Lets say you're at a gentlemens club, This worked for me literally last night, I sit down, By the way never go alone, I was with some friends. Smile at every dancer as they walk by! Very important!!! Then they will either do one or two things they will smile back This means they like you or are approachable later in the night, or they will approach you. Which is the best? You decide! Or they will approach you for a dance (never get dances unless you want to waste your money). If they meet your standards tell them to take a seat. Then simply don't say a word, lean back and give them an Im better than you look with a smile. Then neg hit their smile. But always compliment their outfit or shoes right after you do it. I got 2 numbers last night.