Handling Better Looking Girls, the EASY way.

[MrCasual]

I've dated hundreds of women, and I want
to humbly throw a tip or two on how to
handle AskingOut/Dating women with good
looks. BELIEVE ME, if you say the wrong
thing before getting to know them, you'll
be done without knowing what you did.
I've dated at least ten "gorgeous" women.

I DONT recommend it, because more normal
looking women are less high maintenance
(though not always), have more developed
personalities, and appreciate good guys
more. Folow this guidline.
1. No matter how tempting, DONT date
a girl just for her looks. Its not enough.
If she's fun and interesting, THEN consider
it.
2. NEVER NEVER NEVER tell the girl how
attractive she is until MUCH later. Trust
me, she's been told this all her life. She's
bored with it, and she's BORED WITH YOU
if you go there, like every other schlup.
3. Turn the tables and BE CASUAL. Every
other guy has come on like the puppy dog
desperate for a deeper relationship. DONT
even think about going there. INstead,
keep it casual, light, playful, and with
lots of deep conversation.
4. This is a time to concentrate on
YOUR style, your life, and your strenghts.
She's going to go out with and stay with
you if you have a lot to offer.
5. Style. This is the great equalizer.
You may not have brad pitt looks, but if
you Nic Cage style, youre good. Think
of Cage. He's got more personal style
than anyone in the movies. Charm, wit,
depth, personality, offbeat humor,
personal dressing style, uniqueness,
tenderness, and above all, confidence
and toughness.
6. If the looks issue comes up, handle
it like this: Usually ignore it, but
when she says something like "im having
a bad hair day",,,,,turn the tables!
AGREE WITH her playfully. This is the
time for the ****y/funny thing. Tell her
that "when HAVNT you had a bad hair day?""
It demonstrates that youre playful, witty,
and that her looks are secondary to
your budding friendship.

That's it for now. My next post will have
to do with using style to capture attention.

 

[Awkward]

Helt jävla skitbra post!

Nice tips, they really sumarize everything you need.

 

[zinc]

Yeah good post. The style one was pretty good as well, I feel you may well be quite new to the board, if this is true, welcome

 

[jmm854]

good sh*t.

No matter how tempting, DONT date
a girl just for her looks.

Amen to that brother.

 

[Eroticising]

That is one sweet post dude. Keep up the excellent work

 

[Inspector Clouseau]

2. NEVER NEVER NEVER tell the girl how attractive she is until MUCH later. Trust me, she's been told this all her life. She's bored with it, and she's BORED WITH YOU if you go there, like every other schlup.

I have the problem of actually forgetting to complimenting women, which in the long-term, I believe, actually hurts me. So, do compliment from time to time.

 

[studmuffin15]

yea this is sweet stuff. HOF-caliber??

 

[4am]

No doubt it is HOF caliber, in my eyes. Unfortunately I've learned some of this stuff the hard way.

 

[StellarPKT]

Originally posted by Inspector Clouseau:
I have the problem of actually forgetting to complimenting women, which in the long-term, I believe, actually hurts me. So, do compliment from time to time.

Inspector, not complimenting really doesnt matter that much at all. I mean have you ever heard a girl say she dumped a guy because he didnt compliment her and stroke her ego enough? There are many many more important things you should be worrying about.

[This message has been edited by StellarPKT (edited 08-30-2002).]

 

[Don diego]

MrCasual, I don´t praise often. But...Great post! I specialy liked the nick cage comparision. He ain´t good looking but ....

I have the problem of actually forgetting to complimenting women, which in the long-term, I believe, actually hurts me. So, do compliment from time to time.[/B]

So have I.

[This message has been edited by Don diego (edited 08-30-2002).]

 

[Steve]

Thanks, helpful post there.