You guys know how women think, and can possibly help me here.
I personally think he's putting up this front so he can try to have sex with my sister. Shes a virgin at 20 which is fairly rare these days. She wants to wait until shes "in love" to have sex with anybody. And I think this guy is playing his cards right. I know hes not really like what I'm about to explain below, he's putting up a front and my sister cant see through it because she barely knew him prior to them dating so she didn't actually get a chance to see what he is really like. He took advantage of this fact and quickly started acting the exact way my sister wants a guy to act. How does he know the way my sister wants a guy to act? He's been friends with my other sister, and it came out naturally. They met through my other sister as well. Hes a fake, and I don't like my sister getting taken advantage of. I'm simply trying to protect her from making any stupid decisions. I'm protective but I'm not the over the top, and abusive, "I'll kill you if you touch my sister" type of brother.
So anyway, onto their relationship. My sister is the type of girl who loves cutesy, cheesy, lovey dovey stuff. Love notes, flowers, cards, surprises with flowers at work, romantic stuff basically. She's young and doesn't know any better. She thinks all guys are pigs and this guy comes along like price charming and changes her views completely. He talks about how lucky he is to have her in his life, how lucky he is to be dating her, how shes the most amazing girl in the world. This guy is providing this fantasy lifestyle and my sister is absolutely infatuated with him. She honestly wants her love life to be a ****ing Disney movie, or The Notebook. Its just unrealistic.
I know him, he's a horny video game collector. He has every video game under the sun, spends all day in his room watching Spongebob and playing Pokemon/Call of Duty. I've seen his tumblr blog, its FILLED with porn and pictures of naked girls just outright masturbating, with some video game pictures and other random stuff mixed in. Its not even his private blog that only he can see, its his public page that all his friends can view and he links this page through his Facebook/Twitter, everybody can see it. He's just putting up a fake persona is order to win my sister over and have sex with her. I know men, I've dealt with this ****, men do not do this type of stuff. Flowers and love notes are cool in the beginning a few times during that "getting to know each other" stage but this guy just piles it on and my sister is just sitting there and accepting it like her life is a ****ing romantic movie. He's "putting the ***** on the pedestal"
They're planning their "future" together and whatever. Their relationship is cheesy and fake and its cringe worthy the way they act together. They call each other up and talk about how perfect they both are. "You're perfect babe", "No, you'reeeeee perfect babe!"
Anyway, what do I do here? This guy is obviously just trying to **** my sister by playing the love story/movie card and I don't want her to be tricked into thinking this guy is perfect and amazing when in reality hes just some basement dwelling 20 year old. I know I should just leave my sister alone and let her do her thing but I just cant. She's young and stupid, shes blinded by this "love" and this ****ing guy is just pretending to act like prince charming because he knows that's what my sister likes. I would feel guilty not doing anything about it. I've spoken to her, and simply told her to be careful and while it might not seem like all he wants is *****, he's definitely on his way there.
Thoughts?
I personally think he's putting up this front so he can try to have sex with my sister. Shes a virgin at 20 which is fairly rare these days. She wants to wait until shes "in love" to have sex with anybody. And I think this guy is playing his cards right. I know hes not really like what I'm about to explain below, he's putting up a front and my sister cant see through it because she barely knew him prior to them dating so she didn't actually get a chance to see what he is really like. He took advantage of this fact and quickly started acting the exact way my sister wants a guy to act. How does he know the way my sister wants a guy to act? He's been friends with my other sister, and it came out naturally. They met through my other sister as well. Hes a fake, and I don't like my sister getting taken advantage of. I'm simply trying to protect her from making any stupid decisions. I'm protective but I'm not the over the top, and abusive, "I'll kill you if you touch my sister" type of brother.
So anyway, onto their relationship. My sister is the type of girl who loves cutesy, cheesy, lovey dovey stuff. Love notes, flowers, cards, surprises with flowers at work, romantic stuff basically. She's young and doesn't know any better. She thinks all guys are pigs and this guy comes along like price charming and changes her views completely. He talks about how lucky he is to have her in his life, how lucky he is to be dating her, how shes the most amazing girl in the world. This guy is providing this fantasy lifestyle and my sister is absolutely infatuated with him. She honestly wants her love life to be a ****ing Disney movie, or The Notebook. Its just unrealistic.
I know him, he's a horny video game collector. He has every video game under the sun, spends all day in his room watching Spongebob and playing Pokemon/Call of Duty. I've seen his tumblr blog, its FILLED with porn and pictures of naked girls just outright masturbating, with some video game pictures and other random stuff mixed in. Its not even his private blog that only he can see, its his public page that all his friends can view and he links this page through his Facebook/Twitter, everybody can see it. He's just putting up a fake persona is order to win my sister over and have sex with her. I know men, I've dealt with this ****, men do not do this type of stuff. Flowers and love notes are cool in the beginning a few times during that "getting to know each other" stage but this guy just piles it on and my sister is just sitting there and accepting it like her life is a ****ing romantic movie. He's "putting the ***** on the pedestal"
They're planning their "future" together and whatever. Their relationship is cheesy and fake and its cringe worthy the way they act together. They call each other up and talk about how perfect they both are. "You're perfect babe", "No, you'reeeeee perfect babe!"
Anyway, what do I do here? This guy is obviously just trying to **** my sister by playing the love story/movie card and I don't want her to be tricked into thinking this guy is perfect and amazing when in reality hes just some basement dwelling 20 year old. I know I should just leave my sister alone and let her do her thing but I just cant. She's young and stupid, shes blinded by this "love" and this ****ing guy is just pretending to act like prince charming because he knows that's what my sister likes. I would feel guilty not doing anything about it. I've spoken to her, and simply told her to be careful and while it might not seem like all he wants is *****, he's definitely on his way there.
Thoughts?
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