GOT the number but...

[silkkster]

ok so there is this woman who works at a store around here...i poped in for about 3-4 mins last week just about everyday just to try to get to know her a little and build a little rapor i guess. so i could see she was interester, plenty of eye contact, waving, smiling. So today i went in there and talked to her, asked about 2 questions then asked for her number - she said she had a boyfriend (now im not too sure because i asked one of the other store clerks last week if this woman had a BF and they said no so). but so she said she had a bf, i said "SO, we can still hangout, get to know eachother".. then she gave me her number, i told her i had to go...and so.. do you think she may have been lying about the bf or?. also where should i go from here, best to ask for a casual date (i.e. bowling, coffee, lunch) or..any ideas? thanks

 

[jakethasnake]

Simple. Call her, arrange to go on a date. If you do end up meeting her, have a nice time, try to create a sexual state in her, then attempt to kiss her at the end of the night. Don't play that "Friend game" - lay it all on the line. If she rebuffs and says she has a man, then just let her loose and start over. Try not to think too much man.

 

[bossdog]

Do not do the above. Do not ask her out on a date. Depending on how old you are ask her to join you for cofee or something. Tell her you have the coolest thing back at your apartment but she has to promise not to laught at it. Now her curiosity will come into play and shell be agreeing not to laught at it and at the same time to go over to your place where you can **** her.

 

[golf299]

do not do the above. follow jakethasnake and you should be good to go.

 

[Cutiepiie]

lol .... I think these guys are trying to get you laid Which is not a bad idea, except the fact she has a so called "boyfriend". If she truely has a boyfriend she wont let it proceed that far.

My thing is if she has a boyfriend or tells you she does... bro she dont want you like that. All that flirting just means she thinks your kinda cute.

Call her and conversate with her on the phone. After the first conversation you should know if she has a "real" boyfriend and how much she wants to be with him because thats all she will be talking about.

 

[DeathDealer]

When girls won't give you their number, they don't want to hang out with you at all. She might be interested in hanging out but as a friend because...

When girls tell you they have a boyfriend, she doesn't want to be romantically involved with you.

 

[Yeto]

I think she does not want to be involved with you in a sexual way, she gave you her phone number because some of them can't say no, on the other hand, if she cant say no to this, maybe she cant say no to another things...