Someone Much cooler
Senior Don Juan
Never once did I tell the OP "beat him up"
Geeeeeezzz I swear im on Mars. Okay, Bananasmile, pipe007 and bible belt is there nothing you would fight over? What if your mom, sis or girl was in a bad mood and decided to get pissy to idk a plumber or electrician(very rude and her fault) cause he did a bad job and he got mad and spat in her face? Would you do nothing? What if you were on a date wit ur girl and I walked up and put my nuts on her plate? How about then? What about if I said something dirty about your mother’s fat puccy while you were standing right there? Where would you say “enough“ and stop me? I believe Future Spartan and Sloag understand where im coming from. Its not about winning/losing or being tough its about setting a boundary and protecting yourself best you can from assault (physical, mental and emotional). Never once did I say "beat him up"; It was meant to be interpreted "tell him to stop deliberately flirting with your girl while he knows yall are dating, that pure disrespect, and you will do something about it in an assertive manner". Its both their fault. They both are accountable, We already concluded dump shawti so there aint no point in beating a dead horse.
I’ll address Bananasmile separately; Ack notice how no matter how much I disagree with other poster’s points of view I never put anyone down, Ill have to ask that you show me the same courtesy and respect- please no personal attacks and name calling, it makes you appear pugnacious, argumentative and childish. Dig it, were venturing off on a tangent, since now were talking about bullies but defending yourself isn’t always about a level of intellect or spirit, sometimes its about nipping a certain unwanted behavior in the bud. Theres an old saying that goes something like this “when you see a harmless snake egg you crush it, so it doesn’t grow to be a giant viper that kills you”
When I moved from Philly to Camden NJ a few bigger, stronger and older guys “tried me“. I stood up to them, a few I beat, a few I didn’t, but they respected me for not being a coward and later on befriended me. In my HS yrs I was a bully (unlike the dance class guy who is just a disrespectful pimp). I wouldn’t let up on someone until they faced me. I was relentless. Its about defense and protection. Your missing the point Ack, its irrelevant if you can/cant beat the guy, you stand up for yourself regardless.
I didn’t run from the guy with the gun, I was in the process of visualizing curb stomping him until I noticed he was better adapted for survival in this particular scenario and it was in the best interested of my survival to not fight him on his terms. Would I fight him hand to hand, no doubt, but a gun or machete, no that would be a fools errand. I box and practice the art of jeet kun do, in my run as a martial artist I have fought guys that were better fighters than me, I didn’t get out the ring like a bleeding vag, I did the best I could do. If a guy came at me with a weapon I would try and avoid him, unless I had no choice then I would try and defend myself and survive, I mean that’s a pretty obvious answer.
Geeeeeezzz I swear im on Mars. Okay, Bananasmile, pipe007 and bible belt is there nothing you would fight over? What if your mom, sis or girl was in a bad mood and decided to get pissy to idk a plumber or electrician(very rude and her fault) cause he did a bad job and he got mad and spat in her face? Would you do nothing? What if you were on a date wit ur girl and I walked up and put my nuts on her plate? How about then? What about if I said something dirty about your mother’s fat puccy while you were standing right there? Where would you say “enough“ and stop me? I believe Future Spartan and Sloag understand where im coming from. Its not about winning/losing or being tough its about setting a boundary and protecting yourself best you can from assault (physical, mental and emotional). Never once did I say "beat him up"; It was meant to be interpreted "tell him to stop deliberately flirting with your girl while he knows yall are dating, that pure disrespect, and you will do something about it in an assertive manner". Its both their fault. They both are accountable, We already concluded dump shawti so there aint no point in beating a dead horse.
I’ll address Bananasmile separately; Ack notice how no matter how much I disagree with other poster’s points of view I never put anyone down, Ill have to ask that you show me the same courtesy and respect- please no personal attacks and name calling, it makes you appear pugnacious, argumentative and childish. Dig it, were venturing off on a tangent, since now were talking about bullies but defending yourself isn’t always about a level of intellect or spirit, sometimes its about nipping a certain unwanted behavior in the bud. Theres an old saying that goes something like this “when you see a harmless snake egg you crush it, so it doesn’t grow to be a giant viper that kills you”
When I moved from Philly to Camden NJ a few bigger, stronger and older guys “tried me“. I stood up to them, a few I beat, a few I didn’t, but they respected me for not being a coward and later on befriended me. In my HS yrs I was a bully (unlike the dance class guy who is just a disrespectful pimp). I wouldn’t let up on someone until they faced me. I was relentless. Its about defense and protection. Your missing the point Ack, its irrelevant if you can/cant beat the guy, you stand up for yourself regardless.
I didn’t run from the guy with the gun, I was in the process of visualizing curb stomping him until I noticed he was better adapted for survival in this particular scenario and it was in the best interested of my survival to not fight him on his terms. Would I fight him hand to hand, no doubt, but a gun or machete, no that would be a fools errand. I box and practice the art of jeet kun do, in my run as a martial artist I have fought guys that were better fighters than me, I didn’t get out the ring like a bleeding vag, I did the best I could do. If a guy came at me with a weapon I would try and avoid him, unless I had no choice then I would try and defend myself and survive, I mean that’s a pretty obvious answer.
