Guys I need advice here on whether to pursue this girl or just give up.

Dave111

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Hi guys I posted here yesterday about a girl I was dating (see link)

Im in two minds, I dont know whether I should pursue her after she turned her cheek towards me when I went to kiss her yesterday and I've got to admit its thrown me off somewhat, as I didn't see it coming.

should I ask her out again and run risk of yet another rejection in Dave111's life or should I just maybe take this as a hint and move on.
 

Dukester

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it could mean one of 2 things, she's shy, and nervous about it.

or

she really doesnt like you.

when i was going out w/ this one girl for a lil over a month, i could see things going downhill, but i was willing to still give it a chance.
i went to kiss her one night after dinner, and she turned, and gave me the cheek.
i was like, fvck no, and broke up w/ her on the spot. and the funny thing is, that she was hurt more than i was
 

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it was the first date.

It's not a great sign - but if you dig her go out again. Don't think about it though, just have fun
 

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Wow, some of you seem to be really "by-the-book." The sooner you're able to think outside that book, the better off you'll do in your interactions with the women you're with. You shouldn't have a "checklist" or things you do first when going out with someone for the first time, every scenario's different. Just go out there and adapt to your environmental factors and play off the events that ensue while the two of you are together. You should've known if this girl was gonna let you suck her face or not mang. The vibes are usually there for you to read when they present themselves.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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