Guess who wants to meet for dinner?

[dustmuffin]

The girl that sent me here 2 1/2 years ago wants to meet me for dinner. She has a veterinary conference in my town. She lives about 100 miles away. She also wants me to pick her up at her hotel. I told her I would let her know. I'm thinking I should just go out to dinner, have a good time and try to screw her. But, I have had much better p ussy than her. In fact the two plates I have now are much better in the sex department.

Oh well, I will figure it out. Oh and this was after 2 1/2 years of no contact. They always come back.

 

[Glassguy]

I told you they always come back lol.

If you can't bang her without past emotions creeping in, tell her politely that you'll pass.

If you can control them, hate fvck her.

 

[btownbuck2012]

Not a bad end to the weekend

 

[Desdinova]

I recently posted about how difficult of a decision it is to date the bytch who sent me to this website. You know damn well you can get her back. You know damn well you'll be able to fvck her again. But is that why you did all that self-improvement? To get the bytch back who fvcked with your heart?

Let's take a look back at your first post here...

Everything seemed great until about 6 weeks ago. She changed. She started be surly, rude etc. Until finally I got sat down and told that things weren’t working. They weren’t moving forward to what she wanted which is a blended family. I wasn’t around enough and that I was meeting the romance and emotional aspect of the relationship but not the physical. That she was in love with me but not us. She also said that she thought I was dating multiple women. I’m not. I tried to tell her that I cared about her and loved her, that I would make an effort to be around more.

You told her you loved her, and she proceeded to stab you in the heart. That was nice of her.

Anyway she said she wants to be good friends. I asked her what a good friend is. She said that a good friend is what a boyfriend is without the romance.

I think you should still just be friends with her. Perhaps a response like "Sorry, I have a date that night. Perhaps we can meet up next time you're in town, my friend".

After looking at the above, that bytch doesn't deserve your attention. Reject her. It will feel good.

 

[wolf]

If you were in the forrest and you got hungry and ate a berry that made you sick would you go back to that same bush for another berry even if you were hungry again?

 

[sosousage]

If you were in the forrest and you got hungry and ate a berry that made you sick would you go back to that same bush for another berry even if you were hungry again?

if that berry wants sex from time to time then why not. most of modern "love" is caused by being oneitis. they think they love, because they have only one girl at the moment

 

[wolf]

if that berry wants sex from time to time then why not. most of modern "love" is caused by being oneitis. they think they love, because they have only one girl at the moment

If you can seperate sex from emotion then fair enough but he said that this girl is the reason he found sosuave. That tells me that she had a hold over him that no other girl did. Going back after 2 1/2 years is just his ego telling him to go go back one more time and I think most here know the repurcusions of going back. No matter how he feels, he is not in control of this situation.

She reached out to him so why now? Because she remembers how good he was compared to all the guys she has had since then? Boredom? To see if she can?
Seems she or rather still her own ego needs to know that she can have him again if she wanted to and I doubt any sex will actually take place.

I see no purpose or reason to go back but this is his gig and he can do as he chooses.

 

[Glassguy]

If you can seperate sex from emotion then fair enough but he said that this girl is the reason he found sosuave. That tells me that she had a hold over him that no other girl did. Going back after 2 1/2 years is just his ego telling him to go go back one more time and I think most here know the repurcusions of going back. No matter how he feels, he is not in control of this situation.

She reached out to him so why now? Because she remembers how good he was compared to all the guys she has had since then? Boredom? To see if she can?
Seems she or rather still her own ego needs to know that she can have him again if she wanted to and I doubt any sex will actually take place.

I see no purpose or reason to go back but this is his gig and he can do as he chooses.

That is the concern here. It takes sometimes years to really own your emotions and truly become indifferent to someone, yet it can take merely minutes for it all to crash down and be back in the same old situation emotionally.

I have had many women come back. Few I have fvcked. One I tried working it out with and that was a valuable lesson learned the hard way.

Relationships end for a reason. Personally I dont want her after she has searched, fvcked, had another man's d!ck in her mouth, etc. Not that every chick hasnt done that before, but they didnt leave ME to pursue someone else and basically tell me I wasnt good enough.

Not good enough then = not good enough now. Even if she did realize that she made a mistake by cutting him loose, she made her choice. Its much easier to start with a blank slate than to repair something that is broken and stopped working. I think women have a motive for every intention when dealing with a man.

Maybe its best to say "I am going to be super busy that evening but I will grab some wine and swing by your hotel for a bit and we can catch up" and see how she reacts to that. If she is cool with it, show up, hug her, kiss her, escalate for sex and then bounce. Treat her how she treated you 2 yrs ago as she really doesnt deserve anything more than that.

She will know you are treating her like a wh0re and will either back out of her offer or let you do it. And if she lets you do it and you are indifferent and leave soon after, she will ultimately be mind fvcked and chase you.

If she says she isnt interested in that, just say "OK" and back off. It will still mind fvck her to see that you have total control of your emotions with her.

I wouldnt give her the pleasure of being taken out on a "date" in public after all this time.

JMO

 

[dude99]

I recently posted about how difficult of a decision it is to date the bytch who sent me to this website. You know damn well you can get her back. You know damn well you'll be able to fvck her again. But is that why you did all that self-improvement? To get the bytch back who fvcked with your heart?

Let's take a look back at your first post here...



You told her you loved her, and she proceeded to stab you in the heart. That was nice of her.



I think you should still just be friends with her. Perhaps a response like "Sorry, I have a date that night. Perhaps we can meet up next time you're in town, my friend".

After looking at the above, that bytch doesn't deserve your attention. Reject her. It will feel good.

I believe this is the best course if action when the past rears its ugly head.

She is looking for validation. I would be too busy for a chick that behaved like she did. She wants a friend one day out of you then made zero effort to be a friend. All she did was sugar coat the shït sandwich she gave you when she said ( in wömanese with i lovr you but not us, i want to be friends,) she wanted to have sex with other dudes.

Dude. She blew it 2 years ago. Leave the trash where it is. You improved yourself. You are better now than you were 2 years ago, why undo 2 years of self improvement?