Had sex for the first time

[arlanda]

OK, so I meet with this 38 years old librarian (lol) at her place. We chatted just yesterday on the Internet and agreed to meet. BTW. I am 21.

The online discussion went like this :

Me : bla bla
Her : bla bla
Me : what do you do?
Her : I am a librarian, interesting huh?
Me : Yeah! I just remembered this adult movie ...
Her : What was it called? Describe it to me, please!
Me : bla bla librarian bla bla young man bla bla sex
Her : I like that!
Me : Give me your address
Her : OK

Well, first of all I wanted to finally do it. My confidence with girls hasn't been really that high maybe just because of me being a virgin.

I am glad my first time was with someone I didn't really care for. I didn't really know if what I was doing was right.

Anyway, I fingered her and she came twice so I suppose I wasn't that bad, lol. Funny, I was thinking I will come in like 10 seconds but no matter what I did I just couldn't get it up! WTF! She prolly didn't turn me on or I was too nervous. I don't know. She wasn't a hottie but she was a fine woman (HB6, I thought that's enough)

Bottom line, it sucks first time :crackup: Do I feel different? Not really. Still, it was an interesting experience.

 

[superchristx]

So did actually have intercourse with her or not? Fingering her is not sex. You should told her to suck your ****.

You're just nervous in the service, once you learn to associate a woman with orgasm you won't be having problems. If I were you I'd go for a second try.

 

[arlanda]

Yup, I did have an intercourse with her and I came inside her ... I just wasn't that hard as when I masturbate to a porn.

She sucked my **** too

 

[AmIAFC]

Originally posted by arlanda
Yup, I did have an intercourse with her and I came inside her ... I just wasn't that hard as when I masturbate to a porn.

She sucked my **** too

Stop watching porn, quit masturbating. It's giving you the wrong impression and feel of real sex, and as a result, you won't be as responsive with the real thing.

 

[Scream]

Originally posted by AmIAFC
Stop watching porn, quit masturbating. It's giving you the wrong impression and feel of real sex, and as a result, you won't be as responsive with the real thing.

That's too true, sex feels so different. I was having that problem last night and this morning.

 

[Rex Man]

The mature women huh? I bet she had some tricks for ya.


Good Job man, just dont get complacent.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

My first time was...heh..9 months ago. And I fucked her all night. I was hard as a fuckin' rock. I never understood why guys get limp at the very first opportunity...

 

[Borgon]

Originally posted by SmartOne
DUDE! awesome story, sounds like u nailed this one easily. But 38? how in the world did you meet her? where on the internet? i have been trying to nail an older broad for a long time now...

I am wondering where he met her too, am in the same boat =)

 

[arlanda]

I am wondering why it went limp too. I was thinking I will come in like 10 seconds, hah.

As for where I met her, there is a chatting/dating site which is quite popular in our country. Actually, it's really hard to get the girls to meet you because they are afraid (believe it or not, Internet is new to many people here and the younger ones believe online dating is just for losers).

This MILF in particular has just broke up with her BF of 12 years so I guess I was in the right place at the right time + I was bold about it and didn't really care if she agreed to meet or not. Also, in her profile she said she gets on well with younger people in general.

Actually, I have another 38 years old divorced mother "in progress", this one was more reluctant to meet but we talked a lot and she seems to genuinely like me - if nothing happens I'm OK with it as this girl is perfectly honest, plays no games and actually offers a good relationship advice

So my advice would be, don't go straight for it unless you get the feeling she might be up for some action but over time make it clear you see no problem with you two having more than an intelectual relationship She either agrees or not. Who cares. Oh, yes and they always bring up the age gap, I guess it's best to ignore it and say "so what, I like you anyway".

 

[Reagan]

Like some fag said above,

dude you nutted inside her!why werent u weariung a condom!arent you worried about a disease or getting her pregnant,and dont tell me she was on the pill,cuz forst off,you dont know that for a fact and second,you can still catch a disease!

 

[CrizzleGA]

Hmm from that lil bit of convo over the internet she let you ****?? She seems like a real winner....

 

[superchristx]

arlanda, you dog you!!! It sounds like you've got your key demographic, the MILF. The MILF is possibly the greatest thing to happen to young men since the jello-shooter.

MILFs are in their sexual prime

MILFs just want to get laid, no strings. They don't want to get serous because you're half their age!

MILFs know all the tricks

MILFs have relatively low value, because for most men youth and fertility are so critical to attraction.

In terms of your limp ****, the others are correct. Your problem is porno. How many times have you beaten off to a specific porno or kind of porno? You've built yourself a SEXUAL TRIGGER, largely tied to a television screen. If it wheren't for porno, a woman's body would be enough to get you hard.

The only solution is to stop watching porn and start having sex. Really it's more fun, you take more pride in having sex, and it actually DOES feel better. If I were you, however, I'd start using a condom so that your body can get used to it while you're young.