guys wanting girls back

[duttylove]

i write this because im slightly confused about the situation

i see alot of posts where girl left guy and guy wants her back. now most girls when they leave a guy will probly be riding some one elses jock or will at some point because shes not with you. i know girls do this and expect no different

if i were in a relationship nmy girl broke up with me but i wanted her back. knowing that shes been riding someone else, that would give me a strong enough reason not to get back with her.

i find it hard to understand why guys go back to a girl that has been sleeping with some one else in your absense, it IS allowed because she is single but why go back with her?

this is an AFC question but its something that im not sure about.

my girlfriend recently left me but ive moved on and she wants me back. part of me wants her back but i know shes been with other people so i wouldnt dream of it any more. am i completly wrong here?

 

[spider_007]

it all depends on a person. and who she slept with.....

 

[frivolousz21]

If she has been with other people....

then hell no..NEVER!

but there is always exceptions..but when someone loses all interest in you and completely leaves you..dont go back.

 

[frivolousz21]

also how long have u 2 been seperated?

 

[Skullcrusher]

A man accepts his lost, moves on, and improves himself.

If any girl wanted me back, she'd had to work for it. She'd have to be willing to pay for my food the next couple of dates, setup activities the next couple of dates... usually girls don't do this so I go on to my next venture.

 

[diablo]

Pook's series from Anti-Dump's Machine has great advice regarding ex's. Check it out here:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search...d=121438&sortby=lastpost&sortorder=descending

 

[Hellboy]

Probably no point in trying to rekindle anything, but a fvck's a fvck right? I won't turn my nose up at that "for old times sake" session.

 

[CraigMack]

Originally posted by Hellboy
Probably no point in trying to rekindle anything, but a fvck's a fvck right? I won't turn my nose up at that "for old times sake" session.

Now that's thinking with the wrong head there fella.

 

[Phonk Beta]

I went through the same thing. I'm in the US Navy and I was messing around with this broad on the same ship as me. Well, we used to argue all the time and one day, we got in to it again and she told the higher ups on the ship that I beat her. Well, we broke up but we used to talk to each other still. We still had feelings for one another. Then...it just dawned on me that she was the ultimate reason why I lost rank and got money garnished from my paychecks. So I said fuk her and moved on. I've improved my life x100!!!! She's messing with some other dude but still flirts with me. What do I say to that, you ask? FUK HER!!!!!

 

[jprjrjr]

Originally posted by Phonk Beta
I went through the same thing. I'm in the US Navy and I was messing around with this broad on the same ship as me. Well, we used to argue all the time and one day, we got in to it again and she told the higher ups on the ship that I beat her. Well, we broke up but we used to talk to each other still. We still had feelings for one another. Then...it just dawned on me that she was the ultimate reason why I lost rank and got money garnished from my paychecks. So I said fuk her and moved on. I've improved my life x100!!!! She's messing with some other dude but still flirts with me. What do I say to that, you ask? FUK HER!!!!!

This is a frightening, and ever growing trend among American women. If a guy does holds his ground and acts like a man, the bytch makes **** up about you to get you in trouble. All a girl has to do is say it's true, and you're up shyt creek without a paddle.

 

[Reed247]

Never go back if she left you in the first place

I dated a girl for 1 year. Why did we break up you ask? She was an escort, a prostitute if you will. I tried to convince her to stop, she refused and sent me poisonous words that hurt.

She came back to me exactly 1 year later. She begged me to be with her, however she was still an escort. I ended up giving into it, inviting her over, and it turned into a violent fight in which many negative things happened. My advice is to stay the hell away from exes. Once it's over it is OVER. Especially if the two of you declaired it's over for good and stopped your communication.

 

[FunnyCide]

I wouldn't get back with a girl that has slept with someone else that's just letting her walk all over you. Neither would I date a girl that was a prostitute either.

 

[penguin]

I think the same way about "breaks" (technically breaking up then getting together, not the simple 'time apart' kind of break) during relationships. I think it's just another way of saying "hey i want to technically be allowed to **** someone else, so i don't have to feel guilty, then come back to you". My (now ex) girlfriend suggested 'breaks' a few times. I flat out refused and said "you're either in this 100% or not at all". That's not why she's my ex lol, completely different issue there.

For me it's a one-chance thing. If you blow it, it's gone.

The moral of the story, if i even had one : move on fellas.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Men today want the pvssy no matter how polluted it is because they have no dignity or self-respect - they are desperate lonely fools!!! Men have become women and women have become men - these type of men will be destroyed soon - if not by women then by other men!!!!

 

[car501]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Men today want the pvssy no matter how polluted it is because they have no dignity or self-respect - they are desperate lonely fools!!! Men have become women and women have become men - these type of men will be destroyed soon - if not by women then by other men!!!!

AMEN !

 

[PRMoon]

There are plenty of girls out there for you. Why go down a road you've already traveled?

Besides you don't seem to broken up over this girl so getting back with her probably isn't too much of a priority for you. I'd spend my time looking for somebody else, just makes good sense.

 

[mentalwealth]

I'd spend my time looki...


shut up maggot

 

[DJ Hawtness]

Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
Once it's over it's over forever. The door is locked. Excommunication.

EDIT: I'm talking about a LTR.

If it's just in the first few dates then I agree with Skullcrusher a few posts down.

This isn't always true, but it's true most of the time. It just depends on what girl it is.

The girl I'm trying to go out on a date with, I already asked her out before or w/e, but her friends ruined it. That doesn't mean that she's already been jocked. =/

If she's special (like the one I want to try to go out with again), then go for it bro, it's something that shouldn't be ignored. Like so many have said before, it's better to hear no, than not take any action (because if you don't, you'll feel totally screwed up).

 

[Ricky]

Normally I'm out the door and on the way to the next girl with a breakup.

For me this recent breakup has been hard. Partly because I don't think it was necessary. That's the only reason I want her back. But it's also a reason to be cautious. If she is breaking up over essentially nothing, who knows what the future might hold. I have certainly seen a side of her that I don't like so much.