gravityeyelids
Master Don Juan
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Lol dude pull your head out of your arse and think about it strategically. Having girls as friends, especially attractive ones is KEY. A number of things happen when you friend up a bunch of hot chicks:
1) You now have hot girls you can roll with. And trust me, rolling into a bar with a couple of 9's and a cool guy friend is far better than rolling up with "the crew" AKA 5 hungry dudes with too much gel and cologne on, looking to get laid
2) You become so used to hanging around and socializing with cute girls that you completely take them off the pedestal. After you realize how annoying and gross cute girls can be it's hard to be intimidated by many of the 9's and 10's when you go out.
3) THEY HAVE FRIENDS. What more needs to be said about this? Social circle game is a bajillion times more efficient than cold approaches. I could spend all week approaching random girls and get nada even if my game is tight. On the other hand, you find a cute friend of a platonic girl friend of yours and a large majority of the time that sh!t is in the bag and you dont have to deal with flaking or unresponsive girls,etc. Why would i waste my time doing dozens of approaches when i could stick to targets that have a better chance at paying off. That's like using a shotgun with spread shot and trying to kill a bear 200 yards away when i have a rifle with a scope. Girls by and large do NOT go home with randos from the bar. Some do but the vast majority are guys that she has a mutual friend with. I would say that 90% of my hookups in the past 5 years have been through a mutual friend. Just having someone in common makes her more relaxed.
4) They can be fun to hangout with. Sometimes i just prefer hanging out with girls. They're entertaining, they have a great energy and you can do things with them you can't do with your guy friends (and no i'm not talking about sex). You can also do a lot of the things you can do with the girls you're banging except you don't have to worry about impressing them or running fvcking game 24/7, you can simply relax and enjoy the female presence.
5) They wing the fvck out of you. Ever had a girl wing you at the bar properly? It's unreal. Unlike you're idiot guy friend who gets drunk and says stupid sh!t, they're so in tune with other girls and they know the game and just what to say to make you look like a stud. Even with randos at the bar, a cute girl can work wonders for you, to the point where you hardly have to do anything at all.
Being friends with girls allows you to gain an insight into the female mind that is impossible to see otherwise. Girls that you are sexually involved with are nearly ALWAYS going to have their guards up and it's hard to see anything but what they want you to see. When you're friends with girls, they completely drop their guard. You see them at their worst: hungover, no makeup, *****ing about guys, insecure about what they're doing, slumped over on the couch filling themselves full of cheetos.
Stop reading game online and live a bit man. Contrary to what people on these boards (as much as i love sosuave) say, life is about more than sticking your d!ck in anything decent looking. Don't be the guy who is unable to relax and have a good time without the validation of women. If you are allowing women to define your life rather than enhance it, then you need to re-evaluate your priorities.
1) You now have hot girls you can roll with. And trust me, rolling into a bar with a couple of 9's and a cool guy friend is far better than rolling up with "the crew" AKA 5 hungry dudes with too much gel and cologne on, looking to get laid
2) You become so used to hanging around and socializing with cute girls that you completely take them off the pedestal. After you realize how annoying and gross cute girls can be it's hard to be intimidated by many of the 9's and 10's when you go out.
3) THEY HAVE FRIENDS. What more needs to be said about this? Social circle game is a bajillion times more efficient than cold approaches. I could spend all week approaching random girls and get nada even if my game is tight. On the other hand, you find a cute friend of a platonic girl friend of yours and a large majority of the time that sh!t is in the bag and you dont have to deal with flaking or unresponsive girls,etc. Why would i waste my time doing dozens of approaches when i could stick to targets that have a better chance at paying off. That's like using a shotgun with spread shot and trying to kill a bear 200 yards away when i have a rifle with a scope. Girls by and large do NOT go home with randos from the bar. Some do but the vast majority are guys that she has a mutual friend with. I would say that 90% of my hookups in the past 5 years have been through a mutual friend. Just having someone in common makes her more relaxed.
4) They can be fun to hangout with. Sometimes i just prefer hanging out with girls. They're entertaining, they have a great energy and you can do things with them you can't do with your guy friends (and no i'm not talking about sex). You can also do a lot of the things you can do with the girls you're banging except you don't have to worry about impressing them or running fvcking game 24/7, you can simply relax and enjoy the female presence.
5) They wing the fvck out of you. Ever had a girl wing you at the bar properly? It's unreal. Unlike you're idiot guy friend who gets drunk and says stupid sh!t, they're so in tune with other girls and they know the game and just what to say to make you look like a stud. Even with randos at the bar, a cute girl can work wonders for you, to the point where you hardly have to do anything at all.
Being friends with girls allows you to gain an insight into the female mind that is impossible to see otherwise. Girls that you are sexually involved with are nearly ALWAYS going to have their guards up and it's hard to see anything but what they want you to see. When you're friends with girls, they completely drop their guard. You see them at their worst: hungover, no makeup, *****ing about guys, insecure about what they're doing, slumped over on the couch filling themselves full of cheetos.
Stop reading game online and live a bit man. Contrary to what people on these boards (as much as i love sosuave) say, life is about more than sticking your d!ck in anything decent looking. Don't be the guy who is unable to relax and have a good time without the validation of women. If you are allowing women to define your life rather than enhance it, then you need to re-evaluate your priorities.
