got #, text msg, chat online, where are we at?

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well i met this girl online...we exchanged pictures -

we're local to each other and i planned to meet her or whatever...she's pretty cute and i wouldn't mind being her boyfriend.

i asked for her # like the 2nd day we started talking and she said "i'll give it to you if i like what i hear"--so ok sounds like this girl has some game ..lol. so like the next day she agreed to give me her #, so i asked her if i she wanted mine so she said yea, and we did a mutual exchange.

i didn't call her at all. i wanted her to call me first. anyone so what happens is she doesn't call me, but she starts text messaging me with "hi", "i'm bored", "i'm in class", etc. for like 2-3 weeks we are only doing text messages. finally i start reading on here that text messages are bad and not to do them, etc.

i tried calling her on a second occasion and got an answering machine. so i'm done with calling now...

but then she IMs me online and apologizes for not answering the phone...she said sorry. so i'm like ok, i think she doesn't wanna talk to me, so i'll just leave it be.

she continues to text me with i'm bored, etc...i just totally stopped responding and since i'm not gonna call she starts to IM me again.

so anyway she IMs me the next day and sends me 4 new pictures of her with one being in her prom dress (looks pretty damn hot...showing leg, etc...) the rest of the pictures show her with a big bright smile...

i replied with a new picture of me, and she said to send her more and to send her a picture of me smiling. i told her i don't smile...and she just said c'mon and kept begging for a new picture. she kept on begging and begging so finally i asked her if it was ok if she mind i send a picture without my shirt...she just said "if you think you have a good body then yea" so i said "my body rocks" ...so whatever i sent her a picture of me without my shirt...

next day she IMs me again
"what's something good to do on a Saturday night?" basically i tell her some fun stuff to do and she explains she's looking for some places to take her cousin (I really think this is just her subtle way of figuring out more about me...) one part of the convo i told her she should consider Ice Skating and that's fun...she replied with her b/f works at there...so i just replied "cool' and moved on

but anyway that's where things are. it's kind of messed up. my guess would be that she's not comfortable talking to me on the phone because of her previous actions. and since i'm not gonna talk to her via text message anymore, i guess we only talk online. but i don't know, maybe she just wants to take things slower...but anyway, looking for some more insight from wiser people...
 
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Why are you txt msging when you have her number?? why did you ask for her mbr ??? The purpose is to meet with her!!.:rolleyes:
 
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if you read thru everything I posted I made it clear that I'm no longer texting.
 

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but yes, i'm still IMing her (talking to her on AIM).
 
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Originally posted by phish
she starts text messaging me with "hi", "i'm bored", "i'm in class", etc. for like 2-3 weeks we are only doing text messages. .
Sorry bro - this is not 'normal'!!! She thinks something is wrong with you if you are talking to her onlline when you already have her number!! See her in person - otherwise quit 'talking' to her!!!!!!!!
 

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Re: Re: got #, text msg, chat online, where are we at?

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Sorry bro - this is not 'normal'!!! She thinks something is wrong with you if you are talking to her onlline when you already have her number!! See her in person - otherwise quit 'talking' to her!!!!!!!!
"see her in person"

hmm ok...how else am i gonna "see her in person" unless I TALK to her?
 

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so basically you're suggesting ignoring her IMs and don't talk to her online, am i correct?

so seeing how i never met her, I thought IMs would be good... because there is a since of rapport that can be developed from it...then possibly upgrade to phone calls since it seems from her previous actions that she's not ready...
 
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Say this, "You sound like a person who I would like to meet - lets get together saturday for some mini-golf/bowling/hockey whatever!!

What good is a woman over the net/phone - she is a abstract illusion - see her in person and quit prolonging the inevitable!! The purpose of your contacting her is to see her - right????

Trust me - if you quit sms/im'ing her she will want to see you and she'll suggest it!! Men don't spend 7 weeks to see a girl - hell, you may not even like her!!!! Do it now!!!
 

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well my original feeling when I called 2-3 times and I didn't get to hear her voice that something was wrong and even though I got the # she wasn't "ready" to talk to me. so this is why i let off and i'm holding off on calling her now...I mean after all she can always call me, right?

i figured that by talking to her online at least things between use would ease up and she would develop more rapport. i suppose I could just ignore her all together (IMs, SMS) and wait for her to call, but god knows that will probably never happnen...
 
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For crying out loud - whatever you do ask her out - TODAY~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! QUIT AVOIDING THE INEVITABLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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Ok I'm unclear. You said b/f...this could mean boyfriend or best friend. If it means boyfriend,

WHY ARE YOU STILL TALKING TO HER?

NEXT NEXT NEXT.
 
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B/F - WHAT???? She has a b/f??

You sent her a pic of you with your shirt off????? Are you a bytch?? Dudes don't send girl pics with their shirt off - hors do that!!!!!!!!!
 

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
You sent her a pic of you with your shirt off????? Are you a bytch?? Dudes don't send girl pics with their shirt off - hors do that!!!!!!!!!
I fail to see what's wrong with sending a shirtless pic...
 
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Originally posted by triple_ultima
I fail to see what's wrong with sending a shirtless pic...
You are of the 'effeminate' generation and cannot grasp what is real!!!!
 

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
You are of the 'effeminate' generation and cannot grasp what is real!!!!
You are a bigot and homophobe. Now we're even.
 
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Triple - you are a fag and u r officially on the homo list!!! I can tell by your responses that you are a fag!!

Say no to Ho-mos!!
 
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This girl tells him that she is bored and he still doesn't get the hint!!! Too much talking and not enough doing!!
 

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PuertoRican, tell me... Do jerks easily pick up women? Just thought you would know best out of most people on this site.
 
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Zang, there is no such thing as a 'Jerk' - a woman is attracted to a man with MASCULINE qualities - and that is all!!! The 'Jerk' guy is just a title that was described when the internet came about - it is really meaningless!
 
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