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Guy in another dept. at work terminated for sexual harassment.

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Found out tonight that a guy in another department at the grocery store I work at part time was terminated for sexual harassment. He was suspended but they decided to fire him.

This dude was Italian (actually from Italy) and was asking all the girls out for drinks and wanting them to sleep with them. One of the girls is even married to one of the managers at the store and he tried asking her for drinks which infuriated him. Would have fought him if he didn't work there.

This guy was about 30, about 5 foot 2 and obese and sloppy looking. The women in that dept are not even hot looking as well. Are Italians like this in Italy? Pretty straight forward with women? Last year our meat manager who's a guy in his early 60s, and obese slob was taking pics of coworkers arses with his phone. They only transferred him. Apparently the ladies got a lawyer and a settlement too for him looking at their asses. yet he didn't get fired due to being a manager.

Kind of find that shocking though. A fat slob like this openly hitting on women flat out wanting to bang them and open about it. Do they actually think that this will get them laid?
 

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" This guy was about 30, about 5 foot 2 and obese and sloppy looking. "

This is all we needed to know. Ugly/short men will always be creepy.

Had the guy been semi-attractive I doubt any of the women would had gone to HR. Assuming he could take a hint and cut it off after the first rejection.
 

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Found out tonight that a guy in another department at the grocery store I work at part time was terminated for sexual harassment. He was suspended but they decided to fire him.

This dude was Italian (actually from Italy) and was asking all the girls out for drinks and wanting them to sleep with them. One of the girls is even married to one of the managers at the store and he tried asking her for drinks which infuriated him. Would have fought him if he didn't work there.

This guy was about 30, about 5 foot 2 and obese and sloppy looking. The women in that dept are not even hot looking as well. Are Italians like this in Italy? Pretty straight forward with women? Last year our meat manager who's a guy in his early 60s, and obese slob was taking pics of coworkers arses with his phone. They only transferred him. Apparently the ladies got a lawyer and a settlement too for him looking at their asses. yet he didn't get fired due to being a manager.

Kind of find that shocking though. A fat slob like this openly hitting on women flat out wanting to bang them and open about it. Do they actually think that this will get them laid?

All the ethnic Italian men that i worked with over in Asia were very flirtatious and aggressive with female staff. Latin men are more this way too.

The only thing that he really did wrong to make the women complain is not look good enough.
 

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" This guy was about 30, about 5 foot 2 and obese and sloppy looking. "

This is all we needed to know. Ugly/short men will always be creepy.

Had the guy been semi-attractive I doubt any of the women would had gone to HR. Assuming he could take a hint and cut it off after the first rejection.
nah the part of hitting on the manager wife kinda is pretty much asking to be fired lol

but first take note, its biggoal, very well know for not wanting to improve and keep fishing for compliments and trying to gather simpathy, also before he was a owner of a bussiness now he works part time in another place? kind don't add up
 

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Found out tonight that a guy in another department at the grocery store I work at part time was terminated for sexual harassment. He was suspended but they decided to fire him.

This dude was Italian (actually from Italy) and was asking all the girls out for drinks and wanting them to sleep with them. One of the girls is even married to one of the managers at the store and he tried asking her for drinks which infuriated him. Would have fought him if he didn't work there.

This guy was about 30, about 5 foot 2 and obese and sloppy looking. The women in that dept are not even hot looking as well. Are Italians like this in Italy? Pretty straight forward with women? Last year our meat manager who's a guy in his early 60s, and obese slob was taking pics of coworkers arses with his phone. They only transferred him. Apparently the ladies got a lawyer and a settlement too for him looking at their asses. yet he didn't get fired due to being a manager.

Kind of find that shocking though. A fat slob like this openly hitting on women flat out wanting to bang them and open about it. Do they actually think that this will get them laid?
I think in Italy it would be considered normal. The guy wants to get laid. Why should he have to pretend he doesn't?
 

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I think in Italy it would be considered normal. The guy wants to get laid. Why should he have to pretend he doesn't?
He isn't there to get laid, he is there to do work and be paid for it. If he wants that then go out to a bar on his own time.

Wrong place.
 

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He isn't there to get laid, he is there to do work and be paid for it. If he wants that then go out to a bar on his own time.

Wrong place.
I agree. But the way this guy acts, he's forceful always. Like if you're standing in the way he'd basically push you out of the way and didn't have a sense of humor.

The old manager I mentioned, while being an old guy, somewhat slob he did at least have a personality when talking to women. Like joking with female customers and making them laugh. The young guy I mentioned wasn't like that.

If you're going to ask a coworker out if you must then make sure they're on friendly terms. My gut he was just going up to the badgering them. But why hit on a woman knowing she's married and a manager there?
 

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There's a word I can't get out of my head now - Badonkadonk
 

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Found out tonight that a guy in another department at the grocery store I work at part time was terminated for sexual harassment. He was suspended but they decided to fire him.

This dude was Italian (actually from Italy) and was asking all the girls out for drinks and wanting them to sleep with them. One of the girls is even married to one of the managers at the store and he tried asking her for drinks which infuriated him. Would have fought him if he didn't work there.

This guy was about 30, about 5 foot 2 and obese and sloppy looking. The women in that dept are not even hot looking as well. Are Italians like this in Italy? Pretty straight forward with women? Last year our meat manager who's a guy in his early 60s, and obese slob was taking pics of coworkers arses with his phone. They only transferred him. Apparently the ladies got a lawyer and a settlement too for him looking at their asses. yet he didn't get fired due to being a manager.

Kind of find that shocking though. A fat slob like this openly hitting on women flat out wanting to bang them and open about it. Do they actually think that this will get them laid?
Better question, why are you still working at the grocery store at 37/38? I thought you were selling pocket protectors at flea markets or something.
 

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Better question, why are you still working at the grocery store at 37/38? I thought you were selling pocket protectors at flea markets or something.
Here's an even better question:
Why is a mod (that should be setting a higher standard on sosuave) posting to a forum member in a condescending manner?
 

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He isn't there to get laid, he is there to do work and be paid for it. If he wants that then go out to a bar on his own time.

Wrong place.
Say that to a female employee and they will have your balls in a vice AND your job. Try it and let us know how that speech goes over.
 

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No, say exactly what you said to a woman and watch what happens.
Firstly, that isn't something I would "say" to someone because it's none of my business. I'm not their manager nor in HR.

Just my opinion.

And FYI, HR is concerned with protecting the company from lawsuits. Just so happens that guys are usually the ones doing most of the dumb sh!t in these places that expose the company to these lawsuits. That's reality.

However, plenty of women have gotten fired for the same reasons.

People who honestly think that HR only fire men are not based in reality.
 
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