Hard to be independent and give her the gift of missing me when i'm at home bored!

[girlsarecrazy]

So i've seen this girl Thursday, Friday, Saturday, and I've been telling myself to not see her on Sunday (Today). So she can miss me more, I don't want "us" to dry out. I knew she wanted me to come over earlier when she asked what I had planned today and I told her it's too early. We had a normal convo and she closed the call with "call me if you want to help me with homework bye!" I told her... "how about you call me! bye"

I was planning on going out somewhere and keep myself busy so i won't end up over there. But i've been bumming around the house watching movies and started to become bored. Then she called me, As much as I wanted to tell her "NO" when she asked if i could come over; I felt as if i had no reason to. It just came natural for me to say yes.

I should have said no but it's too late. Is it okay to see your girl a lot like this? She almost like the girl next door, living 5 minutes away.

PS: My status with the girl: We fvck a lot.

 

[blowme]

I smell a relationship :flowers:

my friend just had the same thing happen to him, and now he is in a relationship with the chick. He likes her but she sweats his nuts too hardcore, which annnoys him.

I think that you are heading in the same direction if you dont cut it out here and there

 

[girlsarecrazy]

We've been off and on for 4 months now... already been in a relationship... now we've just been seeing each other without titles.

She doesn't sweat my nuts too hardcore but i've been working it right all along as far as phone calls. Like I don't call her unless it's to set a date. I don't reply to her txts right away. I don't go out of my way to contact her.. But it seems like once i hear, "Do you want to hang out?" I just jump on every opportunity to be with her. A lot of the time i think with my dvck thinking i could possible get "some". But this time when she asked to see me, I know for sure i wasn't going to get any but yet I still said came over.

Like seriously, i just got back from her house to help her with homework, thinking I'm going to hang out right after. But then she's like, "Thank you so much! as she yawns and tells me she's going to head to bed"

I'm trying to avoid this because for one, I'm not her boyfriend, and I don't want to waste my time. I feel like a AFC now.

 

[Socialreject]

lol

Well, i guess there was a reason why you aren't in a relationship with titles anymore, so remember that. Don't start doing boring stuff with her, if you hang out make sure it's something fun... I guess if you feel pvssywhipped you need to have more fun when you're with her, or take off when it's boring...

Just my 2 cnts.

 

[poohead]

the best distraction from being bored is going out and trying to meet other girls. this is the best time to do that too. and it mentally takes you out of our potential afc-ness with this girl, so even if nothing comes out of it it will be worth it.

 

[tobby]

You shouldn't worry about how much you see a chick or how to cater to her interest level etc. You basically go with the flow. Right now you guys are infatuated with each other and want to see each other alot. After time, you don't really want to see each other as much. You shoudn't "dry" out so fast if you guys are truly interested in each other. If that's the case, then you probably weren't really meant to be.

 

[n00bPimp]

Try to keep yourself busy by getting a job, if you have one get a second one, excercise, join a club, take lessons in something, find a hobby, just try to have an eventful life.

 

[MacAvoy]

You need to start spinning more plates. Your on the road to AFC'ville. You may not be taking the direct route there but the scenic route. Just because your not "b/f & g/f" doesn't mean that your not acting AFC. The reason why you want to keep seeing her and can't say no is that right now you have no other options.

You need to get out there and start chatting up new marks. Simply not being exclusive with this mark is not enough. You have to make yourself the prize. She'll be eating out of your hands much more if you are seeingother women.

 

[MightyMate]

Normal LTR. I see my gf everyday.