guy harrassing gf trying to get her to leave me for him? just **** him up?

[Enjin 7]

lol I am sure all of you guys know how it is. extremely AFC guy talking to your gf.

"if he ever makes you mad, you know what to do. you can always come to me. I'll be here."

people like this piss me off.

she repeatedly tells him no, but he keeps on with it.

I've got no problem just ****ing a nigga up. I mean... I am laid back guy... I just fight for fun. It would honestly make me feel better. so is this acceptable?

or how should I go on with situation? thx!:rockon:

 

[Enjin 7]

I pretty much told her that it shows the amount of respect he has for her, and that is disappointing. she agreed.

 

[Enjin 7]

I still would like to just go into his work and **** him up tho.

 

[Docs]

Throw a solid yet rotten apple at his head. Hopefully it will explode, he'll fall to the ground dazed, and he'll smell like sh1t for the rest of the day.

At least that's what I've always wanted to do

 

[Enjin 7]

you know what? I'll do that just because I can. I'll take pics and send them to you.

 

[Docs]

Yessss!

 

[Bloke]

Average people resort to violence.

 

[Docs]

I just wanted to see a rotten apple whipped at someone's head, and to see the explosion. It's not violent, I think it'd be so fukking hilarious!

 

[sexy_kuta]

this is what u do

tell him nicely.. just a nice warning to back off.. in a respect ful way, u aint doing nothing here ...

the next step if the first one doesnt work

add a lil verbal disrespect.. throw big words to scare him... "dont push me buddie, i'll kick ur ass soo bad u need crutches in ur sleep"

then step if the first one doesnt work

just give him a good beating.. dont just punch him and walk away.. litterly kick his ass.. make him understand that what hes doing is wrong and should ufck off

 

[I'm Joe Dirt]

Little off topic here... but I wonder how many people on this forum are just like or used to be like that "AFC Guy" in the original post...

Maybe you should show him this site or similar sites and introduce him to the community?

 

[Enjin 7]

I know I was. I was an *******. I made quite a few girls cheat on their boyfriends. Knowing that guys like the old me exist makes me sick. I deserved to get my ass kicked. the thing was most guys are afraid of me, and they just conceded to the alpha male I guess you could say. I hate the old me sooo much right now guys.

 

[Juan_Man]

I say leave him alone. For all I know, that guy could be me.

 

[organizedconfusion]

Throw a solid yet rotten apple at his head. Hopefully it will explode, he'll fall to the ground dazed, and he'll smell like sh1t for the rest of the day.

At least that's what I've always wanted to do

YES!! :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:


dude, how did you ever come up with a rotton apple of all things?! :crackup:

but to the original post..that stuff sure is annoying and i would certainly become aggitated...if i was in a bad mood, i'd probaly shank him out back if i was feeling generous i'd aim a little higher to miss any major organs just kidding, i wouldn't do anything to the guy..if he was really harassing her, then of course i would have to drop the guy-but if he was just acting a fool ,it really is just a harmless annoyance.

 

[BrotherAP]

Kill his game!

If he's doin it in front of you, just call him on it "Dude if you want to sleep with my girlfriend don't play Mr. Sensitive... haha I mean that's not how you go about it. Anyway I'm gonna go to the bathroom so here's your chance, don't screw it up" and actually go to the bathroom. What's he gonna do then?

Or if he's doing it behind your back kill it this way - I assume you'd know, in this case, because she tells you about it. Say something along the lines "Sheesh you'd think he'd just admit he's madly in love with you. So are you gonna humour him? Be nice, but don't lead him on k hun?" Then change the subject. You want her to know he's trying to sleaze into her pants without seeming like you really care.

Say these things like you're just joking, and you'll kill his 'game' on the spot

 

[typical]

Well last time this happened to me I just asked for the dudes number called him up and explained in a nice way to back off and leave my girl alone, I yold him he can be her friend but dont feed her sh!t about going to him if she's upset with me, sh!t happens when your dating and that he should find another girl who isnt taken as there are plenty of fish out there.

Ofcourse the guy took it the wrong way and went ape at me over the phone, I held the phone close to my girls ear and he went on ranting about how he was gonna steal here and bang her etc etc etc, so he set himself up like a idiot. The funny thing was when the next person to talk was my girl and she was like "I thought you were my best friend, this is what you think of me"

Try something like that, he wont have the balls to talk like that with here around but over the phone with you he'l be really tryhard.

 

[mrRuckus]

"if he ever makes you mad, you know what to do. you can always come to me. I'll be here."

she repeatedly tells him no, but he keeps on with it.
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She repeatedly tells him no? What's that say about her? Why is she continually talking to someone who won't back the hell off and is causing stress in your relationship? She should be handling this and telling him to back the fcuk off.

What i bet she's doing is enjoying the attention and being like hee hee he likes me and gives him enough of a hint and attention to at least keep trying because she enjoys it. Either that or she's like nearly every other girl and has no idea who to really reject someone and does it in some nice way that really isn't a no but a "maybe later" or something along those lines.

 

[PeeGee]

Well last time this happened to me I just asked for the dudes number called him up and explained in a nice way to back off and leave my girl alone, I yold him he can be her friend but dont feed her sh!t about going to him if she's upset with me, sh!t happens when your dating and that he should find another girl who isnt taken as there are plenty of fish out there.

Ofcourse the guy took it the wrong way and went ape at me over the phone, I held the phone close to my girls ear and he went on ranting about how he was gonna steal here and bang her etc etc etc, so he set himself up like a idiot. The funny thing was when the next person to talk was my girl and she was like "I thought you were my best friend, this is what you think of me"

Try something like that, he wont have the balls to talk like that with here around but over the phone with you he'l be really tryhard.

Brutal man.

 

[Tomatoes]

Beating a guy up for talking to a girl. I know many women and i had this convo with one the other day. She was getting on great with this new fella until he threatened to beat the **** out of a guy for talking to her. She nexted him instantly. If your girlfriend is not the smartest knife in the draw and you come from a neighbourhood where "fvcking someones sh!t up" is the resolution to everything......then go ahead....use the cave man tactics of "Ug...im bigger than you...whack!"....Grow a brain....

I personally would never do that. I would make the guy look and feel like an idiot but without doing it in a way that makes me look insucre or scared by him saying this to my girl.

Come to think of it. I had a guy like this on my old ex gf....she used to tell me what he said. I just used to reply..."ahh thats so sweet of him" in a sarcastic voice. Me and her turned him into a private joke.....she never looked at him seriouslly or took him seriouslly after. Whenever he said stuff to her she just giggled.

 

[Jariel]

Are you secure and confident in your relationship? If so, do nothing! Absolutely nothing!

He will only become a problem if you allow him to be and let him faze you. If you beat him up or react in any way, it will show your girlfriend that you are insecure...and violent, which could spell the end for you.

Besides, he sounds like a typical AFC "nice guy". Let him carry her books, listen to her problems and buy her presents. He's just digging himself deeper into the friendzone...or rather the creepzone.

My girlfriend's ex is doing the same thing and trying to win her back. When she tells me I just say "Aww, I can't blame him for trying".

 

[DJDamage]

Besides, he sounds like a typical AFC "nice guy". Let him carry her books, listen to her problems and buy her presents. He's just digging himself deeper into the friendzone...or rather the creepzone.

Couldn't agree more.

As a matter of fact its good that he is around. When or if you piss her off, she will be out of your hair and will be running to cry on his shoulders. He is going to become her emotional tampon and absorbs all the sh1t that you would have been dealing with. In the end of it all he will be left with her emotional baggage and you will be having makeup sex with her lol the dude would be going nuts, I know I did.

DJD