got tested.. did i pass?

[sexy_kuta]

K please before you flame me, i though posting here would get more better responses due to the more people with experiences.. so dont flame please

well i been tryin to hook up with a chick who is one year older than me.. i played it cool, i never let the age difference act like it bugged me.. i showed her confidence.. talked to her on the phone a few times, maybe 3 the most..and some time on MSN.. but i didnt give any too much info about me

i got her by the ropes, she would give me commiaments(sp?) such as "why are you younger than me? you seem like the perfect man"

or " your the first guy i met that doesnt do drugs" and small shiit like that

but of course i didnt; let those come to me.. cuz i know its probably bull****

anyways the first date came.. i planned it with her at night so she could go to bed thinkking of me which she probably did cuz im a good talker

i flirt with her alot and stuff

so the date came.. we just went shopping around the mall
before i ended the call she was like "i hope your the same person 2morrow as you are now or i'd be pissed" so i knew she went to bed thinking about me


she seemed different though
like i could sense it clearly she was being a biitch on purpose.

she tried to get me to follow her around.. she acted like she didnt need me.. she said a few times(you can leave go leave) and i said i didnt want too. of course i didnt let her rudness get to me. i played it cool.

i even took all the attention from her and gave it to some other girl. a friend actually who was smoking hot and i was kinda flirting with her about 5 min then took off

she kept saying rude things so i knew right there. there isnt going to be a future for the both of us.. so i just played along.. i seen this NICE>> NICE cute gurl working in the food court..she smiled at me. i told the gurl who i was with that i be right back i have to talk to a friend..
i flirted with the girl at the food court. i talked about which meal is better and what do u reccomend.. i got her to smile lots and laugh at the same time.. but her manager was right beside her the whole time..what an A-hole.. so me not being a jackass i didnt try to get her fired... i just left without a number. and after the flirting and a seductive smile she smiled back the same way...

i got back to the gurl i was with and she tried to flake me.. she told me she met these three guys while i was gone and they exchange numbers. im like Cool what was his name.. i acted like it didnt bug me and i changed the subject quickly.. after 5 min she asked me" dont you feel like your gettin played>" i told her no because we arent dating yet

she replied" still if i was with someone and they got somebody elses number while they were with me, i'd be pissed

then she continue with the rudness
and said things like "u can leave if u want, i dont need you here" so i was like naw you can leave..

so she did and i walked away without looking back.. i could see her following me after, from the corner of my eyes but of course i never looked back.. and she came around the mall and walked pass me and i just smiled and went downstairs and left..

one thing that is bugging me..why would she put on the rude act? i wasted my time and my fricking 2 dollars and 50 cent for the fruit drink that I Bought for MYSELf. i made her pay for her own self

 

[blinkwatt]

Sounds like you got a little over your head and took advantage of your don jaun skills. I would not really hit on other chicks while on a date.
Just act like you dont care. If she says she gave number to three guys tell her,"WOW three someone is getting popular" in a sarcastic voice. Girls lie about alot to try and piss us off. Just take it as what it is,they are trying do not let the succed. If she doesnt like you talk to othe chicks just tell her "people would riot in the streets if i only talked to one chick" in a seriuos voice.

 

[foomee]

wow... from your story i don't think she really wants you anymore. you just acted like a plain old *******. that's not gonna work...

 

[sexy_kuta]

Originally posted by foomee
wow... from your story i don't think she really wants you anymore. you just acted like a plain old *******. that's not gonna work...

oh i dont care.. i dont want her either

her additude turned me off

what makes me wonder is why did she test me and what could i have done to improve it so for further references i will be
better

 

[sexy_kuta]

oh yea in the beginning she would talk about how i had to meet a few of her friends so she could get my approval...

she denied my kino too!

she had this big ring.. and i grabbed her hand slowly and softy and said nice ring.. she moved her hand away then showed me the ring on her own..

 

[Tha Realnezz]

Originally posted by sexy_kuta
oh yea in the beginning she would talk about how i had to meet a few of her friends so she could get my approval...

she denied my kino too!

she had this big ring.. and i grabbed her hand slowly and softy and said nice ring.. she moved her hand away then showed me the ring on her own..

Women have NO funnybone,broh.

There are never intentionally funny they come off corny or mean.I think she was trying to be cute with her **** and she just came off as a *****.

You should have been upfront about it yet polite to know blow the date...

Ask her what her problem was that day.Women don't expect sincerity,but that's what they want.


It wouldn't fawk with her anymore It can be salvaged but she might hold this against you and play it on you when you least expect it.

Move on.

 

[Good_ol_boy]

Originally posted by sexy_kuta
oh i dont care.. i dont want her either

her additude turned me off

what makes me wonder is why did she test me and what could i have done to improve it so for further references i will be
better

When you decided she had a bad attitude and you were no longer intrested, you should have ended the "date" right then and there. No going off and trying to make her jealous etc. Who knows, might have changed her attitude for a later try.

 

[sexy_kuta]

Originally posted by Good_ol_boy
When you decided she had a bad attitude and you were no longer intrested, you should have ended the "date" right then and there. No going off and trying to make her jealous etc. Who knows, might have changed her attitude for a later try.

yeh maybe

o well i already next her, i hope she doesnt calll back

 

[Jariel]

I think you handled it well considering the sh1t she threw at you. BUT, you really shouldn't be tolerating this at all and show her that you find her behaviour a turn off (i.e. back off and be a bit cool with her).

Also ask yourself, even if she's interested, do you really want to put up with these games long term? I've had a lot of girls play this crap with me and I can tell you even if you get with them, they're not worth it overall and can shatter your confidence.

However, well done on handling it without compromising your pride and turning into a clingy wreck, like a lot of guys would.

 

[sexy_kuta]

Originally posted by Jariel
I think you handled it well considering the sh1t she threw at you. BUT, you really shouldn't be tolerating this at all and show her that you find her behaviour a turn off (i.e. back off and be a bit cool with her).

Also ask yourself, even if she's interested, do you really want to put up with these games long term? I've had a lot of girls play this crap with me and I can tell you even if you get with them, they're not worth it overall and can shatter your confidence.

However, well done on handling it without compromising your pride and turning into a clingy wreck, like a lot of guys would.

thanks bro, yeh i wouldnt let myself be put up with this crap.. helll no. If she calls me again, I'll play it cool and tell her straight up what was her problem. I found it a major turn off

 

[d9930380]

Something happened to me similar to that. I was on a date a year ago with a girl who was naturally rude and by the end we where **** ass drunk and headed into the club.

Anyway - she went off to the toilet and while she was away I started snogging some random, I don't even remember seeing her - I just remember seeing the first girl seeing us. Anyway after that we agreed to a snogging contest..... She won. ;-( - Served me right.

We went on a second date - 3 days later. That was fun too.

Don't necessarily next her. Keep her around and try to turn her into a FB.

 

[jonwon]

K please before you flame me, i though posting here would get more better responses due to the more people with experiences.. so dont flame please

well i been tryin to hook up with a chick who is one year older than me.. i played it cool, i never let the age difference act like it bugged me.. i showed her confidence.. talked to her on the phone a few times, maybe 3 the most..and some time on MSN.. but i didnt give any too much info about me

i got her by the ropes, she would give me commiaments(sp?) such as "why are you younger than me? you seem like the perfect man"

or " your the first guy i met that doesnt do drugs" and small shiit like that

but of course i didnt; let those come to me.. cuz i know its probably bull****

anyways the first date came.. i planned it with her at night so she could go to bed thinkking of me which she probably did cuz im a good talker

i flirt with her alot and stuff

so the date came.. we just went shopping around the mall
before i ended the call she was like "i hope your the same person 2morrow as you are now or i'd be pissed" so i knew she went to bed thinking about me


she seemed different though
like i could sense it clearly she was being a biitch on purpose.

she tried to get me to follow her around.. she acted like she didnt need me.. she said a few times(you can leave go leave) and i said i didnt want too. of course i didnt let her rudness get to me. i played it cool.

i even took all the attention from her and gave it to some other girl. a friend actually who was smoking hot and i was kinda flirting with her about 5 min then took off

she kept saying rude things so i knew right there. there isnt going to be a future for the both of us.. so i just played along.. i seen this NICE>> NICE cute gurl working in the food court..she smiled at me. i told the gurl who i was with that i be right back i have to talk to a friend..
i flirted with the girl at the food court. i talked about which meal is better and what do u reccomend.. i got her to smile lots and laugh at the same time.. but her manager was right beside her the whole time..what an A-hole.. so me not being a jackass i didnt try to get her fired... i just left without a number. and after the flirting and a seductive smile she smiled back the same way...

i got back to the gurl i was with and she tried to flake me.. she told me she met these three guys while i was gone and they exchange numbers. im like Cool what was his name.. i acted like it didnt bug me and i changed the subject quickly.. after 5 min she asked me" dont you feel like your gettin played>" i told her no because we arent dating yet

she replied" still if i was with someone and they got somebody elses number while they were with me, i'd be pissed

then she continue with the rudness
and said things like "u can leave if u want, i dont need you here" so i was like naw you can leave..

so she did and i walked away without looking back.. i could see her following me after, from the corner of my eyes but of course i never looked back.. and she came around the mall and walked pass me and i just smiled and went downstairs and left..

one thing that is bugging me..why would she put on the rude act? i wasted my time and my fricking 2 dollars and 50 cent for the fruit drink that I Bought for MYSELf. i made her pay for her own self

Man this girl is hot for you, do some ground work and you may be able to pull it back, its not all ball busting she is looking for some fluff sh**.

She is being piss** and testing your loyalty!

You did more then fine but the last one where you said fine go then was very wrong, you have to take the rough with the smooth.

You should have said "Ahh you getting jealous, lets go for a drink and we can have a chat" Took her to the nearest bar and given her some attention, it is what she wanted.

Give her a ring be cool.

Say hey not sure what went on that day at the mall i was having a good time too, lets turn back the clock and do it again, lets say me and you hitting a flim, no chicks in shops, just us two, it will be great!

Leave it there she may most likly sh** test you more, just be cool and ride it out, the best you can.
Oh and tell her to drop the act, you dont buy it.

 

[tmpgstx]

You're the first guy she met that didn't do drugs ..sounds like a sweet girl alright ..lol. Makes you wonder wheres she's been who she did 'em with doesn't it.

 

[ima str8 up pimp]

sexy kuta you're a fool. It's obvious what she wants, and will still probably take from you? You needed to take controlI mean c'mon you're sitting there trying to "play it cool", and **** when what you need to do is just straight up tell her some nice things, put your arms around her. That Bull ****. You took **** too far in the wrong direction asswhole.

 

[sexy_kuta]

LOl guys

it was a first date.. and it was over 6 months ago

she was a tom girl and i wasnt interested in her

first time i seen her

fuk all that shiiiit i cut that ***** off

im in a healthy relationship with a girl whos 100x better that dis hooeee

girl had problems too she kept talkin black like she was from compton LOL

GOD SAKE HER HANDS WERE BIGGER THAN MINE! lol

 

[sexy_kuta]

sexy kuta you're a fool. It's obvious what she wants, and will still probably take from you? You needed to take controlI mean c'mon you're sitting there trying to "play it cool", and **** when what you need to do is just straight up tell her some nice things, put your arms around her. That Bull ****. You took **** too far in the wrong direction asswhole.

dont be callin me names buddy
first i dont know u and u dont know me, dont disrespect me

why should i bust my balls for some girl? for some girl??? that i lost interest

fuk that i picked up another girl the next day

the way i see it i shouldnt sweat nothing

 

[sexy_kuta]

K GUYS UPDATE

i PULLED THISS CHICK MAN haha

couldnt let it go to waste!

i been talking. now shes playin hard to get LOl but im riding it cool

****y and funny tech..

any one got advice?

 

[Randomer]

well, for one... if it's really a date between you two, i would definitely not go up to other girls and leave your girl to flirt with them, really what is the point? I'm not surprised that she said she exchanged phone numbers with some other guys, she acted accordingly to "get even." If you wanted to get some other girls numbers that day, I would've just left for a while when she said that you could... lol, anyway to each his own but i wouldn't have stood for that terrible attitude without saying anything to her about it, i'd have probably teased the hell out of her for that...

anyway i like how you were so over with her 6 months ago but now you're back in and excited as ever... just watch it, and don't forget past experiences with her...

 

[ima str8 up pimp]

lol Nice job ... you know what to do now mang, sensitivity sounds best in your situation wouldn't you say?

You know what to do, just don't be intimidated.

ahh, yah know what?

Plan an evening out with her and do what you do from there..

lol ahh ehh You know what I do? I just let the girl talk her brains out, and act like you're admiring her and what not.

She'll feel like she's all close to you. And then move in, just be comfortable mang :yes: .

You've got it, congrats.

 

[blinkwatt]

sexy_kuta you did well. I went out a chick like this once 3 months ago(she had and still has a boyfriend),she still texts me and calls me once a week or so just to see whats up. She is a attention ***** and is used to every guy giving her what she wants. You answered her test right,I dont care what anyone says. I will be willing to bet that if you dont contact her she will contact you one way or another. Just dont let her have her way.
The best way to add the slightest bit of caring/nice that will get your point across would be lines along the lines of "thats a nice shirt,it really brings out your eyes,too bad it would it would look better on my bedroom floor" and smile. Her jaw will hit the ground.
Just some more examples of how to play the sex card with these types of girls;
they say "fcuk you" when you are teasing them,respond with "when and where?",or when they say "I'm bored" respond with "Well then,I will sex you right up then". Just get used to sexual talk around them.