you know, buddy? it aint really all that hard to get. It's far, far more important to ensure your physical safety (ie, gun and hand to hand training) your health, and your ability to provide money for yourself, (preferably with just return on your investments, in a safe way). Once you take care of those things, which take quite a bit of effort, money, and time, the pvssy issue will take care of itself, I promise you.