HarlequinMan
Don Juan
Hey everyone, im new to the board but ive been following Jayers 100 approach journal for a year now and I feel like I need to start my own because Ive been an AFC forever and just got out of a nasty 11 month relationship. Ive been around the board searching for answers but i know ill never make progress without some kind of action.
Some history: Ive always been really shy (especially after middle school) and hated myself for it. Im a sophomore in college now and im sick of not getting any action. I have literally hundreds of approach opportunities everyday, but I always tell myself "ill do it tomorrow. Well ive been doing this since entering college and im sick of being afc. I think that the girl i was dating was holding me back from my potential. In high school and the first year of college i was always the "smart guy" that no girl would touch with a ten foot pole. And one day i asked myself, "there has to be another way". and i found the dj boot camp and got through the first four weeks up to the part where you ask for numbers and i froze. Ive only approached like 5 girls so far, and i made an approach journal.
I started off like this
DJ progress journal 2007
Oct. 15th - Approached 3 and 4 sitting down at table in mall. Did not ask for number. Kino handshake, No SOI. I kept asking them if it was awkward that i was doing this....they looked at me as if i was a creeper!
2/10
Oct. 18th – Approached 5 in line asked if single, asked for number right away. Got number No SOI, No Kino havent called her back...I dont know how this approach worked....i dont like asking for number right away
3/10
Oct. 18th - Approached 1 and 7 sitting down, asked for numbers right away, denied. No SOI, No Kino. They said Ummmmmm for like 10 minutes before responding.....i was a total afc
1/10
Oct. 18th – Approached 2 and 4 roughly 30 years old (too old!) sitting down. Asked for numbers. Denied. SOI, no kino.im only 19 but i had some serious balls that day lol. this is my favorite approach of the day! i laughed the whole way home
1/10
Oct. 27th – Approached 2 age 26, she liked me but I did not ask for number. Handshake no SOI. This girl was insane! She told me she had a degree in business and i asked "what do you want to do with that?" and she replies "i dont want to work, i just want to get knocked up and stay at home with the kids". Shocking...:nono:
3/10
Oct. 29th – Approached 7 at sunglass hut, no progress= i was a POS, all i did was ask about the glasses
1/10
Oct. 29th – approached 3 at foot locker asked name and where she was from, handshake, no connection. She had a zombie stare on me. I used the line, "so im not interested in buying any of these shoes, i just came in here to talk to you". Well that went over like sh!+. :cuss:
1/10
Oct. 29th – approached 6.5 at aeropostal, no progress whatsoever. Used the line "im looking for some pants for my brother...."
1/10
oct. 30th- approached 1 no progress nothing to say here....except i feel like im moving backwords....
1/10
Oct. 30th- approached fat chick 1 in chocolate factory, talked about chocolate.....she liked me but i didnt number close.
1/10
oct. 30th – Buckle, talked to old hag 1 nothing to say....too old again, why is it easier to talk to old women?
1/10
oct. 30th – talked to 6.5 and asked for number, she said bf but I could talk to her friend, talked to her friend and she got my number. She hasnt called me back....im really proud of this approach because the girl just kept smiling at me. Maybe i am getting more confident?
5/10
Any feedback whether pos or neg would be greatly appreciated!
Some history: Ive always been really shy (especially after middle school) and hated myself for it. Im a sophomore in college now and im sick of not getting any action. I have literally hundreds of approach opportunities everyday, but I always tell myself "ill do it tomorrow. Well ive been doing this since entering college and im sick of being afc. I think that the girl i was dating was holding me back from my potential. In high school and the first year of college i was always the "smart guy" that no girl would touch with a ten foot pole. And one day i asked myself, "there has to be another way". and i found the dj boot camp and got through the first four weeks up to the part where you ask for numbers and i froze. Ive only approached like 5 girls so far, and i made an approach journal.
I started off like this
DJ progress journal 2007
Oct. 15th - Approached 3 and 4 sitting down at table in mall. Did not ask for number. Kino handshake, No SOI. I kept asking them if it was awkward that i was doing this....they looked at me as if i was a creeper!
2/10
Oct. 18th – Approached 5 in line asked if single, asked for number right away. Got number No SOI, No Kino havent called her back...I dont know how this approach worked....i dont like asking for number right away
3/10
Oct. 18th - Approached 1 and 7 sitting down, asked for numbers right away, denied. No SOI, No Kino. They said Ummmmmm for like 10 minutes before responding.....i was a total afc
1/10
Oct. 18th – Approached 2 and 4 roughly 30 years old (too old!) sitting down. Asked for numbers. Denied. SOI, no kino.im only 19 but i had some serious balls that day lol. this is my favorite approach of the day! i laughed the whole way home
1/10
Oct. 27th – Approached 2 age 26, she liked me but I did not ask for number. Handshake no SOI. This girl was insane! She told me she had a degree in business and i asked "what do you want to do with that?" and she replies "i dont want to work, i just want to get knocked up and stay at home with the kids". Shocking...:nono:
3/10
Oct. 29th – Approached 7 at sunglass hut, no progress= i was a POS, all i did was ask about the glasses
1/10
Oct. 29th – approached 3 at foot locker asked name and where she was from, handshake, no connection. She had a zombie stare on me. I used the line, "so im not interested in buying any of these shoes, i just came in here to talk to you". Well that went over like sh!+. :cuss:
1/10
Oct. 29th – approached 6.5 at aeropostal, no progress whatsoever. Used the line "im looking for some pants for my brother...."
1/10
oct. 30th- approached 1 no progress nothing to say here....except i feel like im moving backwords....
1/10
Oct. 30th- approached fat chick 1 in chocolate factory, talked about chocolate.....she liked me but i didnt number close.
1/10
oct. 30th – Buckle, talked to old hag 1 nothing to say....too old again, why is it easier to talk to old women?
1/10
oct. 30th – talked to 6.5 and asked for number, she said bf but I could talk to her friend, talked to her friend and she got my number. She hasnt called me back....im really proud of this approach because the girl just kept smiling at me. Maybe i am getting more confident?
5/10
Any feedback whether pos or neg would be greatly appreciated!
