Great advice Vassago

[Jon E]

Originally posted by Slashco
I honestly don't understand how you people can ever expect to have a good, fulfilling relationship with a woman when you consider them 'the enemy'.

We dont consider women to be the enemy, we consider the process of 'seducing them' the enemy. The women are the prize that the war is fought for.

I dont see why some of these guys come on here and bad mouth all of these female posters when they are only trying to offer us help. Sure, some of the stuff iqqi posts is less than stellar info but Jenna here offered us some insighteful information and we would be stupid if we didnt at least listen to what she and others have to say. Why is that so hard to understand?

 

[fezz]

I thought Jenna's post was good. It seems like alot of you all are discouraging women from posting. wow, I just thought of something. I know there arent that many women on this site, but if the site ever did get alot of women, itd be good to just have an own separate forum for it. Anyways, I dont think you should discourage Jenna from posting unless she does start to turn into a dum b1tch like some of the female posters. Other than that, good post.

 

[Nate235]

You know I hate to be negative but Women have all the power when it comes to sex! They can be super over weight greezy fat slobs with acne all over their croch and ass with darkened grossly scarred skin in their inner thighs, crotch smells, during sex just sit there, and yet magically like in the case of my ex, they can get any guy they want pretty much, even "good" looking guys!!

Plus what the **** is up with men having to be the ones to persue and woo the women? Why is it this way? This attitude is so prevalent in our society too. I have asked many why this is and they have no good answer. Alot of them just go along with it. Women if you want a guy go after him, he will appreciate it believe me!!

-peace

 

[jenna]

First off, To all the guys who have welcomed me. thank you. I am not here to start trouble or talk about my life. Just here to give advice in general.

Nate, I agree that most of the times no matter what a girl looks like she can get someone to have sex with her. But to get a man to stay with her is not so easy/ I know a few unattractive girls who will probably never have a boyfriend or husband if they do not fix themselves up.

I also agree that women should take more of an active role in persuing a man they are interested in. But it is difficult for us at times too. A friend of mine had told me a few times she approached a man she liked(and she is very pretty) they were involved somehow. Girlfriend,fiance,wife ect. She thought there should be a ring available men and females wear to say they are available to approach. That would make life much easier for singles.

The reason I also think women are more afraid to approach is that many feel since many men are not too picky who he sleeps with, he may have no real interest in her other than sexual. He may not even be attracted to her at all. But given the oppurtunity he may take her number and just use her.To be fair though, it happens to men to. They take a risk every time they approach a woman. She also may use him to take her out and spend money.


Guys, a tip. DO NOT SPEND A LOT OF MONEY ON WOMEN YOU DO NOT KNOW!!!! it does not make her like you more.

If you are interested, take her out for coffee or dessert and get to know her. Take her to the park or something and talk. Do not buy a dozen roses. If she likes you,she will not care if you give her only 1.

Men sometimes think wining and dinning her will make her interested. Nope! It just gives some girls the oppurtunity to enjoy a free meal at a nice restaurant and then leave you with a big bill.

Now, once you are involved with her, you may treat her to a nice restaurant or roses on special occasions.

I am not saying to be rude in any way. Always be polite. But let her get to know you on the first few dates through inexpensive dates. If she feels you are cheap, then she did not like you in the first place. When you like someone, it does not matter where you are. You enjoy spending time with them .

 

[HuuBinh]

craig, just try to get the gist of what jenna was trying to say, don't analyze what she said, if your understanding of djsm doesnt coincide of what she's saying, just leave it. maybe she's a rare case who is attracted to the nice guys, maybe she's a nice girl herself.