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Quagmire911

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Drum&Bass said:
I LOVE the way I look from lifting !! I would be lying if I didn't love the fact the women appreciate my looks. I don't see anything wrong with that ???

Humans are social creatures and looking good helps you socially.
Looks are a great reason to get into fitness however they SHOULD NOT BE THE ONLY REASON to get fit (and stay fit).
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Agreed.

You shouldn't be in love with yourself, but there is no excuse to look like a fat slob and do yourself injustice.
 
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Pook says that the most important reason to bulk up is that it makes your personality more masculine. Looks are a nice side-effect, but you really shouldn't dwell on them.
 
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Quagmire911 said:
I don't read any of that stuff anymore. Joined when I was 15 or something and then probably matured a bit and realized that a lot of the stuff was over complicating things. Been with a girl for nearly two years now and I don't have to think about all that stuff. Quite frankly half the guys using all that abbreviated s*** are pretty sad and it is counter productive in my opinion.

I really only come in here. Pop into anything else occasionally if there are some interesting looking threads.
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Yeah, some is def over complicating things, some isn't. I think this site attracts a lot of nerds (I can't talk, cause i am one deep down, Star Wars fan with a hundred dollar lightsaber haha :up: ) and they tend to over analyze like a bunch of girls :rolleyes:

A mistake i made with my girl who i was dating for almost three years was that i stopped being the don juan/myself I was in the beginning, I got cheated on one day and caught her immediately. Until it was over, i didn't realize what happened, and it hit me hard. Lame i know, but the best advice I could give to someone on this board it would be, stay the MAN you are, don't change for her.

I always knew of this section of sosuave when i was a kid, and i always wanted to try Diesil's bulking plan at 17, but i chickened out. But i knew i'd comeback...and a year of training under my belt, i am very happy i did. It's been well worth it.

And i also believe what Pook says about it making you more masculine.
 
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