jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
So this is a story that respect many relationships out there.
I've tried to sum up and make a clear image of all of them in one story.
I chose to intensify the story a little, because in some relationships there were some things that were not in others, but I chose to keep these elements to make you better understand the dynamics. Which is the SAME.
I had a friend who was the only one who treated this girl like a child.
She was adored by everyone, family, friends, etc, because she treated everyone kindly and was friendly.
However, he was often referred to as an "*******," "idiot," "child," or "stupid."
Everyone told her that he treated her poorly, and indeed he did. Yet, she pursued him relentlessly, even after saying that him "it's not my ideal man", or talking **** about him with her female friends.
Every time he showed her a little affection, he would pull back, and she would chase after him. All it took was a hug, and she would pursue him for a month. He only had to put in 20% effort, while she gave 80%.
She wanted to marry him, but he would say, "Let's see" or "Maybe." She sought a serious commitment from him, but he again replied with "Let's see" or "Maybe." When she suggested going on a trip, he responded with the same hesitation. She made advances for intimacy, but he didn't seem interested. In this way, she managed everything: booking the trip, planning the relationship, and handling all the relationship management. Meanwhile, he navigated the situation with his non-committal responses. Then kids came, living togheter, and eventually marriage.
She had higher SMV than him, who was an average man. However, he had this quality that he rarely showed her, offering her small glimpses of affection sporadically, like giving her small pieces of a chocolate bar.
She often complained about this relationship to her friends and family.
How He was so problematic, that She wanted more time with Him alone, rather than Him going out with his friends on Friday. Talking about How He would starve on the sofa for Saturday, because He had to watch his favourite Soccer Team Game. Her family viewed him as stubborn or an "*******". Then Her words and social media posts about her emotional outburst with him, broken hearts about their relationships, while they were celebrating their kids birthday.
But given all of this, She continued to "work" for him.
There are some women who genuinely admire the men they are attracted to sexually and physically. This is the case of MIRIN, and You can see couples like that. Then If these men have "game," they can maintain the relationship for life too. In the cases I mentioned, however, there was no genuine physical or sexual attraction; instead, the excitement generated by the dynamics of their interactions made her desire him. The two weren't obviously physically attracted, but they had sex due to the intense emotions involved, and the relationship continued.
Everyone wondered what made him special, so this man must have a 25cm crocodile down there, but it wasn't about physical attributes. It was something in his behavior, actions, and responses to her behavior.
This story is similar for many other couples. I could provide different details, but the core issue remains the same: how the man behaved. In short, you might say it's a toxic couple, but I disagree. These dynamics come in gradations and nuances, involving intensity and tolerance.The behaviors of the man and the responses of the woman were consistent across these cases. SMV didn't really matter; I've seen women with high SMV (HB9) with men who had much lower.
What kept these relationships going was how He treated her. I've also seen couples break up when he stopped treating her that way. The common problem with these men was excessive control. To maintain a relationship, you need to have a strong frame, game, and some control to steer the relationship in one direction. However, some of them exercised control excessively.
As I studied them more, I realized they were insecure inside. This was evident not only from the way they walked quickly and reacted emotionally, but also because they didn't take care of their selves and or their lifes. They didn't have that personal care for themselves that a mature man has. This understanding helped me see that the quality that keeps a woman attracted goes far beyond being masculine and mature. You can be immature, childish, or feminine and still generate intense desire. It's not about who you are, but how you behave.
Additionally, these men often had other women friends in their social circle, some of whom were "closer". I realized that these women were attracted to the same quality in him that his current girlfriend was.
I've tried to sum up and make a clear image of all of them in one story.
I chose to intensify the story a little, because in some relationships there were some things that were not in others, but I chose to keep these elements to make you better understand the dynamics. Which is the SAME.
I had a friend who was the only one who treated this girl like a child.
She was adored by everyone, family, friends, etc, because she treated everyone kindly and was friendly.
However, he was often referred to as an "*******," "idiot," "child," or "stupid."
Everyone told her that he treated her poorly, and indeed he did. Yet, she pursued him relentlessly, even after saying that him "it's not my ideal man", or talking **** about him with her female friends.
Every time he showed her a little affection, he would pull back, and she would chase after him. All it took was a hug, and she would pursue him for a month. He only had to put in 20% effort, while she gave 80%.
She wanted to marry him, but he would say, "Let's see" or "Maybe." She sought a serious commitment from him, but he again replied with "Let's see" or "Maybe." When she suggested going on a trip, he responded with the same hesitation. She made advances for intimacy, but he didn't seem interested. In this way, she managed everything: booking the trip, planning the relationship, and handling all the relationship management. Meanwhile, he navigated the situation with his non-committal responses. Then kids came, living togheter, and eventually marriage.
She had higher SMV than him, who was an average man. However, he had this quality that he rarely showed her, offering her small glimpses of affection sporadically, like giving her small pieces of a chocolate bar.
She often complained about this relationship to her friends and family.
How He was so problematic, that She wanted more time with Him alone, rather than Him going out with his friends on Friday. Talking about How He would starve on the sofa for Saturday, because He had to watch his favourite Soccer Team Game. Her family viewed him as stubborn or an "*******". Then Her words and social media posts about her emotional outburst with him, broken hearts about their relationships, while they were celebrating their kids birthday.
But given all of this, She continued to "work" for him.
There are some women who genuinely admire the men they are attracted to sexually and physically. This is the case of MIRIN, and You can see couples like that. Then If these men have "game," they can maintain the relationship for life too. In the cases I mentioned, however, there was no genuine physical or sexual attraction; instead, the excitement generated by the dynamics of their interactions made her desire him. The two weren't obviously physically attracted, but they had sex due to the intense emotions involved, and the relationship continued.
Everyone wondered what made him special, so this man must have a 25cm crocodile down there, but it wasn't about physical attributes. It was something in his behavior, actions, and responses to her behavior.
This story is similar for many other couples. I could provide different details, but the core issue remains the same: how the man behaved. In short, you might say it's a toxic couple, but I disagree. These dynamics come in gradations and nuances, involving intensity and tolerance.The behaviors of the man and the responses of the woman were consistent across these cases. SMV didn't really matter; I've seen women with high SMV (HB9) with men who had much lower.
What kept these relationships going was how He treated her. I've also seen couples break up when he stopped treating her that way. The common problem with these men was excessive control. To maintain a relationship, you need to have a strong frame, game, and some control to steer the relationship in one direction. However, some of them exercised control excessively.
As I studied them more, I realized they were insecure inside. This was evident not only from the way they walked quickly and reacted emotionally, but also because they didn't take care of their selves and or their lifes. They didn't have that personal care for themselves that a mature man has. This understanding helped me see that the quality that keeps a woman attracted goes far beyond being masculine and mature. You can be immature, childish, or feminine and still generate intense desire. It's not about who you are, but how you behave.
Additionally, these men often had other women friends in their social circle, some of whom were "closer". I realized that these women were attracted to the same quality in him that his current girlfriend was.
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