Great Date, High IL, what do I do now??

[DjVelvet]

I think you lack calibration skills, but then again, experience will teach you that.

Continue to ask her out, in a confident non-wussy way of coz.

Rejected? Try again. This girl digs the "First Date you"

Remember how you score during the first date? Same mentality

 

[Chrispy]

You kind of tripped yourself over by emailing. That let the air out of the balloon. It sounds like she thinks you may have brushed her off:

you had a great date, then you follow-up the bad way: email. I've done that too and it screws things up. email is bland, efficient, convenient...impersonal.

You should call her in a couple of days and ask when she is free the week after so you can go out again. Maybe you should joke about how you hate email tag more than phone tag. That'll help you recover a bit. As for the games other talk about..yeah they're always gonna be there so just enjoy the ride and don't trip up too much

 

[logicallefty]

You kind of tripped yourself over by emailing. That let the air out of the balloon. It sounds like she thinks you may have brushed her off:

you had a great date, then you follow-up the bad way: email. I've done that too and it screws things up. email is bland, efficient, convenient...impersonal.

You should call her in a couple of days and ask when she is free the week after so you can go out again. Maybe you should joke about how you hate email tag more than phone tag. That'll help you recover a bit. As for the games other talk about..yeah they're always gonna be there so just enjoy the ride and don't trip up too much

Well fellas, I laid off the emails and all communication for the past 5 days. Then CALLED her today, just to have her pick up the phone and tell me she had JUST emailed me like 30 seconds ago... Checked my email and by God she really JUST had.. FreeeeeKeyy.. lol

anyway, on the phone she said that in her email she had told me that was very busy until next weekend but wanted to see if i wanted to go out Friday AND/OR Saturday, as in like both days possibly! So on the phone we made a date for Friday. She apologized over and over for not having any time to see me for almost 2 weeks (between our LAST date last weekend and NEXT date next weekend), but she said she really was busy. I told her "sh*t don't apologize for having a life and other things to do. Not to me. We will see each other when we see each other, and we won't when we won't"..

Things are rolling nicely with this one fellas. I've still got that sick nervous feeling that I am going to f*** something up, but I assure you guys I am doing everything I can not to show it. I really don't think it's coming out to her

Thanks again fellas!

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Just keep your (short) conversations to telehone calls. Here's a suggestion to keep her on her toes; call her sometime during the week and ask her what she had planned to take you on Friday since you'd want to dress appropriately. No need for you to do all the work, right?

 

[logicallefty]

Just keep your (short) conversations to telehone calls. Here's a suggestion to keep her on her toes; call her sometime during the week and ask her what she had planned to take you on Friday since you'd want to dress appropriately. No need for you to do all the work, right?

LMAO I will do just that.. Francisco you always have some good stuff for us here. Freakin' A! :rockon:

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

LMAO I will do just that.. Francisco you always have some good stuff for us here. Freakin' A! :rockon:

Hey, who ever said that whomever asks for the date pays only holds true if the guy asks? Also (to everyone), don't think that you can always get a free meal just because you believe you are the prize. You must pull your weight but it doesn't mean that you need to do it alone.