Greetings,
I've set a small goal for myself and that was over the weekend I wanted to approach 10 girls. Granted, this is very modest, but I also wanted to approach girls of quality and try to find some that I had a remote interest in.
Anyways, I came across a good opener by accident, which works very well (I used it to get 7 approaches Saturday with 1 close). I started drinking a few beers with my friends and there was a guy in the bar wearing a crazy outfit (think outlandish like cowboy chaps) and he obviously did not belong within the culture here. An out of towner easily.
Anyways, I went by girls and jokingly asked "hey, have you seen my brother?" and they would reply "who is your brother?" and I'd say "you know, the guy with the chaps on, you can't miss him". 8/10 times this was greeted with a laugh, which in my opinion, is very solid as it is non confrontational and puts them at ease immediately and shows that you have a sense of humor.
So, if you find someone extremely out of place, it may be something you can use. Don't be malicious by picking on someone, but if there's someone there who is very outgoing who is a little off, you can light heartily use it as an opener.
Good luck,
Sal
I've set a small goal for myself and that was over the weekend I wanted to approach 10 girls. Granted, this is very modest, but I also wanted to approach girls of quality and try to find some that I had a remote interest in.
Anyways, I came across a good opener by accident, which works very well (I used it to get 7 approaches Saturday with 1 close). I started drinking a few beers with my friends and there was a guy in the bar wearing a crazy outfit (think outlandish like cowboy chaps) and he obviously did not belong within the culture here. An out of towner easily.
Anyways, I went by girls and jokingly asked "hey, have you seen my brother?" and they would reply "who is your brother?" and I'd say "you know, the guy with the chaps on, you can't miss him". 8/10 times this was greeted with a laugh, which in my opinion, is very solid as it is non confrontational and puts them at ease immediately and shows that you have a sense of humor.
So, if you find someone extremely out of place, it may be something you can use. Don't be malicious by picking on someone, but if there's someone there who is very outgoing who is a little off, you can light heartily use it as an opener.
Good luck,
Sal