Had a date and no luck

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Met this ***** 28 years old online, cute, green eyed brunette, i mean, i liked her on the spot. we exchanged pics and she saw me on the webcam, apparently she liked what she saw, she did a strip for me even if i didn't asked her. i disliked the atitude, not that i dont like to see a woman naked, of course i do, i'm a ****in Man, it's just so forced, so unnatural.

We talked on the phone too, everything was well, good convo, she seemed to me to be a very sexual woman and that she digged me, she even talked about us getting laid and she asked me on a date. I met her 3 days after, we kissed on the face, we talked and the first impact was what the **** am i doing here i thinked, i came to the conclusion that there was no chemistry between us, the fire that that girl had, that day was only smoke.

Despite that i tried to french kiss her but she refused, i asked why, and she said it was a seduction maneuver (bull****). We sat having a coffee and she started talking about how we should take this slowly, as friends, and see where we could get, 100 % the opposite of what she was the day we met.

When she was prepared to LJBF me, i said ok, got up and prepared to leave her. she said hey where are you going. take it easy, i didnt said i want you only as i friend and she gave me a tongue kiss. we talked more and she said i was a bit shy. i asked her also what she thought about me in the looks department, she said: everyone is just the way it is, nobody is perfect.

Later at night i called her to her cell phone and she cancelled my calls. i gave up, told her i wouldnt bother calling her again. and she came to me with that suicidal talk if ya know what i mean, like those teenager girls trying to blackmail you emotionally "if you don talk to me, if you leave me, i will kill myself this instant, and i mean it " type of ****. everyone knows that if someone wants to commit suicide he/she wont tell

Two days passed and she never called me or text messaged me, well nothing. i called her so we could clear things and talk like normal persons about what happened, she told she had no time for an insecure guy like me and cut all contact. blocked me on her profile on myspace and netlog and she even changed her cell phone nr.

Was this all necessary? i didn't even act needy or desperate to have her
 

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From the way this story came out, looks like she has some crazy issues. She didn't want to talk to you, became suicidal, then decided to block your number? Sounds like a crazy f*cked up situation
 

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Dude, you asked the girl what she thought about you in the looks department. That's like putting your insecurities on a billboard. You should have been qualifing her... instead you were helping qualifying yourself.

She probably strips for guys on a daily basis... and talks to them about sex. This girl is a crazy slut. Run away.
 

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dopexile said:
Dude, you asked the girl what she thought about you in the looks department. That's like putting your insecurities on a billboard. You should have been qualifing her... instead you were helping qualifying yourself.

She probably strips for guys on a daily basis... and talks to them about sex. This girl is a crazy slut. Run away.
Not to mention an attention *****. Next!
 
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