Thanks for the reply Snowdog, I didn't even notice it til now. Anyways, I just finished up my first week of school and I figured I'd post some updates.
- I think I might be out of luck with the girl I kissed at the train station. I texted her saying I was going to the mall on Saturday and seeing if she wanted to come, but she had an excuse lined up. Her excuse was valid, but she didn't counter offer. I think I will used the two strikes principles with this one and try again in a couple weeks, and if that doesn't work, NEXT.
lesson learned: use phone to set up dates, check if she's free before letting her know your plans.
- in my mwf classes, I didn't really do much monday and wednesday as far as girls go, but I managed to talk to a couple of guys who seem pretty cool. I sat down next to and tried to talk to one guy in another of my classes, but he seemed like he had something wrong with him or was just socially inept.
-Then, Friday, a semi-attractive girl actually sat down next to me in my statistics class, and we got to talking. We talked after class too but I didn't # close. I don't know if I would hit it but I may try for the number this week for practice. In my econ class on friday, I saw a cute asian girl sitting alone and just went for it and sat next to her. I think I did alright here, we walked for a bit after class but once again, I didn't go for the #. I need to get better at steering the topic of conversation away from just boring class stuff when talking to girls in class. I'm going to start sitting next to cute girls whenever I see them sitting alone from now on though, because it's really not that hard.
lesson learned: go for the number, dumbass.
- Friday night was pretty good, just a bunch of people drinking in the dorms. I hung out at my home dorm for a while, but there weren't really too many people out who I didn't know. A girl a year below me started hitting on me something fierce at this point, but she was maybe hb5.5 at best, skinny, dece chest, but face pretty bad. When I went to leave she got upset so I got her number and then went over to another dorm for a while and talked to this one kinda cute girl, sam, for a minute or two, and then just hung out with some friends there. I talked to a few more freshman girls there but I don't remember their names or the conversations. Then I decided to head back to my home dorm. I had had a few beers at this point so I was a little tipsy, so I thought it would be a bright idea to call up the girl who had been all over me earlier. We met up, and wandered around looking for parties. We went to where we thought there was one, and there was nothing there, so I just said **** it, pulled her to me, and started making out. Someone walked by tho so we had to stop after a bit. Then she met up with her friends and had to go home, so I was thankfully free. I hung out for a bit more and then went home. Throughout the night I got a bunch of numbers from people/girls I've talked to before, but I already had a bunch of rapport with them so it was easy.
lesson learned: approach more, dummy.
to be continued..
- I think I might be out of luck with the girl I kissed at the train station. I texted her saying I was going to the mall on Saturday and seeing if she wanted to come, but she had an excuse lined up. Her excuse was valid, but she didn't counter offer. I think I will used the two strikes principles with this one and try again in a couple weeks, and if that doesn't work, NEXT.
lesson learned: use phone to set up dates, check if she's free before letting her know your plans.
- in my mwf classes, I didn't really do much monday and wednesday as far as girls go, but I managed to talk to a couple of guys who seem pretty cool. I sat down next to and tried to talk to one guy in another of my classes, but he seemed like he had something wrong with him or was just socially inept.
-Then, Friday, a semi-attractive girl actually sat down next to me in my statistics class, and we got to talking. We talked after class too but I didn't # close. I don't know if I would hit it but I may try for the number this week for practice. In my econ class on friday, I saw a cute asian girl sitting alone and just went for it and sat next to her. I think I did alright here, we walked for a bit after class but once again, I didn't go for the #. I need to get better at steering the topic of conversation away from just boring class stuff when talking to girls in class. I'm going to start sitting next to cute girls whenever I see them sitting alone from now on though, because it's really not that hard.
lesson learned: go for the number, dumbass.
- Friday night was pretty good, just a bunch of people drinking in the dorms. I hung out at my home dorm for a while, but there weren't really too many people out who I didn't know. A girl a year below me started hitting on me something fierce at this point, but she was maybe hb5.5 at best, skinny, dece chest, but face pretty bad. When I went to leave she got upset so I got her number and then went over to another dorm for a while and talked to this one kinda cute girl, sam, for a minute or two, and then just hung out with some friends there. I talked to a few more freshman girls there but I don't remember their names or the conversations. Then I decided to head back to my home dorm. I had had a few beers at this point so I was a little tipsy, so I thought it would be a bright idea to call up the girl who had been all over me earlier. We met up, and wandered around looking for parties. We went to where we thought there was one, and there was nothing there, so I just said **** it, pulled her to me, and started making out. Someone walked by tho so we had to stop after a bit. Then she met up with her friends and had to go home, so I was thankfully free. I hung out for a bit more and then went home. Throughout the night I got a bunch of numbers from people/girls I've talked to before, but I already had a bunch of rapport with them so it was easy.
lesson learned: approach more, dummy.
to be continued..
