Guys care about a girl's socio-economic status

[CornbreadFed]

First here are the classes.

Permanent Non-College educated/low skilled labor class- Any skilled labor or non-skilled labor without a degree with zero plans of pursuing higher education.

Temporary Transit Class (Non-applicable)- You are in the above field, but actively pursuing higher education, or you have a college degree but temporarily working a low-skilled labor job in the meantime.

College Degree in a career that requires a 4-year degree or above. Parents were college educated and raised in a typical middle or upper middle-class environment.

Intermediates (Non-applicable)- People without degrees that got lucrative jobs or careers that do not require a degree. Ex. Rags to Riches type people.

Wealthy- Born in to extreme wealth, if you know you know.


Today I was at Target and this cute Latina cashier complimented me and asked for my number to go on a date. I politely declined and told her that I wasn't single. Other than that, it would have been a disaster because she works at Target. I have heard this argument from the manosphere that men do not care about a woman's socioeconomic status, but I call complete BS on that claim. I think this only applies to men that are new rich or were working class/blue collar for a good portion of their life. I am not trying to sound snobby, but there's too many life differences that would get in the way like dealing with her friends, educating her on what a 401k is, and etc. I am in no business to raise a child.

 

[SW15]

What's wrong with going on a date with a Target cashier? I would go on a date with Target cashier if I were physically attracted to her.

A lot of men want to date Hooters or Twin Peaks waitresses/bartenders who don't have bachelor's degrees.

 

[The Duke]

How about you start a survey and we can see what the SS Manosphere has to say?

Doesn't really matter to me. Ive dated girls that lived pay check to paycheck, and girls that ran companies and made over $200k/yr.

Perhaps what you value in a woman is not what the typical man values?

 

[CornbreadFed]

What's wrong with going on a date with a Target cashier? I would go on a date with Target cashier if I were physically attracted to her.

Unless the girl is in Target while in school or something, we wouldn't relate to each other at all. I also cringe at having to interact with her low skilled labor friends that are content at working at Target for the rest of their lives.

A lot of men want to date Hooters or Twin Peaks waitresses/bartenders who don't have bachelor's degrees.

I wouldn't date a girl that gets paid to attract male attention.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Lol at OP being a SWPL Bougie while not even being white.

If the latina neither ratchet ghetto nor a nun, why the hell not go for it? You can still bang her while you search for Ms. Prissy Perfect.

 

[NealIRC]

You assumed she wasn't in college?

Weird, or maybe you and her have consistently met before?

 

[BillyPilgrim]

You assumed she wasn't in college?

Weird, or maybe you and her have consistently met before?

He said "latina" in the OP. Who works at Target. It's not the worst assumption to make. She could be in nursing school though.

 

[CornbreadFed]

How about you start a survey and we can see what the SS Manosphere has to say?

Doesn't really matter to me. Ive dated girls that lived pay check to paycheck, and girls that ran companies and made over $200k/yr.

Done and you can live paycheck to paycheck and still make over 200k/yr.

 

[NealIRC]

He said "latina" in the OP. Who works at Target. It's not the worst assumption to make. She could be in nursing school though.

Yea, but I never knew who a 401(k) is from college. I learned what it is, from employment, as well as talking to people such as my parents.

 

[CornbreadFed]

He said "latina" in the OP. Who works at Target. It's not the worst assumption to make. She could be in nursing school though.

I could tell based on her attitude and demeanor.

 

[NealIRC]

I could tell based on her attitude and demeanor.

Ah, so sounds like she was the gang-bangin or hustler type instead.

 

[SW15]

Unless the girl is in Target while in school or something, we wouldn't relate to each other at all.

This point is somewhat valid. She might work nights and weekends which would make dating her more difficult for a white or a blue collar dayshift worker.

I also cringe at having to interact with her low skilled labor friends that are content at working at Target for the rest of their lives.

That can be annoying but not a dealbreaker.

A lot of men want to date Hooters or Twin Peaks waitresses/bartenders who don't have bachelor's degrees.

I wouldn't date a girl that gets paid to attract male attention.

I would date a breastaurant worker. There are even a few breastaurants around Dallas where the women work in G strings/bikinis too. Some of those women have amazing breasts & butts. Plenty of men would date them.

Most white collar and blue collar men have incompatible work schedules with breastaurant workers, so longer term interactions would be more challenging. Men who work less conventional hours like nightlife bouncers and professional athletes might have more similar work hours.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I misread the question. I put ‘no’ when I should have put ‘yes’.

 

[Bigpapa]

I misread the question. I put ‘no’ when I should have put ‘yes’.

Then you are ok with being a provider

This is just one of the retarded things that are preached here

One one hand it does not matter what she does for a living, on the other hand none of these dudes want to be providers

If you do not want to be a provider then you should date girls at your social economic level or higher

 

[Millard Fillmore]

Makes no difference for me.
If she has a thigh gap and she is cute, I will date her.

Exactly. Socio-economic status is a lie anyway.

 

[Bigpapa]

Exactly. Socio-economic status is a lie anyway.

Do you mind being a provider?

 

[RangerMIke]

This is a tough one to answer. Where she is socio-economically isn't as relevant as what she does in response to being where she is. Her attitude is a lot more important.

Does she live within her means? Why is she in her socio-economic position? Is she looking for someone to 'save' her (i.e. is she looking for a man to make her problems, his)? Does she make good decisions?

It is something of a female fantasy where a 'prince' rides in and saves her, then she 'saves' him by turning him into something that will eventually turn her off.... like the movie "Pretty Woman". I mean COME ON, really.... that movie is the biggest load of cr@p ever put to film. The only male character in that movie that I could actually relate to is the roll played by Jason Alexander.... who is trying to convince his partner to stop behaving like an idiot.... who is showing all the signs of a person that is losing his mind.... Instead of buying and closing a failing business... he pours money into a ship building company that is on the verge of collapse, then starts dating a prostitute.

I would love to see sequels to that movie where the woman, settles into her new existence, gets comfortable... then reverts to her wh0rish behavior, takes half the 'hero's' stuff, then dumps him to become Jason Alexander's side chick.

 

[Millard Fillmore]

Do you mind being a provider?

How do you mean, like does it bother me?

 

[Solomon]

Socio-economoic status matters the higher up you are, because your partner can give you creditability. Most rich guys have no problem banging some hot bimbo but as a wife if you have a partner with a name it can get you in certain circles. This matters more for the top 1% for 99% of men this really doesn't matter

 

[SW15]

There are some real risks in dating women with less than a bachelor's degree AND who don't have a solid trade certification/associate degree. Many of these women have some background and character issues. There does need to be some screening for those.

When a man is considering the potential of dating a retail worker, restaurant worker, bartender, or stripper not pursuing a trade certification/bachelor's degree, there are many considerations.

The typical daytime white collar worker or daytime blue collar worker doesn't have a work schedule/life schedule that tends to match up well with retail workers and other workers I described above. The service sector worker is more likely to need to work during nights and weekends. Nights and weekends are times when a white collar or blue collar worker will want to spend time with a potential girlfriend.

The timing issue is an issue that's just as relevant as socioeconomic status.

The happy medium tends to be women with solid trade certifications/occupations and women with bachelor's degrees from non-elite universities who are not careerist women.