Gym long game

[isasda66]

People talk about the gym long game but doesnt long game usually turn out to be friend zone.

I dont approach at the gym but usually when they smile after we make eye contact and are nearby enough the next time, Ill make some comment. But then again most women at my gym stick to the yoga mat section while I rarely leave the weight section. Only time I leave is for some isolation machines which are between the two. If she asks for a name and then runs away that is a IoI but waiting for too long might just push you into the friend zone category.

At least here in UK unistudents have stopped drinking as much and are less social in groups but open to speaking alone. So figured I can break the dont **** where you eat for the gym.

 

[Travel memoir21]

Before you go to the gym, you always want to be in the best state of mind as possible. That’s where things like upbeat positive inspiring music, Prayer - Gratitude prayer of Thanking God for what you have and meditation comes in.

Start living a Simple lifestyle and get rid of all the toxic things in your life. Minimize and unclutter your schedules and possessions so you’ll feel more refreshed throughout the day,


When you’re talking to anyone, not just a chick, you want to be in a position of GIVING your positive cool vibes instead of taking. When you do that, people will naturally gravitate towards you because your unselfish and genuine. So give when your flirting with a woman and that can only be possible by changing your lifestyle and spiritual outlook on life.

 

[BPH]

It's not that serious. There's no "long game" to play when you're in university using your school's gym - you're here for 3 years, and your schedule changes every semester...if you see somebody you like, just go say hi.

"Don't sh** where you eat" applies to workplace romances because if things go south it's very easy to get a bad reputation, and fired as result.

At a university gym? So long as you're not getting a reputation for hitting on every girl, or being super creepy in your approaches, nobody really cares.

 

[SW15]

I don't believe in long game at any gym. @BPH illustrated why it's not necessary at university gyms.

At gyms for non-college students (the working population), people change gym memberships/memberships at standalone fitness studios all the time.

At gyms/fitness studios, it's recommend to strike immediately. Ask a woman out immediately once you see her and approach her.

 

[isasda66]

There's no "long game" to play when you're in university using your school's gym - you're here for 3 years, and your schedule changes every semester...if you see somebody you like, just go say hi.
At a university gym? So long as you're not getting a reputation for hitting on every girl, or being super creepy in your approaches, nobody really cares.

I guess this makes sense since in a way everyone is vetted to an extent so not complete strangers and yeah going to leave in a few months so big deal. Yeah not going to talk to every single one and mostly I just ignore them and look through most and focus on getting out in under an hour.

At gyms/fitness studios, it's recommend to strike immediately. Ask a woman out immediately once you see her and approach her.

So if the first conversation was cut short then I guess it is a lost cause and asking out the next time would have diminishing returns. Or does it not matter.

 

[SW15]

if the first conversation was cut short then I guess it is a lost cause and asking out the next time would have diminishing returns. Or does it not matter.

If a first conversation on the general gym floor or at a fitness class (either a standalone facility class or a class setting within a gym) was cut short, then it means her interest level in you was insufficient. The reason why her interest level is insufficient is meaningless. It could have something to do with you or it could have absolutely nothing to do with you.

At the gym or after a fitness class, find the women most interested in having a meaningful interaction with you. Start a conversation with those women, use conversational skills to keep them engaged to the best of your ability, then ask her on a date on the spot.

 

[Bingo-Player]

If your tactful the gym is a really good place to start building some social proof

Last year when I was in the UK I was in a heavily student dominate gym , it wasn't specifically by choice it was just very close to where I lived

First 2 months I was there I kept myself to myself hardly spoke to anyone , but after a while some faces started getting more and more familiar there eventually I started chatting to some of the trainers , then some guys and eventually started to get to know a lot of the chicks

And this is the thing with chicks before they will let you anywhere near them or their freinds they want to suss you out a bit so the gym is great for this because its a very casual environment where its acceptable to just mingle with people

I eventually left for Australia so I didn't really have a chance to capitalise on any of the groundwork I did but towards the end I did have a few chicks from there messaging me and snooping me on Instagram

You have to be careful though becuase the gym is also a very gossipy place almost like a school playground

One guy tried doing what I did in terms of getting to know people, but he was too heavy handed with it he hit on nearly every chick in there got instantly rejected by nearly all of them and word quickly went around he was a weird creep

Once you get a label like that slapped on you in somewhere like the gym it really is game over..... time to find a new gym