Got this email yesterday...

[SharinganUser]

A chick that I had sex with about a month ago told me last week not email her for a while because I was basically not taking her feelings into account because I was really acting like an afc.

She said I was being to expressive.

Now she has just sent me an email saying "Are you ok?"

How do I respond to this?

 

[KarmaSutra]

Clarify. She called you an AFC?

 

[SharinganUser]

No, she just said I was to expressive and that it was making her feel upset.


Note: She is in India right now, I am in China.

 

[tick37]

She told you not email her for a while. Then don't. If she's worried about you, she'll ping you a little harder.

 

[KarmaSutra]

Brother, with all of that delicious chinese cuisine to dine on why in the hell are you worried about a girl in India?

Best thing to do is eat all the Ziyi Zhang you can and move on with your life.

Don't eat the Sum-Yung-Guy though !

 

[MacAvoy]

Brother, with all of that delicious chinese cuisine to dine on why in the hell are you worried about a girl in India?

Best thing to do is eat all the Ziyi Zhang you can and move on with your life.

X2

Don't eat the Sum-Yung-Guy though !

QUOTE OF THE DAY

 

[SharinganUser]

Hahaha, yeah, but I think I've had my fill so far.

This is what I was going to send back.

"I am ok. I am thinking to go back to Kunming, I can practice taekwondo and Karate there. It is good exercise for me. "

 

[KarmaSutra]

Hahaha, yeah, but I think I've had my fill so far.

This is what I was going to send back.

"I am ok. I am thinking to go back to Kunming, I can practice taekwondo and Karate there. It is good exercise for me. "

Don't repond at all. Just let it go. Once you have the eye of another honey pot you'll quickly forget about this one.

Delete the email from your mailbox and then from trash and forget you ever got it. If you answer it she'll have her closure from you and the attention she thinks has you in a stranglehold.

 

[SharinganUser]

I think I'll just try what tick says and then if that doesn't work I can still hit the delete button.

 

[MacAvoy]

Do you realize that your asking advice on how to get a chick that is in a different country? Do you know how AFC that sounds? No wonder she told you to back off! Give your head a shake, your smarter than that.

 

[SharinganUser]

arg, it's frustrating what a really good **** can do to me.

I really just want to be on good terms with this chick. Not trying to get with her anymore. What ever I decide to do, I am going to sleep on it for tonight. It's one email and it's not going to ruin my life.

I don't even know why I posted this. It's not a big deal either way. I'll just go with my gut.

 

[SharinganUser]

I know you guys are going to say I did something afc, but I just decided to respond "I'm ok." At this point I couldn't really give a crap if it validates her, she's crazy and I did what felt natural to me, while still being unexpressive.

I am hungry and tired, so I am a log off now and go to a concert tomarrow, and meet some new girls.

It's done now, so go and help people that really need your help. I am moving on.

 

[ZenGodMod]

arg, it's frustrating what a really good **** can do to me.

I really just want to be on good terms with this chick. Not trying to get with her anymore. What ever I decide to do, I am going to sleep on it for tonight. It's one email and it's not going to ruin my life.

I don't even know why I posted this. It's not a big deal either way. I'll just go with my gut.

Before you become a lost cause. Shut up, delete that email, delete that address and just think if that email wasn't there in the first place would you be behaving like a AFC just way you are doing now?

When Karma gives you advice son, OBEY IT. Cause that ain't a joke!

 

[DonGorgon]

Tell her no you are not OK cause you are busy as hell but you will get back to her when time permits... Never get back to her let her contact you again then set up a date like you are doing her a favor..

 

[tick37]

I know you guys are going to say I did something afc, but I just decided to respond "I'm ok." At this point I couldn't really give a crap if it validates her, she's crazy and I did what felt natural to me, while still being unexpressive.

I am hungry and tired, so I am a log off now and go to a concert tomarrow, and meet some new girls.

It's done now, so go and help people that really need your help. I am moving on.

What feels natural is probably the wrong thing to do. Ask yourself whether you acted out of some type of fear. If so, you did the wrong thing. The game is counterintuitive.

 

[Vice]

Tell her that you're doing awesome!

That way she knows that she hasn't affected you.

No brainer.

 

[DonJuan11]

A chick that I had sex with about a month ago told me last week not email her for a while because I was basically not taking her feelings into account because I was really acting like an afc.

She said I was being to expressive.

Now she has just sent me an email saying "Are you ok?"

How do I respond to this?

"I am great. How are you?"

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[MacAvoy]

Tell her that you're doing awesome!

That way she knows that she hasn't affected you.

No brainer.

"I am great. How are you?"

You guys realize that your encouraging him to keep chasing a women in a totally different county when he's already admitted to acting too AFC?

 

[KarmaSutra]

You guys realize that your encouraging him to keep chasing a women in a totally different county when he's already admitted to acting too AFC?

Brother MacAvoy, they don't understand what makes a man worth his weight.

How can they give any other advice if they haven't grown themselves?

Just let it slide and let's you and I keep helping those with knowledge we've experienced and internalized.

 

[MacAvoy]

I hear ya bro, I'm just tryin to help the two posters grow by trying to encourage them to look at the entire picture before posting. Too many guys around here chime in for the sake of practicing their typing skills without reading the entire thread. I can understand not reading all the replies but they should at least read all of the OP's replies.