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Got hooked up with this chick, via a friend. Went on a double date with this chick, my friend and her boyfriend. Played it cool, C+F, kino, the usual. By half way through the night she was all over me, plenty of kissing. My two friends left us to it and I ended up back at her place. She made it clear there was gonna be no sex but spent the night in her bed, loads of kissing, all good.
Next morning she gives me a lift home. She txts me a hour later saying she had a great time. I play it cool so dont txt her back for a while but do later on saying 'me too'. Next day shes txting me again, I txt her, we have a fairly long txt conversation (bad idea, I know). Over the course of the next few days we're txting each other, im being fairly ambivalent about the whole thing yet shes saying 'how interesting and funny she thinks I am' and we're havinmg good rapport. She would always txt me first. Anyway she ends up asking me if we wanna go to the cinema on the next day, I say cant make it the next day but how about a few days later. She agrees, we arrange a time (all of this is done by txt). I would of ideally called her but she pretty much initiated the whole date thing and the place, time etc so I just went along with it trying to act uninterested.
So date comes, we meet. Go for a quick drink first, now this is the problem. Am totally aware that going the cinema on an early date is a very bad idea, its far too antisocial for my liking. Anyway just as the balls rolling conversation wise we its time to head to the cinema. We watch the film.
I walk her home afterwards, give her a kiss, she says thanks and see soon. So now, heres we're I ****ed up. I txted her 30 mins later, on my way home. Saying I had a good nite. She txt back a fairly blunt txt saying no problem and goodnite. This txt was a a different tone to the ones she had previously been sending me over the past few days, it was much more blunt and disinterested.
Anyway next day, I dont bother contacting her. I end up going the pub, getting drunk and stupidly txting her. She replies but yet again in the same tone as before (blunt and not engaging in conversation). We have a few txt back and forward.
The day after, I stupidly (again!) txt her. She replies in the same disinterested tone. Anyway by this point im realising im a total fool and have messed up. The next day she posts a comment on my facebook, nothing of any interest but it has a slightly playful tone.
I decide a day later to lay my cards on the table, so I txt her and asks if she wants to do something before I go on my holidays (in 4 days time). Shes says she cant as shes really busy and to enjoy my holidays. Its true that she is very busy (in her final year of college and got exams/assignments etc over the next few weeks). So I ask her if she wants to do something when I get back (a weeks time), 3 hours later she replies saying sorry about the delay on the response and she'll see me when I get back. I msg her saying ok, we can go for drinks and i look forward to it. No reply.
Today, I log onto facebook and shes left another relatively playful comment but she reffered to me as 'my friend' as in 'you have strange taste in film my friend'. Am nor sure whether here shes dropping that in to make it clear its not gonna happen between us, or whether its just a figure of speech.
Now what I ask of you is, do you think she is interested??? And should I continue to pursue her??? On the one hand I think that during our cinema date she decided she wasnt interested. Yet on the other im not sure if shes simply playing hard to get or if shes genuinly too busy for distractions at the moment.
Now I realise Ive been a complete fool, by txting too much etc. But my general theory on the whole thing is that on our cinema date she decided she didnt like me, to b fair it was a good dat but not great. As I said we didnt actually spent much time talking or having fun. It kinda makes sense because before date everything was good (she was txting me lots, seemed interested), after date she seems disinterested but she still replies to my txt (always with a kiss on the end), agrees to meet when i get back, comments on my facebook. Playing hard to get maybe????? Or low interest????
The thing with this one is. I have no problem getting chicks, never have. Usually I have chicks chasing me and im generally disinterested and cant be bothered. However, this one, I actually like (yes yes I know, this is all nonsense in my mind). This is whats led me to behave like a fool which I realise I need to sort out.
The only reason im confused by this broad is beacuse usually when a chick isnt interested, she ignores me which she isnt doing. Granted shes harldy engaging or initiating but shes still responding.
Got hooked up with this chick, via a friend. Went on a double date with this chick, my friend and her boyfriend. Played it cool, C+F, kino, the usual. By half way through the night she was all over me, plenty of kissing. My two friends left us to it and I ended up back at her place. She made it clear there was gonna be no sex but spent the night in her bed, loads of kissing, all good.
Next morning she gives me a lift home. She txts me a hour later saying she had a great time. I play it cool so dont txt her back for a while but do later on saying 'me too'. Next day shes txting me again, I txt her, we have a fairly long txt conversation (bad idea, I know). Over the course of the next few days we're txting each other, im being fairly ambivalent about the whole thing yet shes saying 'how interesting and funny she thinks I am' and we're havinmg good rapport. She would always txt me first. Anyway she ends up asking me if we wanna go to the cinema on the next day, I say cant make it the next day but how about a few days later. She agrees, we arrange a time (all of this is done by txt). I would of ideally called her but she pretty much initiated the whole date thing and the place, time etc so I just went along with it trying to act uninterested.
So date comes, we meet. Go for a quick drink first, now this is the problem. Am totally aware that going the cinema on an early date is a very bad idea, its far too antisocial for my liking. Anyway just as the balls rolling conversation wise we its time to head to the cinema. We watch the film.
I walk her home afterwards, give her a kiss, she says thanks and see soon. So now, heres we're I ****ed up. I txted her 30 mins later, on my way home. Saying I had a good nite. She txt back a fairly blunt txt saying no problem and goodnite. This txt was a a different tone to the ones she had previously been sending me over the past few days, it was much more blunt and disinterested.
Anyway next day, I dont bother contacting her. I end up going the pub, getting drunk and stupidly txting her. She replies but yet again in the same tone as before (blunt and not engaging in conversation). We have a few txt back and forward.
The day after, I stupidly (again!) txt her. She replies in the same disinterested tone. Anyway by this point im realising im a total fool and have messed up. The next day she posts a comment on my facebook, nothing of any interest but it has a slightly playful tone.
I decide a day later to lay my cards on the table, so I txt her and asks if she wants to do something before I go on my holidays (in 4 days time). Shes says she cant as shes really busy and to enjoy my holidays. Its true that she is very busy (in her final year of college and got exams/assignments etc over the next few weeks). So I ask her if she wants to do something when I get back (a weeks time), 3 hours later she replies saying sorry about the delay on the response and she'll see me when I get back. I msg her saying ok, we can go for drinks and i look forward to it. No reply.
Today, I log onto facebook and shes left another relatively playful comment but she reffered to me as 'my friend' as in 'you have strange taste in film my friend'. Am nor sure whether here shes dropping that in to make it clear its not gonna happen between us, or whether its just a figure of speech.
Now what I ask of you is, do you think she is interested??? And should I continue to pursue her??? On the one hand I think that during our cinema date she decided she wasnt interested. Yet on the other im not sure if shes simply playing hard to get or if shes genuinly too busy for distractions at the moment.
Now I realise Ive been a complete fool, by txting too much etc. But my general theory on the whole thing is that on our cinema date she decided she didnt like me, to b fair it was a good dat but not great. As I said we didnt actually spent much time talking or having fun. It kinda makes sense because before date everything was good (she was txting me lots, seemed interested), after date she seems disinterested but she still replies to my txt (always with a kiss on the end), agrees to meet when i get back, comments on my facebook. Playing hard to get maybe????? Or low interest????
The thing with this one is. I have no problem getting chicks, never have. Usually I have chicks chasing me and im generally disinterested and cant be bothered. However, this one, I actually like (yes yes I know, this is all nonsense in my mind). This is whats led me to behave like a fool which I realise I need to sort out.
The only reason im confused by this broad is beacuse usually when a chick isnt interested, she ignores me which she isnt doing. Granted shes harldy engaging or initiating but shes still responding.
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