Got stood up today...

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Just do what Don Juannabe said, it's the most logical thing in this situation. If she didn't care so much to go out on the date with you, don't give her a ******* reason to care about her.

Show her you have an attitude, and won't take $hit from any girl. Girls love this seeing as it shows you are a dominant person and are confident in your sexuality no matter what occurs.
 

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i did try to call her, about 2 minutes before i left.

I started thinking... I better call before I get pissed in case she just got crippled in a car accident.


she didn't answer, i don't leave messages.

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I'll give you a little background. When I first met this girl, I could tell I had her IL high... but not high enough. So I played ganja games. I talked and dj'ed everyone around. She would occasionally ask, 'why don't you ever talk to me'... I replied.... "I just don't have anything to say"... So I really slowly broke her in, kino and teasing... Before you knew it, she bit hard... then this happened.

The only thing i can figure out... She called me twice before I ever called her. Then I called her twice, asking her out on the second time (the first time I simply didn't have time to go out w/her) ....But the three times we talked she was always the one hanging up first. I would get so mad at myself, just when I was getting ready to end it, b/c I was so busy... She would beat me to it. Thats the only AFC thing I've done.
 

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Bootlegger, you did get stood up. She would have let you know by now as to why if she really cared enough.

You're being an 'AFC' by overanalyzing everything though too. It's natural to do when we like someone, but overdoing it down to what she said, and i said type of thing is too much. It wreaks of insecurities.

If she don't call you back and has called ID, then she isn't that interested. It doesn't mean you can't get her out later, but would you really want to? If you do, then you're an AFC, full well knowing she stood you up, if that is what she did.
 

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I took your advice. I don't want a girl who disrespects my time.

On the other hand.... She called me today. There was NO mention of the coffee date from either party. I didn't treat her any different either.

Our conversation consisted of her trying to get me to get a job at this new restaurant in town that she was just hired at. (we are both servers and thats how we met). I told her several times I wasn't really interested in leaving where I am now.

But one other thing I'd like to get some comments on... She is always saying these comments and I'm not sure what they mean... Comments such as:
"You know you think of me when your with other girls"
"You should come to work here, we get to wear jeans, I'll let you touch my ass if you come"
"You think I'm great don't you, its my smile, people love my smile"
"Don't I look hot tonight?"
etc etc...

Like she is searching for a compliment... Compliments which I've never given her.

Why does she do this ???
 

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Can't figure out what she's up to but I just had to reply to this....

"You should come to work here, we get to wear jeans, I'll let you touch my ass if you come"
If she says that again say this "If you let me touch your ass then I will DEFINITELY come" :D
 

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Originally posted by bootlegger
I took your advice. I don't want a girl who disrespects my time.

On the other hand.... She called me today. There was NO mention of the coffee date from either party. I didn't treat her any different either.

Our conversation consisted of her trying to get me to get a job at this new restaurant in town that she was just hired at. (we are both servers and thats how we met). I told her several times I wasn't really interested in leaving where I am now.

But one other thing I'd like to get some comments on... She is always saying these comments and I'm not sure what they mean... Comments such as:
"You know you think of me when your with other girls"
"You should come to work here, we get to wear jeans, I'll let you touch my ass if you come"
"You think I'm great don't you, its my smile, people love my smile"
"Don't I look hot tonight?"
etc etc...

Like she is searching for a compliment... Compliments which I've never given her.

Why does she do this ???
OH FOR THE LOVE OF GOD!

She's an attention ***** to the extreme. Drop her completely. Stop talking to her. Don't return her phone calls. She's only using you for an ego boost. Don't give it to her.
 

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Originally posted by Ever onward
Can't figure out what she's up to but I just had to reply to this....



If she says that again say this "If you let me touch your ass then I will DEFINITELY come" :D

always good to see my favorite poster
 
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Based on her comments this hor disrespected you and now is rubbing it in your face and you are listening to her tease you about something that she and you know that you will not ever get!!!! Then this ho has the nerve to ask you for a favor??? HUH???

This bytch knows that she left you hanging and yet she doesn't apologize and talks to you as if she did nothing wrong!!!! HUH??? And you have the patience to put up with her disrespect?? WHY??????

Quit being a docile fool - tell this hor to go to hell !!!! Because of her blatant disrespect of you the next time she calls tell her, "Why not be a good little hor and give me a piece as you have done to many men before me!!!" If she says "No", then say, "Then why am I talikng to you" --- then hang up and don't talk to her again!!!!!!
 

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Forget her.

I don't care if it's friggin' Britney Spears. If someone stands me up, then it's over. The only way I'll allow it is if she contacts me in 24 hours. And the only exception I'll make to that is if she goes into a coma.


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Lol, I some how missed the conversation between you and her and now have to edit :(

Anyway I re-read your post, and she's not worth you thinking about all this stuff. Just move on and if she wants your attention, she's gotta do more than just flaunt her ass if front of your face.
 

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You need to let this chick know what YOU'RE about. So next her.

kthxbai =]
 

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2 schools of thought on what you should do

i agree with both but like you i have a very low tolerance level for flakey b*tches

Don Juanabbe's makes a good point not to give the game away so early and play it cool

i have heard people use spider 007's idea of "you can make it up to me by cooking me dinner thursday night" etc ( maybe was DD ? )

i think i would be like you and be angry lol

i have gotten better since i was last posting on the forums a year ago

in the past i would have be more likely to do what PRL said and go nuts lol


so here is my 2 cents

get 4 more chicks into your routine ASAP

if you had 4 other chicks in your routine would you be so angry or think " it's her loss " and keep on truckin'

no anger from oneitis. anger from feminist liberation is ok.

i take Don Juanabbe's idea
At this point, she has relegated herself to the "Chicks I play mind games on" category.

Treat it like the game it is and amuse yourself doing it.


mix it with some other ideas

Quote - WeakMenNeverRise
bytches are a dime a dozen playa. Gettin mad, and being like screw her, especially so soon, is straight simpin(AFC) man.


wisdom here

anger leads to hate and hate leads to the dark side of DJ

i would have phoned her at time of date and said "where are you"

and i am gunna lay the smack down on the AFC idea that

if a b*tch flakes on you SHE MUST HAVE BEEN HIT BY A BUS

2% emergency for no show so go with the odds here and squirrels call to see whats up sorts this out

you have a job and she is trying to relocate you ?

that is weird in my opinion

asking for comments

"You know you think of me when your with other girls"

GRADE A ATTENTION WH0RE

my comeback : " yeah i think to myself how much better looking sharon is compared to you "

my DJ comeback : " ..... " think of something witty that calls her bluff and introduces competition to the other girls ie. they say they are the best at sex so i think you are making your claims up or can you prove this ?

"You should come to work here, we get to wear jeans, I'll let you touch my ass if you come"

THIS IS A TEST

you say : wow really
cool
sign me up
when do i start

YOU FAIL

i would say :
i have small hands so i don't know if you'd feel it ( meaning her ass is huge haha )

maybe pimp style
why don't you come over tonight and we'll cut out the middle man
this line sorts her intentions out straight up

BUT WE ALL KNOW SHE IS JUST PLAYING GAMES WITH YOU

so why not have some fun too ?

you might get a shock when she responds to you being ****ey and funny and passing her tests

"You think I'm great don't you, its my smile, people love my smile"

ATTENTION WH0RE promoted to ATTENTION WH0RE FIRST CLASS

my comebacks

i give her a strange look at her mouth and say have you got all your teeth ?

slap her off her mental throne

yeah oh ok but like are they real cause the two at the front down the bottom look false... well my cousing dave fell off a motor bike when he was young and got 2 false ones and they just look the same as the front two of yours , maybe it's the light in here ?

F*CK WITH HER MIND

great ? i think you're the best waitress at carrying soup i have ever seen , like the way you juggle the bowls 3 at a time is amazing

"Don't I look hot tonight?"

laugh at her
you look ok but those shoes... like seriously are they stilts ?

i dunno i seen a girl at the gas station earlier and i swear she was wearing the exact same outfit

maybe if she is going to the same club as you, you two can hang out and pretend to be twins *this will kill her lol watch how fast she changes clothes*

NOT NOT FEED HER EGO

there is a reason that you don't feed animals at the zoo

there are even signs

if you get bored of using her for making jokes of and you can't get her to get with your program

do what PRL said and slap her down pimp style




Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

Quote: Don Juanabbe
“ What are you Vanilla-bloody-Ice? “

Quote: Player_Supreme
“ But if a ho wants to just be friends then don't waste your time. And I'm a debase character so your hooking up with her friend in front of her was sweet to my ears. “

Quote: Player_Supreme
“I've taken a fat chick and put her on a diet and training program and created my own super ho. “

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“First off - she is just another hor who has opened her legs to another man - you are no one special - and there are no "Greatest" to hors - you are just the next pimp in line!!! “

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“ the 'pimp' mentality works today because you are living in a time such that there are an overabundance if hors - this is the Pimps playground!! Pimps and hors go together like bread and butter - they are complementary natures!!! Pimps need hors like hors need pimps!! “

Quote: squirrels
“ You NEVER pay as a supplicative or bargaining measure, though. The reward that she gets for her affection is YOUR affection. The reward she gets for her sex is YOUR sex. The second you start buying her stuff to keep her around, keep her entertained in your presence, etc...you're compensating for not having what it takes to seduce the woman, and that's totally unacceptable. “
 
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Let it up to lost-in-translation to break it down for us on the dynamics of a attention hor.

I'm more pissed about her hor tease comments and her acting as if things are ok and if nothing wrong ever happened in wasting dude's time!! She could have at least faked an excuse but to call him and avoid the topic altogether is scandalous!!

Also her comments that DJ lost-in-translation mentioned tells me that she knows that DJ bootlegger digs her to such an extent that he will put up with her bullshyt and take her disrespect!!!

Bootlegger, by seeming desperate for her company you gave her the power over you and she knows it!!! This puts you in a powerless position – and as a man that is completely unacceptable!!! Keep your dignity and never talk to a girl who has disrespected you!!! By you talking to her still she knows that you tolerate disrespect – women don’t respect men who tolerate disrespect and this makes you unattractive in her eyes!!

A man’s dignity is worth more than all of the pvssy in the world combined – SAY “NO” TO DISRESPECTFUL HOS!!!!
 

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Originally posted by bootlegger
"You know you think of me when your with other girls"
"You should come to work here, we get to wear jeans, I'll let you touch my ass if you come"
"You think I'm great don't you, its my smile, people love my smile"
"Don't I look hot tonight?"
etc etc...

She somehow knows you like her (girls can usually smell that when guys are obvious).

And when they know you like them more than they like you, it's basically game over.
 

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Yo Gonz, that's only with guys they really didn't like geniunely in the first place .. tis' the way of the attention ho.

This poor chappie .. really sticking it to him .. dangling the goods in front of his face, and then saying 'nope' .. not for you.

It's like she's on the menu and anyone else can order but he can only look and drool.
 

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I guess so. Attention ho's... gotta love em.
 
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