Guys please help this girl is TRICKY, really need advice

Joined
Jun 10, 2013
Messages
15
Reaction score
0
all info is essential to give good advice my man, just read it i think its quite a interesting story too and i have to learn a lot with girls like these she got a hold on me man u need to know every detail mate
 

Deep Dish

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 25, 2002
Messages
2,160
Reaction score
156
well guys what do u think of the story, this girl got a hold on me i hav to admit but (1) was she playing, (2) was she true with me and really so confused that she couldnt kiss me and get feelings or (3) was she just toying coz she needed some1 around her.
Options one or three.
 

LearningSlowly

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 8, 2011
Messages
1,216
Reaction score
13
Location
Atlanta
Too much drama.

Why did she date this ******* in the first place? If you're going to have her, he needs to know he has no chance anymore, so it would have to be official between you two. Otherwise he'll bring friends and beat you with baseball bats.

He's crazy, she must have some crazy in her to have dated him. Find a new girl to avoid more drama. She likes you more than him, but enough to date you? I don't think so. Rejecting the kiss is a really bad sign.
 

nismo-4

Moderator
Joined
Jan 31, 2005
Messages
4,405
Reaction score
1,111
Location
From New Orleans, Louisiana to Atlanta, Georgia!!!
If it was Channing Tatum here she wouldn't mind kissing him on the mouth!

Dude, what Judge nismo got out of reading that big ass wall of text was that she's not over her ex and is still wet for him. She dries up for you.

Also, women who are interested in you won't confuse you. This was doomed before it started. All this drama.

My ruling is drop her ass and spin more plates. She's giving you mixed emotions and rejecting your kisses. But she doesn't mind your attention! All bad signs.

Case closed.
 
Joined
Jun 10, 2013
Messages
15
Reaction score
0
bradd80 said:
I was gonna say one and three
Hey bradd and nismo, ye im sure u guys are right. gonna see her in 2 weeks or so, ill just act normal and cool like nothin happened, but i feel like revenge or so coz she ****ing used me, but sending something is weak even tho i want to put her on her place.
 

Greasy Pig

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 22, 2009
Messages
1,682
Reaction score
103
Location
Australia
Many red flags here, OP.
1. She was nice to you when she felt she could benefit from your help with the assignment. A few friendly flirty texts, eye contact, kisses on the cheek - all designed to keep you orbiting and boosting her ego. When you tried to escalate, she backed off and made bullsht excuses.
Don't be surprised if she goes ghost on your ass as soon as the assignment is done.
2. She hangs out with rich dudes at clubs. What for? Free drinks? Is she a paid escort? Does she just like attention?
Like many young modern women, she knows how to use her looks and men's desperation to her advantage.
You're being sucked into her attention wh0re vortex. There's no doubt she's either still banging her bad boy ex or at least trying to use you to make him jealous.
Fuk that. You need to get busy with other things and other women. If she's truly interested, her hamster will go into overdrive and she'll wonder what the hell you're up to and why you've suddenly gone cold.
DJs don't concern themselves with drama. Let her sort her shyt out with the ex while you go out and game women far more worthy of your time and effort.
 
Top