5 I swear to god, shes just a little flaky, but shes young. At one point i was talking to 11 girls, but ive nexted a shlt ton of them here lately. Whats funny is the ones i havent talked to in a few weeks start calling again. Its crazy. Im out with one girl and the phone starts ringing. And we all know what that does :rockon:
Im finally where i want to be, im having more fun right now than i ever have in my life. I look my best, and getting even better every day, i feel great and im loving my life.
Funny thing is, i saw my ex a few days ago (havent seen her or talked to her in 6 weeks). She left me for some short fat guy. Beats me why, only thing i know is that shes fu*king crazy. So she saw how i changed, and literally got pissed off. Not my problem anymore. I think its hilarious. :crackup:
We broke up, and it got pretty bad. I started drinking alot, and lost a lot of my confidence. I tried approaching a few girls, and realized i lost a lot of my game over the 3 years i was with her, as she turned me somewhat back to my highschool afc days. So finally, i hit the gym, and lost a bunch of weight. Seeing myself in the mirror, and seeing the scale show lighter and lighter week by week, started to boost my confidence. I started reading on here again, and started drinking less. Now almost 5 months later ive lost 32 lbs, and can approach practically any girl and get her number. Now im dating 4 girls, 2 of them 7's, 1 and 8, and one what i consider a 9.5 I swear to god, shes just a little flaky, but shes young. At one point i was talking to 11 girls, but ive nexted a shlt ton of them here lately. Whats funny is the ones i havent talked to in a few weeks start calling again. Its crazy. Im out with one girl and the phone starts ringing. And we all know what that does :rockon:
Im finally where i want to be, im having more fun right now than i ever have in my life. I look my best, and getting even better every day, i feel great and im loving my life.
Funny thing is, i saw my ex a few days ago (havent seen her or talked to her in 6 weeks). She left me for some short fat guy. Beats me why, only thing i know is that shes fu*king crazy. So she saw how i changed, and literally got pissed off. Not my problem anymore. I think its hilarious. :crackup: