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Got ****y down... now for funny

nkh78h

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Hey -

I was just wondering what I can do to turn some of that ****y that I have into ****y and funny. With only ****y, I come off as an obnoxious douchebag. If I threw a little funny in I think things would go a lot better.

- Thanks
 

Ice882

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uhh yeah, ****y without funny is basically arrogant. Which is douchey. No one can teach you to be funny. Maybe watch some comedy central or something and pick up on the comedians delivery.
 

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If you are known as ****y at highschool already then C andF is ruined for you. ****y and funny is for guys who need to display confidence to girls, to show them they think high of themselves.

If everyone at school already knows you think high of yourself then it is counterproductive in every way possible.

The DJ bible probably has some C&F articles, read them
 

nkh78h

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Sir Psycho Sexy said:
If you are known as ****y at highschool already then C andF is ruined for you. ****y and funny is for guys who need to display confidence to girls, to show them they think high of themselves.

If everyone at school already knows you think high of yourself then it is counterproductive in every way possible.

The DJ bible probably has some C&F articles, read them
It's not that I'm known for ****y it's just thats how my approach comes out when I'm talking with girls. I don't generally act ****y unless I am chatting a girl up.
 

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Think of it like this:

Every time you say something ****y, follow it up with something funny that builds on your ****y statement.

Example: (after hugging a girl) "Your hugs suck, mine are way better... in fact, my hugs are SO good that they sell them in the ice cream isle at Vons(/local grocery store)"
 

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Watch stand up comedy, hang out with funny people, learn to make a practical joke out of everything basically (but still don't do it with everything). When you're making fun of her, it's supposed to make her laugh, lower her guard and with ****y you lift yourself in her eyes at the same time.
 

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****y and funny is not about what's in the script, but in the presentation. It's like acting; writers can only do so much to make a fun and engaging conversation, it's all in the actors to execute it. And I tell people this over and over again; stop worrying about what you say and concentrate on how you say it.
 

afc no more

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Bladerunner said:
Think of it like this:

Every time you say something ****y, follow it up with something funny that builds on your ****y statement.

Example: (after hugging a girl) "Your hugs suck, mine are way better... in fact, my hugs are SO good that they sell them in the ice cream isle at Vons(/local grocery store)"
Wow, is this what people here say to girls? That's terrible.
 

Ice882

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afc no more said:
Wow, is this what people here say to girls? That's terrible.
*girl drops frisbee*

awkward kid: *awkward laugh* "haha. you suck." *ugly smile, more nervous awkward laughter*

kids like that make me fvckin facepalm.
 

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you gotta go with the flow mate. You will get better with experience.

humour just like any other part of your personality has to be real otherwise people will see through you, ESPECIALlY girls.

Just keep on trying out that ****y and funny and it will become part of you.

For example last week this girl noticed my new trainers and said that I have small feet to what I answered "You know what they say about men with small feet?..they have massive ****s..." She loved it.

Just go with the flow, friend, go with the flow....
 

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You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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