Guy getting in way of my "girl"

[Ll Principe]

If a guy tells a girl that you are bad/player stuff like that yet you prove to her that you not and she eventually believes you but this other guy still persists to DRILL her with bull of information, is it not so that the girl should re-asses her friendship with this guy because clearly he isnt being a "friend" to her and she should tell him to either stop or leave her alone? Clearly the guy has alternative motives.

 

[Scrumtulescence]

Wait, are you saying you're dating a girl who has a guyfriend who's trying to ****block you? He's just jealous. And him telling her that stuff is probably better than him telling her you're a pansy-ass sweet guy. I honestly wouldn't worry about it, as long as you don't let it affect how you are with her.

 

[Ll Principe]

Okay but you dont get it, why would she want to keep him as a friend if she doesnt stop, 2 months now?

Think about this...

If I had a girlfriend right and my chick friend kept telling me how much of a "slut" by girlfriend is and trying all means necessary to end us, i mean think of anything imaginable!!! (this is what the guy is doing), I would eventually tell my girl friend she either stop her **** or she can f-off?

Now, why isnt my girl doing what I would do?

 

[Demon]

Now, why isnt my girl doing what I would do?

Because you're a guy. She's a girl.

 

[Ll Principe]

Okay so you telling me she should tell him 2 foff? Even though its affecting our relationship? He like tells her day after day, buys her flowers, tries to turn her friends against me...
What must I expect/do?

 

[Demon]

What must I expect/do?

It's called competition. What do you do when you have competition?

 

[Ll Principe]

HAHA i know where you getting at, you trying to make it out as if I must do something? WELL , Demon.. you seem to be ****y, tell me, what would you do?

 

[Demon]

HAHA i know where you getting at, you trying to make it out as if I must do something?

Another guy is moving in on your girl. Obviously, you need to do something. What you do, however, defines you.

 

[Ll Principe]

Okay, DOES The girl not have a responsiblity to tell this guy to f-off though? clearly he isnt acting like a friend to her? and she KNOWS this..

 

[Demon]

Okay, DOES The girl not have a responsiblity to tell this guy to f-off though?

It doesn't matter whether she's responsible. What does matter are results, and that's something you can control.

 

[Ll Principe]

Okay, you are speaking in riddles now, put yourself in my position, what would you do, DEFINE YOURSELF AS A MAN, what would you do, Demon?

 

[The Business Man]

Well I don't know how close you are to this girl. But I might begin by threatening the guy in private; and following up by telling my chick that she can tell this fool to get lost or I'm finished with her. That will solve the problem. If the girl wants to keep this "friend" of hers around, you probably don't need her.

 

[Ll Principe]

The Business Man: The guy and I have already had 2 arguments/fights, plenty of threating from both sides... Yet she still keeps him in her life, i moved in last week and told her I cant speak to her or be with her anymore as she broke my heart and let this guy come between us, she admitted she let him come between us but wouldnt let it happen again, then I proceeded to ask her if she still speaks to him , she said yes, I asked why? She said "Just becoz" , for some reason she is clinging onto this guys "friendship" she is adamant she doesnt like him, but wants him as a friend.

So by me being finished with her, was that the right thing to do? Till she matures and realizes her mistake one day?

 

[Chase12]

just ignore him... going off to confront him or n e thing will show that u are insecure, and well by, by starting this post u showed u are... but u dont want her to know that, dontcha?

if she cheats on u with this guy, or with another guy, its out of your control. If she wants to do it she will. If she does, who cares? its just a girl

 

[Kings_royalty]

The guy and I have already had 2 arguments/fights, plenty of threating from both sides...

No wonder she is keeping him around, you guys are giving her all sorts of attention. She's in the middle of all this turmoil and she loves it. What girl wouldn't want 2 guys fighting over her?

You should have kept your cool from the beginning and not let this guy effect you. If you would have laughed at his immature behavior (because he's acting like a jealous little school boy) you would have held more value in her eyes, while his went down.

She would have seen his behavior for what it really was and nothing he said would have had any bearing. In fact, 'he' would have started to annoy her and eventually piss her off.

Better luck next time bro.

 

[WORKEROUTER]

If a guy tells a girl that you are bad/player stuff like that yet you prove to her that you not and she eventually believes you but this other guy still persists to DRILL her with bull of information, is it not so that the girl should re-asses her friendship with this guy because clearly he isnt being a "friend" to her and she should tell him to either stop or leave her alone? Clearly the guy has alternative motives.

First off, don't let this bother you at all. Unless this chicks is a total idiot, she is just laughing at this jealous loser. He's a loser because he has to try to neg-hit on you TO HER. Pathetic. I would be questioning why she's even friends with this tard.

Go up to this guy and tell him that you've overheard him talking about you behind your back. Demand that if he wants to say something, to have the balls to say it right there in front you, rather than acting like a little b*tch.

Guys like this piss me off more than anything and make me want to confront him even though he's not my problem!

 

[WORKEROUTER]

The Business Man: The guy and I have already had 2 arguments/fights, plenty of threating from both sides... Yet she still keeps him in her life, i moved in last week and told her I cant speak to her or be with her anymore as she broke my heart and let this guy come between us, she admitted she let him come between us but wouldnt let it happen again, then I proceeded to ask her if she still speaks to him , she said yes, I asked why? She said "Just becoz" , for some reason she is clinging onto this guys "friendship" she is adamant she doesnt like him, but wants him as a friend.

So by me being finished with her, was that the right thing to do? Till she matures and realizes her mistake one day?

It should have been one fight in which you destroy this loser.

You need to move on though. This b*tch sounds like an attention wh*re who digs having you two fools fight over her. She's not worth it. You might get into major trouble for this broad only to have f*ck you over in the end. Don't let that happen.

Dump this b*tch and stop whining like a p*ssy about how she broke your heart. You shouldn't ever be spouting this kinda sh*t off ever, but ESPECAILLY not to a b*tch like this. You have to treat this broad like crap and just F*CK her since she's obviously not gf material. Spouting your emotions off is not helping you in any way here. Let the tard guy have her and move on to greener pasture. She obviously deserves a loser of that sort anyway.

 

[Cod3r]

Pathetic...

YOU ARE THE BOYFRIEND... hello ??

You're the one thats fvcking her and you're worried about some dude that's trying to fvck her, I can tell that she's going to leave you very soon just from the way that you post bro. Like one person said better luck nexttime son


-Cod3r

 

[anointed]

never confront the other guy. Just make jokes about him and use him for some good C+F.

"he must really like you to be telling you all those lies. Im glad your the type of person to get to know someone yourself though and have an independant mind and not listen to gossip"

and

"he must be worried that im going to get with you and he isnt... but that makes sense.. he should be"

 

[PRMoon]

If a girl listens to anyone, of the opposite sex who isn't a flaming homosexual about tips for dating or motives for someone of said sex, then she is not worth your time. Usually a guy who's lying in wait like that has been LJBFed and is biding their time trying to wear down the girls defenses for that moment of weakness where they can capitolize and get some from them. Oddly enough there are a ton of guys on this site who are doing that exact thing and saying how the guy that the girl they're trying to game is infatuated with "this player" or some dude that they don't like because things aren't going according to plan.

It's a dog eat dog world and you have to get use to it then adapt. Either play the game and dominate or find something else to b*tch about sitting on the side lines. The choice is yours.