Guy that felt in love with a commited woman

[Blacksheep]

I just lived I classic and really stupid situation with a guy that I thought it was my friend.

He started to date a girl that is commited with a cop guy. Basically he hid it from me cause he knows I would try to open his eyes. When I found that he was in love with her, I had a long talk with him and try to show him the risks he was running into getting involved in it. Ok... a week went by and I see him with that girl on a party, she came to me and started yelling and pushing me, saying that he told her everything we had talked about. I told her that it was true, and that situation was really stupid and dangerous... and asked her if she woudn't do that for her best friend.

Ok, then she calmed down and stopped being a crazy psycho girl. I got really angry with him and I ended up with our friendship, because he and that girl started to demonize me to his family as if I did the worst thing in their lifes. I just tried to save him for getting shot by an angry cop haahaha

I was thinking, how stupid can be a man to prefer to believe in a woman like that? My guess is that it is worse than being a Beta. And she got what she wanted, away him from his real friends.

 

[Ranger]

Lol. Well, the fall in love part is really stupid.

 

[jaymbrs]

Women are naturally selfish. I've gone through similar BS with my best friend. He ended up choosing her and we now can't hangout. The moral of this story, is women can make men turn stupid.

 

[Blacksheep]

Women are naturally selfish. I've gone through similar BS with my best friend. He ended up choosing her and we now can't hangout. The moral of this story, is women can make men turn stupid.

Thats really bad =/

And yes, if I guy is not conscious enough about those questions about how women can try to manipulate him, he can become really stupid.

 

[princelydeeds]

A guy who lived next to a friend of mine came home from lunch unexpectedly, and caught his wife banging the cop from across the street.

The cop drew down on the guy, pistol whipped him in the face, kicked him several times while he was on the ground, threatened to kill him and then called his cop buddies to arrest the guy for getting his ass kicked in his own house.

The guy, the wife and the cop were all in their late 40s. The guy got suspended from his job due to the arrest and the arrest was used against him during the subsequent divorce...

Cops can **** up your life.

 

[Spaz]

Women are naturally selfish. I've gone through similar BS with my best friend. He ended up choosing her and we now can't hangout. The moral of this story, is women can make men turn stupid.

I'd view it differently.

This is an opportunity to test my friend's loyalty and his mettle.

If he fails then you no longer place him in the friend category but in the acquaintance category.

If he passes, then you'd know for sure he will be there for you in bad times and in good times, as you were.

At the maximum, a man would be lucky to maintain 4 friends at any one time, the rest is just acquaintances with no fixed loyalty.

 

[glass half full]

Most times you'll find it hard to remain friends with a guy when your "honey hole" comes around. Seems to me that eliminates 2/3 of friends in my past. The only truth that bad poon ever reveals= who your real friends are.

 

[Blacksheep]

I'd view it differently.

This is an opportunity to test my friend's loyalty and his mettle.

If he fails then you no longer place him in the friend category but in the acquaintance category.

If he passes, then you'd know for sure he will be there for you in bad times and in good times, as you were.

At the maximum, a man would be lucky to maintain 4 friends at any one time, the rest is just acquaintances with no fixed loyalty.

You're right man! Good point!

 

[Blacksheep]

Most times you'll find it hard to remain friends with a guy when your "honey hole" comes around. Seems to me that eliminates 2/3 of friends in my past. The only truth that bad poon ever reveals= who your real friends are.

The bad thing is that almost everyone is like that. I never met someone really aware of those BS. That guy told that would never put a women like that above friendship, but people lie all time.

Im getting tired of this, the more time passes, Im getting away from those kind of friendships and also girls that only come to you by interest and trying to manipulate. Im focusing on finding other stuffs to do in life, more enjoyable... and less centered to sex, parties and false friendships.

 

[stovepipe]

Women are naturally selfish. I've gone through similar BS with my best friend. He ended up choosing her and we now can't hangout. The moral of this story, is women can make men turn stupid.

I lost one of my bf cause of a sloot. She cheated on him, gave him hpv, lied about her age, ect. I always tried to help him with women cause he never had a gf, he only slept with paid escorts. I kept trying to warn him, help him, but in the end he got tired of hearing the truth from me. He stop talking to me, ran back her, they bought house, had 2 kids and moved out of state. I saw him years later. He tried to act as if nothing happened and when I brought up our friendship he basically said I didn't approaches you to talk about the past. Dude was lost in another galaxy.

Have another friend whos dating a greedy psycho chick with personalty disorders. Now hes buying a house with her (stupid mofo). He bought a with a previous gf who ended up cheating on him weeks after they moved in. Another friend who's dating a bpd whom I've known for years. They just bought a $800k house together. She cheated on her ex with him and he thinks she wouldn't do the same to him. I guess the moral of the story is I wont waste another breath trying to help another friend with a women. In the end no one ever listens, they dig their own grave.

 

[Soflobro#3]

I lost one of my bf cause of a sloot. She cheated on him, gave him hpv, lied about her age, ect. I always tried to help him with women cause he never had a gf, he only slept with paid escorts. I kept trying to warn him, help him, but in the end he got tired of hearing the truth from me. He stop talking to me, ran back her, they bought house, had 2 kids and moved out of state. I saw him years later. He tried to act as if nothing happened and when I brought up our friendship he basically said I didn't approaches you to talk about the past. Dude was lost in another galaxy.

Have another friend whos dating a greedy psycho chick with personalty disorders. Now hes buying a house with her (stupid mofo). He bought a with a previous gf who ended up cheating on him weeks after they moved in. Another friend who's dating a bpd whom I've known for years. They just bought a $800k house together. She cheated on her ex with him and he thinks she wouldn't do the same to him. I guess the moral of the story is I wont waste another breath trying to help another friend with a women. In the end no one ever listens, they dig their own grave.

Jesus dudes are stupid. I'd rather be alone than put up with chit like that.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I just lived I classic and really stupid situation with a guy that I thought it was my friend.

He started to date a girl that is commited with a cop guy. Basically he hid it from me cause he knows I would try to open his eyes. When I found that he was in love with her, I had a long talk with him and try to show him the risks he was running into getting involved in it. Ok... a week went by and I see him with that girl on a party, she came to me and started yelling and pushing me, saying that he told her everything we had talked about. I told her that it was true, and that situation was really stupid and dangerous... and asked her if she woudn't do that for her best friend.

Ok, then she calmed down and stopped being a crazy psycho girl. I got really angry with him and I ended up with our friendship, because he and that girl started to demonize me to his family as if I did the worst thing in their lifes. I just tried to save him for getting shot by an angry cop haahaha

I was thinking, how stupid can be a man to prefer to believe in a woman like that? My guess is that it is worse than being a Beta. And she got what she wanted, away him from his real friends.

Love?

 

[Glassguy]

Rule #1-
Bros before hoes.

Your friend needs to learn how to keep things private and not run his mouth to some chick who is fvcking at least 2 guys currently.........

You did nothing wrong. It was his choice to get involved with a chick in a committed relationship. It was his decision to tell her about your convo like a little b!tch.

Just brush it off and be there for him when she dumps him after her cop bf beats the shyte out of him. Visit him in the hospital and such lol.

 

[Blacksheep]

Rule #1-
Bros before hoes.

Your friend needs to learn how to keep things private and not run his mouth to some chick who is fvcking at least 2 guys currently.........

You did nothing wrong. It was his choice to get involved with a chick in a committed relationship. It was his decision to tell her about your convo like a little b!tch.

Just brush it off and be there for him when she dumps him after her cop bf beats the shyte out of him. Visit him in the hospital and such lol.

hahaha great answer bro!!!

That rule is really important, I have some friends that we're based on that, and actually as we are on a small city we help each other when we know some girl that may be dangerous or a crazy psycho.

That cuckold guy I dont even consider him as a friend anymore, he just proved who he is with attitudes. While he is sharing one ***** with a cop, I'm having good moments with real friends hooking up some chicks and working on what really matters.

And when you moves away from people like him, we got our doors open to new and better friendships.

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[Blacksheep]

Something people don't consider: a woman in a committed relationship that ends does not necessarily want to jump into committment, she will want to ride the carousel for a while usually. So you think you won a prize but you won an unstable cheating hor. We recommend avoiding chicks on the rebound for this same reason.

Exactly man!

I'm just laughing about that guy... he chooses to let her get into his mind. And ****ed up with the only friend that really was there when he needs. He did it another time with a girl that "broke up" one day with her boyfriend and then started dating again, the ex boyfriend saw then on street and started to threat him... Then I got my car and went to the house of that hor to find that guy. I was like: if someone is threatening my friend, I need to help him.

Now life is going to teach him about his attitudes in the hard way.

Important lesson: never date a commited girl or a girl that just broke up in a few days. In the second case, i think she broke up only to have some casual sex and then come back to her AFC ahahaha.

 

[Blacksheep]

His girlfriend starts yelling and putting her hands on you in public, then you don't address her - you address him instead. And if he's a fvcking coward, you drop him permanently there and then.

You're right man!

I dit it, just deleted him from my list of friends... it doesnt worth to be friend of such a cuckold

 

[Blacksheep]

That's it, mate. Always hold the man responsible and accountable.

Her behaviour sounds completely unnacceptable, and the idiot does need to get a grip of his girlfriend. She sounds like a right embarressment. But that's his problem. If he comes back around (those types usually do) don't let him back because you feel sorry for him or whatever.

Yep, thats what I will do... I don't like bull****s and for me people like him don't deserve my time or attention.

 

[Alvafe]

you really should have called the cops on her, the sh!t show ensured would be a lot more interesting then anything

 

[Black Sunshine]

If ya gonna be a player you gotta know how the game goes, you don't check the players you check the hoes...