organizedconfusion
Master Don Juan
ANGER..some people think it's a curse or something they must try to hide or be ashamed of.I think that because of todays frustrations and bull$hit,not everyone knows how to express and release their anger in healthy positive ways..and they may not know how to harvest their anger and direct it wisely and for their own good.Have you ever wanted to kill someone? your blood rushed to your head, your body tightens and you are ready to throw down? everyone has their limit and everyone has their own level of anger...
i can say that i did'nt really become completly sure of myself or have true confidence until i learned how to harvest my anger the right way..i learned about my tolorance level and how i can become when i am angry..everyone gets angry but not everyone knows how to direct it accordingly..maybe holding it and exploding on some poor stranger,maybe taking it out on loved ones or your girl.Some people do those things, which is totaly unhealthy and could be directed differently.I say learn how to direct it the right way..know yourself,understand how you become when you are angry,feel it in everyway and the blood rushing in your veins..learn how to express it physically and effectively if you need to defend yourself and fight..to the death if you must in order to live..that may sound harsh, but this is reality and some people will kill you..you must take that into serious consideration.
when walking around in an unfamiliar place, on my own, or where ever- i trust myself and in my instincts that no matter what happens..no matter what, i trust myself that i can take care of myself and dig down into my anger ,if i need to in order to defend myself and fight to the death if i have to..as a last resort of course.the best way to get out of a fight or a life threatening situation is to not get into it in the first place and to avoid violence at all costs..always play it cool and be willing to walk away or run if i have to if out numbered (but always be willing to fight to back up a friend,out numbered or not) but as a last resort..fight to the death if you must, and that you can trust yourself and your inner resource of anger that no matter what happens..you can take care of myself and you will survive.
That raw untapped masculine fighting ability that everyone has inside them...i say tap into it,learn how to direct it appropriatly and learn how to trust yourself that when the time comes, you can resurface those intense feelings of anger if you needed to. think about it, how would you feel about yourself if you had complete confidence that no matter what happens- you have the ability to fight with all of your might if you had to and that you really can take care of yourself? this has nothing to do with 'acting hard' ,but having the self-mastery and knowledge that it takes to really take care of any type of altercation or conflict that arises.Real confidence in your physical abilities..how awesome would that be? pretty awesome i'd say...
i have had many times i could've unleashed a fierce explosion of hell onto someone..but i didn't..i didn't have an EGO about things and i let the guy go because i knew..i knew in my heart and soul and in my mind that he's only standing there breathing and woffin' ..because i let him ,i could snap his twiggy neck at anytime or i could break his nose and shove it into his frontal lobe anytime i felt like it..but he dosen't know that and i know that just because i know how to defend myself and how to hurt someone..it dosen't mean that i should.As a matter of fact ,first thing that pops into my head when someone get's in my face 'i don't want to hurt anyone...not today'...
as a matter of fact, IMO- until you know how to defend yourselves and harvest the gift of intense anger in the right way , you are never truly confident... :box:.how does this help with getting girls? it dosen't directly,but it helps YOU out tremendously at becoming more confident,independent and self-reliant..that in turn makes one more attractive overall :rock:
how do i harvest my anger? i have a 100 lbs. punching bag that i go apesh!t on 2-3 three times a week for an hour ,while letting out all of my frustrations and anger towards.bobbing and weaving,jabs,hooks,power knock out punches- it conditions the mind and body to reconize that state and resurface that type of mentality and physical exertion whenever i need to..will i become a golden glove champion? not likely,but it'll give me the mental and physical edge that i need,when i need it most.
The next time you become angry or frustrated and about to do something stupid..wait, hold on to it and save yourself the grief from having to deal with the consequences of your actions... think carefully and just for a second..wallow in that feeling,that anger- the way it takes over your mind and body,reconize that feeling and allow it to take over...remember that feeling,because thats the exact same feeling that will come over you everytime and anytime you feel the need to exert force over someone ...
i can say that i did'nt really become completly sure of myself or have true confidence until i learned how to harvest my anger the right way..i learned about my tolorance level and how i can become when i am angry..everyone gets angry but not everyone knows how to direct it accordingly..maybe holding it and exploding on some poor stranger,maybe taking it out on loved ones or your girl.Some people do those things, which is totaly unhealthy and could be directed differently.I say learn how to direct it the right way..know yourself,understand how you become when you are angry,feel it in everyway and the blood rushing in your veins..learn how to express it physically and effectively if you need to defend yourself and fight..to the death if you must in order to live..that may sound harsh, but this is reality and some people will kill you..you must take that into serious consideration.
when walking around in an unfamiliar place, on my own, or where ever- i trust myself and in my instincts that no matter what happens..no matter what, i trust myself that i can take care of myself and dig down into my anger ,if i need to in order to defend myself and fight to the death if i have to..as a last resort of course.the best way to get out of a fight or a life threatening situation is to not get into it in the first place and to avoid violence at all costs..always play it cool and be willing to walk away or run if i have to if out numbered (but always be willing to fight to back up a friend,out numbered or not) but as a last resort..fight to the death if you must, and that you can trust yourself and your inner resource of anger that no matter what happens..you can take care of myself and you will survive.
That raw untapped masculine fighting ability that everyone has inside them...i say tap into it,learn how to direct it appropriatly and learn how to trust yourself that when the time comes, you can resurface those intense feelings of anger if you needed to. think about it, how would you feel about yourself if you had complete confidence that no matter what happens- you have the ability to fight with all of your might if you had to and that you really can take care of yourself? this has nothing to do with 'acting hard' ,but having the self-mastery and knowledge that it takes to really take care of any type of altercation or conflict that arises.Real confidence in your physical abilities..how awesome would that be? pretty awesome i'd say...
i have had many times i could've unleashed a fierce explosion of hell onto someone..but i didn't..i didn't have an EGO about things and i let the guy go because i knew..i knew in my heart and soul and in my mind that he's only standing there breathing and woffin' ..because i let him ,i could snap his twiggy neck at anytime or i could break his nose and shove it into his frontal lobe anytime i felt like it..but he dosen't know that and i know that just because i know how to defend myself and how to hurt someone..it dosen't mean that i should.As a matter of fact ,first thing that pops into my head when someone get's in my face 'i don't want to hurt anyone...not today'...
as a matter of fact, IMO- until you know how to defend yourselves and harvest the gift of intense anger in the right way , you are never truly confident... :box:.how does this help with getting girls? it dosen't directly,but it helps YOU out tremendously at becoming more confident,independent and self-reliant..that in turn makes one more attractive overall :rock:
how do i harvest my anger? i have a 100 lbs. punching bag that i go apesh!t on 2-3 three times a week for an hour ,while letting out all of my frustrations and anger towards.bobbing and weaving,jabs,hooks,power knock out punches- it conditions the mind and body to reconize that state and resurface that type of mentality and physical exertion whenever i need to..will i become a golden glove champion? not likely,but it'll give me the mental and physical edge that i need,when i need it most.
The next time you become angry or frustrated and about to do something stupid..wait, hold on to it and save yourself the grief from having to deal with the consequences of your actions... think carefully and just for a second..wallow in that feeling,that anger- the way it takes over your mind and body,reconize that feeling and allow it to take over...remember that feeling,because thats the exact same feeling that will come over you everytime and anytime you feel the need to exert force over someone ...
thanks for doing so :rock: you try to avoid getting into situations where having a gun to your head occurs in the first place...wow, i feel special-you been here for two years and only posted three times prior to mine? and you didn't even buy me a drink and or take me out a couple times- you bastard! where have all the gentlemen gone?! 