I'm out at an afterhours club with a girl and her friends, and this drunk guy just comes and sits at our table, looks at me, and for absolutely no reasonsays in a broken Russian accent "you f'ing doochebag." The girls saw what was going to escalate and we just all left, yet the guy still followed us out with a couple of his buddies and we just hit the taxi and scrammed. How do you handle some random guy who just wants to get physical straight away?
Guys who want to fight for no reason?
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Ignore, tosh man. If youve got the girls, fighting not going to help anything, especailly if you don't have any of your boys around and he does. Avoid fights, you never know how their gonna go down. (ive seen some pretty ****ed up **** happen).
Here are some better Ideas.
- Get to know the bouncers. Just get em tossed.
- Try ignoring them. Just keep busy. unless you did something they should get bored.
- Go over to some afc and tell him that guy over there keeps lookin at you funny. man look, hes mouthin off at you right now.
- Find some tuff guys in there bar. use you Dj skills to start a convo with them keep it going. If he sees you he might back off.
- Start mouthing off to one of your buddys If your getting into a fight with someone else, he might too.
- Use this as a conversation piece with some HBs. He'll start getting jealous of all your skills and back off.
- Stop going to sleazy bars go some where with some class.
- Go tell the Boucers, your just out with your girl friends havin fun and that guy is startin ****, keep an eye on him. slip him a twenty.
- Tell one of your girl friends to go up to the bouncer and tell him that guy is molesting her. Bouncers usually listen too pretty girls.
- Go up to him and tell him tell you'll meet him out back. Then 1) Don't go. 2) Tell the door guy not to let him back in 3) bribe the door guy to not to let him back in.
- Go over to the guy and point to one of the girls your with tell him its her birthday and your makin her uncomfortable, lets all just party and have a fun night. Make him feel stupid for actin so wierd.
- Start bring a shank downtown with you. Go up behind him and jig him 5 or 6 times in the kidneys, when hes on the ground tell not to F*ck around.
Those just a few Ideas. Good luck. stay sharp.
Here are some better Ideas.
- Get to know the bouncers. Just get em tossed.
- Try ignoring them. Just keep busy. unless you did something they should get bored.
- Go over to some afc and tell him that guy over there keeps lookin at you funny. man look, hes mouthin off at you right now.
- Find some tuff guys in there bar. use you Dj skills to start a convo with them keep it going. If he sees you he might back off.
- Start mouthing off to one of your buddys If your getting into a fight with someone else, he might too.
- Use this as a conversation piece with some HBs. He'll start getting jealous of all your skills and back off.
- Stop going to sleazy bars go some where with some class.
- Go tell the Boucers, your just out with your girl friends havin fun and that guy is startin ****, keep an eye on him. slip him a twenty.
- Tell one of your girl friends to go up to the bouncer and tell him that guy is molesting her. Bouncers usually listen too pretty girls.
- Go up to him and tell him tell you'll meet him out back. Then 1) Don't go. 2) Tell the door guy not to let him back in 3) bribe the door guy to not to let him back in.
- Go over to the guy and point to one of the girls your with tell him its her birthday and your makin her uncomfortable, lets all just party and have a fun night. Make him feel stupid for actin so wierd.
- Start bring a shank downtown with you. Go up behind him and jig him 5 or 6 times in the kidneys, when hes on the ground tell not to F*ck around.
Those just a few Ideas. Good luck. stay sharp.
white cloud 8
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Yeah...but don't stand there like one big floppy c*ck either 
, stand up like a man. Remember, that no one has the right to lay their hands on you, if they do, they won't have hands anymore (catch my drift?).
, stand up like a man. Remember, that no one has the right to lay their hands on you, if they do, they won't have hands anymore (catch my drift?).
The variations of circumstances are too many to just say there are only two ways out of a situation like this.
Depending on the aggressor's disposition, I'd try to make a fool out of him verbally. Of course, sometimes a drunken aggressor may be hellbent on starting something and there may be no way to avoid a physical altercation using words. So in these cases, I'd say it's better to back down unless your life, or a loved one's life is in danger.
These are difficult situations to be in, especially in a club environment. Firstly, there is the influence of alcohol, making some violent, and generally reducing the inhibitions of everyone. Secondly there is the fact that men are trying to impress women. Some do it with aggression towards other males. It's human nature.
It's almost always better to avoid a physical fight.
To even further complicate shyt, aggressors can be attracted to you for a number of reasons. Your posture shows a lack of confidence and makes you look like an easy mark for bullies. Your posture shows an exaggeration of confidence, trying to mask underlying insecurities, and some bullies can see through it and will try to call you out. Of course it could be due to jealousy over women etc. The list goes on and on.
There is no black/white, right/wrong in these situations. Use your best judgement and try to avoid a fight if possible, and try to save face at the same time. The best way to accomplish this, as I mentioned this before is to act cool and attempt to make the aggressor look like a douche and humiliate him verbally. There are other times though, when it's possible to turn an aggressor into a friend by talking to him calmly and trying to do some "drunken reasoning" with him. This won't work with the really aggressive guys though.
Good luck in the future and just remember that throwing one punch can change the rest of your life.
Depending on the aggressor's disposition, I'd try to make a fool out of him verbally. Of course, sometimes a drunken aggressor may be hellbent on starting something and there may be no way to avoid a physical altercation using words. So in these cases, I'd say it's better to back down unless your life, or a loved one's life is in danger.
These are difficult situations to be in, especially in a club environment. Firstly, there is the influence of alcohol, making some violent, and generally reducing the inhibitions of everyone. Secondly there is the fact that men are trying to impress women. Some do it with aggression towards other males. It's human nature.
It's almost always better to avoid a physical fight.
To even further complicate shyt, aggressors can be attracted to you for a number of reasons. Your posture shows a lack of confidence and makes you look like an easy mark for bullies. Your posture shows an exaggeration of confidence, trying to mask underlying insecurities, and some bullies can see through it and will try to call you out. Of course it could be due to jealousy over women etc. The list goes on and on.
There is no black/white, right/wrong in these situations. Use your best judgement and try to avoid a fight if possible, and try to save face at the same time. The best way to accomplish this, as I mentioned this before is to act cool and attempt to make the aggressor look like a douche and humiliate him verbally. There are other times though, when it's possible to turn an aggressor into a friend by talking to him calmly and trying to do some "drunken reasoning" with him. This won't work with the really aggressive guys though.
Good luck in the future and just remember that throwing one punch can change the rest of your life.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
Normally I would say whoop someone's ass if they mess with you, but in club circumstances just walk away.
There're tons of reasons, 1. Because there's no telling how many people he has with him. 2. Because he may have a weapon with him. 3. The bouncers will kick your asses.
I once saw a boy getting his ass kicked, and the bouncers didn't ask questions, just bashed both of the guys on their heads and threw them out.
So basically, there's no point in fighting some drunk prick for absolutely no reason. Just walk away, you're never gonna see him again.
NYtomb
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I used to be a bruiser back in junior high school, then I met my match. After that I avoid fights if at all possible. The last thing I need is to get arrested when trying to "keep it real". Walk away, its not worth it.
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Hes drunk, You are not. Fight 1 on 1. Girl is gonna think You are lame if You wont. Even if she tells different.
You made the Correct Move...
Sounds like you are in Europe...(russia perhaps).
Winning a fight in a Bar depends on numerous circumstances and Your mental frame of mind. Usually when you are out with 2 females...the last thing you want to do is get into it with some drunk dude who's just looking to Upset your party.
Next time...flip the bouncer a 10....and bring him with you back to the table where the ass~`' is...and have the bouncer straighten him out. Remember though....he may be waiting for you outside so....have a plan of action.
Ciao
Sounds like you are in Europe...(russia perhaps).
Winning a fight in a Bar depends on numerous circumstances and Your mental frame of mind. Usually when you are out with 2 females...the last thing you want to do is get into it with some drunk dude who's just looking to Upset your party.
Next time...flip the bouncer a 10....and bring him with you back to the table where the ass~`' is...and have the bouncer straighten him out. Remember though....he may be waiting for you outside so....have a plan of action.
Ciao
NYtomb
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Thats what I was thinking as I typed. The "when keepin it real goes wrong" where Dave Chappele gets his ass kicked in a bar after some guy says hi to his girl.
I got my ass handed to me in 7th grade and it was the best thing that couldve happened to me. It definetly put the idiot inside of me in check which kept me out of a lot of trouble as I grew up.
I think it depends on the circumstances. I know that in certain areas it would be really stupid of me to engage in any physical confrontation or ANY confrontation for that matter. Some people won't hesitate to turn an argument into a homicide. I've witnessed this first hand. These days it just isn't worth it unless your life and/or your loved ones are in immediate danger. It's always a gamble, but try and use your head first as it could be the last conscious decision you make. Your pride can easily get you f*cked up given the right people.
the best way to handle it would be to ignore him straight up. don't acknowledge him at all... just how you might ignore some bum begging for change. i know you were probably tripping out, but try to remain composed. you want to come across as if the guy's actions has absolutely no effect on you. said slowly and cool to your girl, "let's go somewhere else. another hater..." i doubt he would actually follow you guys. if he does and continues trying to start ****... man, hands down he's mental.. i wouldn't know what to do from there ..
oh yeah, and another reason you don't want to fight someone like that guy you mentioned. i would not be surprised if he was involved in ufc, grappling, etc. type of fighting. you'll never know who the hell you're dealing w/
oh yeah, and another reason you don't want to fight someone like that guy you mentioned. i would not be surprised if he was involved in ufc, grappling, etc. type of fighting. you'll never know who the hell you're dealing w/
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Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
I try to avoid physical fights at all costs. Its not because I'm a *****, I just dont like fighting random people. Just do like everyone else has been saying, ignore him and tell the bouncers if he starts ****. They will kick him out.
Cheat_LBJ
Don Juan
There isn't a broad alive that's worth a criminal conviction on assualt or disorderly conduct. A criminal record stays with you long after the woman you're trying to impress bolts for some other dude.
Plus, if you get into a fight and someone gets seriously injured, you're looking at a possible felony charge and/or civil lawsuit for injury. As litigious as society is these days, the last thing you want to do is put yourself at risk over some stupid fight.
Walk away.
I came the conclusion that if youre older than 14 you dont fight on the strees with unknown guys(only maybe guys you know from school). If I hit a guy, and if it's a perfect punch I may actually kill him with one punch. Same goes for the guy hitting me. We are not kids anymore when the worst thing that can happen if get a tooth knocked out and a black eye. You can die on the street. And this ic no chicken talk. If you wanna firght on the street get a pistol or a stun gun, mace ,something. Cause the guys you'll be fighting most likely won't be playing fair, like one on one...
When I get in a situation like this ig act like a confused guy, very friendly. If he sat on my table and called me names , I'd shrug it off and try to talk with him, calm him down.
Obviously if he attacks you , you have to hit him, and with no restraints, so kick him in his balls or his adam apple, and dont worry if he dies cause he shouldnt start fights on the street.
Just jesterday this happened in my country. Off duty special police forces ( 19-25 years old,something like SWAT) got beaten up by the bouncers. Now they got back with their cop friends and baseball bats, and kicked the innocent bouncers, while the regular cops were looking and not stoping them. One of the cops got 2 teeth knocked out, his jaw broken so he lost another 3 teeth, and a broken head. NOw I dont know about you guys but I dont want to look like Quasimodo.
Another time (as there was war , and are many crazy ppl, who lost it in the fights) a guy shot another cause he took his parking place.
So conclusion: leave the fighting to the kids, kids, and you be smart and stay handsome.
When I get in a situation like this ig act like a confused guy, very friendly. If he sat on my table and called me names , I'd shrug it off and try to talk with him, calm him down.
Obviously if he attacks you , you have to hit him, and with no restraints, so kick him in his balls or his adam apple, and dont worry if he dies cause he shouldnt start fights on the street.
Just jesterday this happened in my country. Off duty special police forces ( 19-25 years old,something like SWAT) got beaten up by the bouncers. Now they got back with their cop friends and baseball bats, and kicked the innocent bouncers, while the regular cops were looking and not stoping them. One of the cops got 2 teeth knocked out, his jaw broken so he lost another 3 teeth, and a broken head. NOw I dont know about you guys but I dont want to look like Quasimodo.
Another time (as there was war , and are many crazy ppl, who lost it in the fights) a guy shot another cause he took his parking place.
So conclusion: leave the fighting to the kids, kids, and you be smart and stay handsome.
Tha Realnezz
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Leave..
Now if you have ample backup then it's up to you wheter or not you wanna workout(fight..lol).
I have a couple of times..but usually don't.Cuz I have gotten arrested and gotten myself stomped out.It's not cool...trust me...lol.I let things slide at the club.You never know who's packing or who's with there crazy unstable cousin..
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
I wouldnt fight. You dont need to. The girls will not think your a ***** just because you dont get up and kick the sh1t out of a drunk d1ckhead yob. A respectable indervidual will walk away from these situations not fight. OK if he hit you then you hit back. Otherwise not worth the effort.
All i would do is go over to a bouncer and say that you think that guy is abit to drunk and around to cause trouble. Ask him to keep an eye on him.
If you are happy with your progress with the girls however i would use this situation to close the night.
"Hey this guy is just looking for trouble. Lets catch a cab back to mine and get rid of this loser."
All i would do is go over to a bouncer and say that you think that guy is abit to drunk and around to cause trouble. Ask him to keep an eye on him.
If you are happy with your progress with the girls however i would use this situation to close the night.
"Hey this guy is just looking for trouble. Lets catch a cab back to mine and get rid of this loser."
